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My name is Kendall. I've had different advice columns before, and this is my new one. I'm good at giving advice, I'm always who my friends come to for help. I'm not here for ratings, I'm here to give people help with their problems. Just because I don't say what you want to hear doesn't mean you should rate me low, or leave rude feedback. The truth can't always be sugarcoated, because thats how life is. I specalize in friends, relationships, and style. I like when people ask questions to my Inbox. Thanks :)

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Well I'm not sure and I mean I'm Really not sure if I like my guy friend as a close friend like a brother or as a boyfriend. What are some signs or things that tell I probably like a guy as a more than a friend and as just a friend?

-flirting
-touching of any kind
-iM, talk on phone, text, a lot
-if he does any of the above
-if you have ever talked about liking each other


please, i'm warning you. don't screw up your friendship. going out with him could change everything. don't make that mistake unless you are positive it will work out.

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okay so my bestfriend got this bf who she has been dating for awhile now and im really happy for her. But i just feel like she is always with him. she sees him every weekend bc he doesnt got to our school. she will ask if i wanna hangout with her but i dont want to bc her bf is there and it would feel weird help plzz

If you really want to hang out with her, then go with her when she hangs out with her boyfriend. Tell her if things get weird. If she's really your friend, she'll understand. Try to hang out during the week maybe, after school.:)

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Ive got a friend, shes a girl, we were introduced by a mutual friend and pretty much hit things off right away, although at the time we were both interested in other ppl, we still got close and shared the feelings we had for eachother, but in the end decided that because of the 2 year age gap and because she lives so far away that we wouldnt date, unfortunitly the relationship i had didnt work out (supposedly because i was still "hung up" on this other girl). but fortunitly for my friend her relationship took off, and is now happy...i believe she knows that im still into her, even if shes no longer onto me, but would it be good of me as a friend to make it clear to her that i still have these feelings? or remain heartbroken over the fact that i cant have her?

I would tell her how you feel. If you admit to her that and she turns you down, then you know you can't have her and I would give up. But try one more time, and see what happens. Let me know :)

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I've known my friend since third grade and we werent always close friends, but since 6th grade we became best friends. In seventh grade I stopped being her friend for few months and I felt relieved, but at the same time I saw that she seemed like a good person and someone who I could be friends with, so we became friends again. Toward the end of seventh she drove me nuts but at the same time I still liked her. Things have been the same ever since then. Sometimes I cant stand her and dont know why I'm her friend and then 5 minutes later we're okay and I know that she is a good person. Almost everyone who knows her can't stand her and sometimes I definitely understand why, but then again she can be a good person and also she kind of has a hard life. The person she turns to for advice and just to listen is me and I try to help her, but seeing how apart of me cant stand her I would feel bad not being her friend, because I'm basically her only friend. Then again, she can be a real BEEP sometimes. There are these girls who are mean to her and she always says she will say something to them, which she really needs to and she never does, so I try to give her advice and tell her to stick up for herself and she flips out on me and cusses me out. So then I flip out on her and say why are you cussing me out when you should be doing that to them, because I'm the one thats your friend, not them. Our friendship is crazy, because I dont like her, but it's like the other half of me does, but one side can take over so quickly and then go away even quicker. Should I be her friend or not ? And if I do be her friend, what should I say to her,because things have to change.

I don't think you should be her friend. She seems like she has a few issues, and it's hard to deal with that. Unless you are really afraid to lose the good side of her, then I'd stop being her friend. I wouldn't want to deal with all of that either.

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im the kind of girl who is shy around people. and i got a new best friend this year but ive never had a best friend before ive had friends but none of them have ever thought of me as their best friend. so anyways, im tired of my best friend when she comes over to my house which is like only once every 2 months all she does is take pictures of herself with my camera, its kindof a old camera but she almost broke it by pulling on it, and im tired of her shes not that funny and i dont know if i should stop being her best friend because if i do i wont have 1 so what should i do?
thanx

If you don't like someone, you shouldn't be her bestfriend. If she disrespects your things and has annoying habits, I can see how you don't want her to be your friend. What about the other girl you mentioned? For the friends that you have, try to get to know them better. Ask them to hang out. Come out of your shell, and try not to be shy anymore. What's the worst that could happen if you ask somebody to go shopping, or sleepover?

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okay recently my best freinds boyufriend broke up with her and she was like really upset.....welll she said that she thought that he really like me and was just using her to get to me..and i think that is true becasuie of how he is acting round me and nmber one i DON"T want him an de ven if i did i woud never go out with him but what do i do i don't want to get mad at me isf she catches hiimflirtin with me but he won't tkae the hint and go away? I DON"T flirt with him back just to let you know.

Tell your friend when he flirts with you. When he flirts with you, just say, I don't like you. You broke up with my bestfriend!! Stop flirting with me. Tell her you don't like him and nothing would ever happen between them. He's probably just another jerk who uses girls to get to their friends.

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