hello my name is Jacqui & i am 17 years old. i just finished my senior year in high school and right now i am studying the field of psychology. i plan to have to my first degree in psychology by the end of 2008. in high school i have studied many different courses of psychology including collge leveled so i am very experienced in helping people. i have gone through numerous hardenings in my life as well. im not perfect & i will only give the best advice that i can give to you. i am also hardworking & dedicated.
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I have lost so many important and special people in my life that now I don't know who to trust anymore. I am getting really close to someone (everyone I get close to is an adult) and I am afraid of getting hurt by her like everyone else I get close to. I have told her this and she says that shes not like the other people, but how do I know. This is a person that I wish were my mother because she is just so incredible and my mom doesnt care about me. What do I do? (link)
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I think you should tell her how you feel and that you don't think your mom cares about you half as much as she does. Maybe she will be there for you more than a mom and I'm sure whenever you need her she will be there for you! Like someone said if this is an adult, I don't think you have to worry about anything, especially getting hurt! If your still unsure hold this off a while until you know her in the best way you want to. Hope i helped XoJacXo
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This is really long, but I need help! Last year I befriended three girls in my class. They became my really good friends, but one of them was my best friend. One of the other girls isn't very nice to me this year, since her and my best friend used to be best friends. I think that she's jealous. So my best friend and I haven't been hanging around the other two that much just because they're not very nice to us and some other incidents have happened. We've started to hang out with another group. They seemed really mean last year, but this one girl left and now they're all nice. So all of us are really good friends and we all get along great. We've all become closer through church, sports, and school, so I see them all the time. She my best friend and I just leave our two 'ex' best friends alone? They seem to be happy, but I do feel sort of bad. I'd rather hang out with my newer friends though. Help!! (link)
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Don't feel bad I am sure they have found some new friends too. They were probably not your "real" friends anyways because those types of friends never get into fights. So i think your better off with you new friends in a new direction. XoJacXo
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my best friend always goes over to a girl named sarahs house.She goes over because sarah has an older brother and i guess julie (my best friend) thinks its really cool that she gets to do "stuff" with older guys after many times of this, the guys ALWAYS deny it when asked and NONE of then ever talk to her. Also my friend falls in love spontainiously (sp?) like one hour shes in love with one guy shes never met, and the next shes in love with another guy shes never met its really dumb and eventually i know she will get hurt but if i tell her that they are just using her then shes going to say no and be mad at me... please tell me somthing i can tell her (link)
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I think that it is a problem. It is ok if she goes over sarah's house to see sarah. Basically it sounds like she is using sarah to get closer to her brother, and doint stuff with older guys is against the law. Now you can call police on the guys if things get way out of hand, this is going to hurt her in the end. The guys are usuing her for things and she doesn't know it. Being open and vulnerable like this is bad, and something terrible can happen is this continues. Defidently make it stop by telling her that you care about her. xoJacxo
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my friend has had this off and on relationship with this guy.hes fingered her and made out alot and stuff but he goes off and does stuff like that with other people.shes like my best friend EVER and she calls me crying sayin hes makin out with some girl.it breaks my heart and i think she should leave him.all he does is break her hearrt.she deserves so much better but she claims she loves him so much.other times she hates him.can someone help me?im afraid im in the middle.
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Concerned Friend (link)
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I think your friend should leave him. Obviously she is hurting herself by claiming that she "loves" this guy when I think she has been mistaken. Don't let her become something she is not, sit down and talk to her about how bad he is treating her and how something like this can turn into an abusive relationship if nothing is done about it. You would rahter the issue be solved now than later when it can turn into a bigger deal.
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