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Ok my best friend (J) is literally the most populariest girl in the entire school. Shes gorgeous, flirty, and outgoing/fun nice shes perfect. Shes always the center of attention. But some of the people who we both hang out with at school hate the fact that shes always the center of attention. They're jealous of her ahb-viousely. They all told her that in her face. She told me about this during lunch and now all her friends hate her. Shes such a boy magnet like all the guys fall for her. I dont really even mind. But she hates school. I dont understand what I should tell her? She cant help the fact that shes always the center of attention. Shes an out-going person and she wont change? What do you think she should do? (link)
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She should just be her. People are always gonna hate, and to those people just be you in SPITE of them. They aren't really her friends if they'd do that to her. Next time make sure she just laughs and tells them "You know what, I'd be jealous to."
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It seems like in my new town,[well,i've lived here since i was in 6th grade,now in 8th...13 yrs old.] i dont have any close friends!! No one ever want to hang out with me. i have a lot of school friends,but they never seem to want to hang out. i know im not interesting,how can i be? i don't know how to get close to anyone or let them in! i feel like im uptight,or quiet,but if they really knew me,im not! they always seem to have fun,but not outside school? i dont get it. how can i be closer to them? & dont says things like join a activitie,its almost the end of the year...kinda. no activities. and no "join a new group of friends" - every time i do that,the same thing happens. i feel so left out. they never want to make plans with me. what do i do? (link)
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Don't ever change for someone else. I have learned the very hard way that changing will only make people think your fake. My advice is to talk to everyone. I don't mean be friends with everyone you see. But try to strike up conversation with different people. If your "friends" only like you during school and dont want to hang out, then they arent friends to begin with. Try making plans with them yourself. Ask them to hang out at your house, movies, or just hang out at the mall. Offer the invite to a group, that way no one feels awkward or anything. If they keep avoiding hanging out with you then I strongly suggest trying to get new friends. I hope I helped
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theres this girl whos a complete bitch named sophia
i was talking to a guy on facebook and she commented that he should stop talking to me &shed explain later.
i dont want to stop talking to him.
would it be a completely bad idea to message him saying "what did sophia say about me?" (link)
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Asking what she said will make you seem insecure. Instead try telling him that whatever Sophia said shouldn't alter what he thinks of you. Let him know that she doesnt know you well enough to give someone else any ideas about you, and youd like to show him the real you without worrying that someone else is trying to make you seem different. That way you'll seem mature and confident in yourself, and probably make her seem like a total loser.
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Okay. It would be something like..
"I want you to hang out with me on my 16th birthday We can go blahblah place." But then when it's soon to happen, they tell me they can't hang out because they have to hang out with their parents..and ditching them would make them angry.
You know.. a really good reason..
Would that be lying or what? I CAN HANG OUT WITH YOU. except..NOT!
It's almost like the person is making the plans themselves.. and they don't mention it to their parents.. so things might not work out..
I'm not sure. Too many friends keep letting me down. (link)
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Your question completely lost me a few times. But I think I understand the main point. If your friend says they want you to hang out with them, that means they want to. And it also means that they aren't making anything permenant, more like just throwing the idea out there. Then they find out their parents want to be with them, and tell you they can't hang out. If that's what it is, then no they arent lying to you. I know it sucks, but it could just mean that they really do want to be with you, but their parents want them to be with them. You know what I mean? I hope I helped.
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i've liked a guy named .. dan, scine i was in 2nd grade, we went out when i was in 4th through 5th grade. but then 6th through 8th [until now, im in 8th] grade, i was over him. and last weekend we hung out, flirted. he lives next store to me, so were on the same bus and today he sat with me and we listened to his ipod. my plams got all sweaty, and my plams never get sweaty. i was nervous about like what to say and stuff. i neverrr get nervous with other guys! i wanna like .. make a move on him. i dont know like how i should. how should i? how should i let him know i like him?
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Just flat out tell him. It sounds like he still likes you, and you obviously still like him. Just let him know how you feel and see if he feels it back. Don't ask when they're are other people around though. Maybe when you get off the bus stop him before you walk away and let him know. That way he's most likely to be honest and not to feel pressured. Hope I helped
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