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Okay, so two of my friends, lets call them Maddy and Jenny, have been getting into a lot of fights lately about the dumbest things you can imagine (once they got into a fight because Jenny wouldn't share her chips). Everytime they fight, they drage my other friends, lets call them Tya and Linda, and me into their fights. Then, when we refuse to take a side, they somehow manage to twist our words for them. This fighting is really getting in between our group, what should we do?
By the way, I'm 13, a girl, and going into the 8th grade. (link)
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OH MY GOSh i hate middle school drama (thank Gosh i'm going to high school)
anyway okay i hate when friends drag me into a fight. I think you should
1. talk to them tell them how you feel. you want to still be friends with them you wish they would stop fighting and pulling you into it! (and Tya and Linda)
2. Make a plan with Tya and Linda that you would never say anything bad about them and tell them to pay attention to what Maddy and Jenny say about you. Explain to Tya and Linda that maddy and jenny are twisting their words around. You never know when Jenny or Maddy could make Tya or Linda turn on you just to get them on Jenny or Maddy's side.
3. I think you guys all should just sit down and talk about it. You're going to be in 8th grade and you should be able to figure it out. I lost a lot of my friends to not talking about it and fighting online and saying things about each other behind their backs etc. during the first few weeks of 8th grade! BE CAREFUL
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16/f what are fun things to do when you hang out with friends at home.. when my friend comes over, my mind goes blank lol. [something besides video games, movies, make-overs, nails...] (link)
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wow i just thought of these..and they're pretty stupid.
#1 drive in a very wealthy community and crank loud obnoxious top 40 muic.
#2 write on the sidewalk in chalk..gosh is it fun
#3 write a secret message on a family's drive way or draw them a pretty picture
#4 go ding dong ditching (it's fun)
#5 bake
#6 draw all over each other using these things idk what they're called but they're like shower crayons for kids i think klutz makes em...but draw all over each other then hose each other off. take picz!!
# 7 shaving cream/ soap and water on a trampoline and swim around in it
# 8 make posters for each other's rooms
#9 see how many cartwheels you can do in a row (dizzy)
#10 make a time capsule
#11 plant a tree or something..a plant and watch it grow over weeks!
#12 call random numbers talk in a british accent and fool people
# 13 start a journal together!!
hope i helped!! i think i really want to do numbers 3, 6, 8, 11, and 13. 13 the most tho :]
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Okay so I don't feel like having a party for my birthday but i just want to invite like a couple of my best friends over. I have no clue what to do except maybe music/dancing and movies. What other things could we do?
Im 14 by the way. thanks. (link)
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my mom had this idea for my bday...
have your mom give everyone 20 bucks like only invite a few friends...but go to the mall and tell them they can buy ANYTHING they want..or go to a thrift store because stuff is super cheep there and just buy crud.
i wanna do it :]!
hope i helped...
HAPPY BDAY IN ADVANCE!
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Ok, so well last year, i was kind of the queen bee of my grade.
then all my best friends left my school.
so i settled for the coolest one out of all the girls;
one girl who i fought with last year and this new girl.
they would always leave me (as in not wait for me if i was getting my stuff after class)
and now they're kind of closer and that mkaes our threesome (not like that...) kind of messsed up. i just want to be back on top again :]
HELP?!
thanks xoxo (link)
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first you shouldn't be worrying about ur social status. You shouldn't have to go for the coolest girls especially one you haven't gotten along with before. New girls are good, but they don't really have a reputation to withhold so they could turn their back on you at any moment. I was in a group like this, full of BS. If you wanna be on top, find another girl to add to your group. 3 is not a party, 4 is.
yep that's all i've got
hope i helped.
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Recently, I don't know why but it seems like all my friends either odn't like or, avoiding me, or loosing interest in me.
Some things that they do alot know is being very sarcastically mean like "Oh...realllllllyyyyy..."
And sometimes i need hlep with my work and when i have a huge assignment and go on, EVERYONE goes offline or says "Sorry, G2g!"
I'm so hurt, what should i do? Making new friends fast isn't a skill that I have and things are the same as usual so it's not that I'm saying things behind their back or anything (link)
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find out why they are doing this. Talk to them. If they can't give you respect start to hang out with some new friends. maybe they just don't want to do your assignments for you, i hate it when people ask me questions where i actually have to think. haha. Maybe invite them to do something really really fun, or hang out with them indivisually and like..act really really fun. If you get them in a group, they might focus on each other. be strong!
hope i helped :]
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