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Q: Hi please help me! I have some nice friends but I'm not popular.In my neighberhood these group of girls are all friends and they don't include me but they are nice.I really want to get in their group but it doesn't work when I try.My other friends don't really like them and dont hang out with them.What should I do? I want to keep my old friends but make some new ones. I think maybe its time to move on and meet more people. sometimes im shy but when you know me i dont shutup!Please help me I'll rate good for anything!
Ok for starters...

who like PREPS?! I DONT!!!

if you want to meet new people GO FOR IT!
you never can have enough friends!

your buds should know just because you hang out
with other people doesnt mean your not still
there friends...

but whatever you do DONOT get caught up with
your new friends and forget your old friends

at least your old friends befriended you off the bat...now your going to have to struggle and impress these dumbass rich groupies to hang out with them..if i were you get to know them and if they are mean and rude forget them! BUT DONT DUMP YOUR OLD FRIENDS!! what if the new ones end up dumping you or dont like you!?

good luck with that

judith (the lil' helper) keep me updated! (:

Q: my best friend n i met eachother in 6th grade but we werent friends until 7th n for a year we had a lot of fun!! we did everything together and then she got into a fight w. another friend of mine towards the middle of 7th grade n we didnt talk to that friend for about 4 months n then i started talkin to her just hi n bye n then 8th grade started n me n that girl became more friends we went to her brothers football game together like once though n my best friend stopped talkin to me because of that yeah pretty stupid huh but now she wont talk to me its been like 1 week n 2 days n i just cant take it ne more cuz she wont talk.. wut should i do plz help me !! tnxs
She just seems very immature...and she needs to grow-up you sound cool, loving, and very concerned...she is lucky to have someone like you, if i were you talk to her and tell her you want to be friends but shes not allowing yall to be friends...tell her she needs to step up to the plate and be a better friend!!!!!!


there are alot of other peeeps in the world
who are more deserving for your friendship

good luck

judith (the lil' helper)

Q: im having a party . . wat should i have to eat and to do...don't be all perverted and say those nasty things...besides spin the bottle wat good games r there to play...the party is for grls n boys the age of 13.....help
Ok for starters!

FOOD: you can set up a little table with maybe a table cloth and put:

***cookies twizlers
chips any kind of candy
mnms skitels
popcorn dip and chips
pretzles
order pizza
pudding
punch

also for activitys i would do:

twister - truth or dare
hide and go seek *outside!!*
Card games, poker etc.
**did this on my b-day it rocks!*
go rapping!! ***friends house only!***
Trust...its a game where you make stuff up in the kitchen and friend...closes eyes and HAS to eat it...it keeps going till everyone IS GROSSED OUT!! so much fun!! PUT MUSIC ON!!! strike convos with everyone!!

HAVE FUN!!!!

judith (the lil' helper) keep me posted (O:!

Q: i was just wondering, what's a "redneck" ?
It is a term for:

Someone who wheres wranglers, boots, talks like, I dont know bout u but i aint goin to no school,
and listens to country music...

well there ya go!

judith (the lil' helper)

Q: Ok I really like this guy and he likes me to and weve liked eachother for a while and I dont know what to do about IT now hes saying im really hott and stuff he makes me feel good bout myself because I think im ugly (like most girls at my school think there ugly to) its just a normal thing and we will be on the phone and hell be like I love u la la la and stuff what should I do and how to I deal with this?
ok for starters...


ask yourself this...

how do you feel about him*
do you like him or his words?*
if you do like him tell him you do*

and if you guys go out WHOOHOO
AND NO! you ARE NOT ugly!!!!!!!!!!

good luck!!

judith (the lil' helper)

Q: Ron just asked me to go to the movies with him and his friend, Alex. Im bringin my friend Cayla too, so its like a double date. But Cayla doesnt like Alex and I think she's a little jealous of me and Ron. SOo0 should I say anythin to her or just wait n see if she likes Alex ?
Tell her:

A. hey gurl listen, I know you really dont like alex and all if you dont wanna go then please tell me now cuz I dont wanna hurt his feelings...he's really a great guy...

***THEN!!!*** say...and next time we can find someone different...just try him out...



hope it helps

judith

Q: Ok, I'm 14 and I have this friend. She truly is a nice person, but she flirts with EVERY GUY in sight. No joke. It really gets on my nerves, and plus she has a boyfriend anyway. And it's not just normal, friendly flirting--she hangs all over them and is always hugging all over them and stuff. Her boyfriend goes to another school, which happens to be convenient for her. Anywho, it gets on my nerves soo bad. How should I tell her that its not right? Or should I just lay low and hope she stops?
Ok I have the perfect answer for you! my best friend is alot like that, but she doesnt hang all on them or have a b/f she just flirts WITH EVERYONE!!! YIKES!!! ok this is what you do...
a. stop hanging out with her
b. Tell her nicely that you just wanna remind her she has a GREAT b/f and that she looks silly on all of the guys!! and say im really sorry but this is how i feel and if u love me and u are my friend you will respect my opionion...

alrighty hope it helps!!!

sincerly,
Judith (the lil' helper)

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Hey guys my names judith and I love giving advice and helping others! if you need some advice feel free to ask anytime! or even EMAIL ME!! @ judithanne89@hotmail.com


truly yours!

Judith (the lil' helper)

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