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I used to be so outgoing, I would just totally be me, and go crazy and everyone loved me for that. But now I'm like constantly tryin to be popular and I'm to afraid of what people will think if I go back to my outgoing *personatlity* Any tips on how to go back to being the true me? I'Ll rate Lots

just try not to think about the other people, because when someone doesnt like something about your personality or looks its normally because theyre jealous, so just think of it that way, and just be yourself.

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i have the boy that i like number and i dont want to call it becuz im too scared. i dont know how will react to the fact that i got his number from my cousin. i took it from her phone. and i really don't know why i did it. and somehow i memorized it. i can't call it without my name being on the caller ID. and i dont know what to say to him. and i know what he's all about so i dont wanna do no mushy stuff if i do talk to him. and i dont want to forget about it becuz i think i would regret it. and most of my friends dont know him that well. and i really don't want to do three way with my friends anyway. so what do i do?

all i can say is talk to him more in person and after you get more comfortable around him then be like hey you wanna call me later? or hey can i call you later? or you can juss call him and talk to him about something he is interested in ya know? lemme know how it goes

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my friend is one of those people who is geneticly(frakishly)super skinney. no matter how much she eats or how lazy she gets she stays the same size. she is a great friend but sometimes she can be very inconsiderate of other people's feelings about their weight.she dosnt know how it feels to be fat or to feel fat. and she makes fun of people who look fat or chubby to her. this really makes me mad but being the quiet person i am i never say anything.im afraid if i confront her she will get upset with me because she dosnt understand.how do you think i should talk to her about it?

Maybe you should write her a letter and just tell her that it hurts to see her making fun of people that are bigger than her since she has NO idea how it feels, and if she considers you a friend or considers your feelings she will keep her comments to herself. Let me know how it all goes x0Sabina0x

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hey i need help i really dont know what to do..ok i liked this guy lets call him bo and my best friend knew that and she knew we were talking and she told me the other day that they were talking i was like whoa and she told me that she was going to tell him she liked this other guy better lets call him dru.well we had a party the other night and she was with bo and she left with him then the dru came over and he was pissed cause she wasnt there and she came bak and found out that he was ther and she started crying then the bo left and my friend and dru cuddled all night long ...then the next day after she told me that she was going to tell bo she liked dru instead i read her awaymessage and it said i love you bo i was like u stupid hoe and she told me to get over him and then i was talking to my other friend and she told me that my best friend was going out with dru but when i talked to her bo was over at her house...i dont know what i should do i mean she was my best friend and now she has the guy i liked

OMG!!!!!! You should tell "Dru"...and beat her ass!! lol

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i have alot of friends and stuff, but iv just started to realize that they might not be as true as i thought. i love them but i hate them, they just seem not to care anymore. i also have people calling me a whore and a slut and stuff like that wenever i walk by because my "friends" tell them stuff thats not true. how do i avoid something like that..and how do i know if my friends are true?

those arent true friends hun...if they are going around spreading rumors about u that arent even true they are not ur real friends and i suggest getting new ones...feel free to IM me with anymore questions.

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