hey my names amy and im here to help! i'll answer all your questions as best as i can and i hope i can help! I've been through alot and i can deal with almost anything... so.. BRING IT ON! lol you can always IM me online with AIM... on YiAlNuKvEdEaS.. thanks your great! love ya!
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ok well damn all those ppl who have ever said "i have a friend..." when they're really talking about themselves cuz they really screwed it up for me. neways my friend isnt exactly "hot" in guy terms or nething. so she's never had a bf and everything and she's really depressed. and i told her that guys just dont see what they're missing out on, and she told me that they see something in everyone but her. so i told her she just has to wait for the one. but she says that its not fair for everyone else to not have to wait and she does have to wait. what she doesnt understand is that all of us that do get bfs actually try to get them. like we dress nice, do our hair extra special, and talk to the guy and flirt. she doesnt try this at all, and i dont know how to tell her. she's to the point where she breaks down in tears crying. i think maybe if she got a cute haircut and maybe nicer clothes than maybe she would be "hot" or something but how do i tell her this? it would sound shallow and i dont know how to tell her to try to get a guy to like you. do you have any idea how i can get it through to her? (link)
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okay well honeslty i think the best you can do is tell her the truth.. tell her that she has to try for boys if she wants to get their attention! tell her its not as easy as it looks for you and the rest of your friends! tell her you spend hours on clothes hair makeup you know just like every other girl! tell her that shes gotta put more effort into it and than you know she would get what she was looking for. otherwise if you dont tell your friend she'll never know! and it shouldnt be your problem to deal with that shes upset.. so just let her know.. it might sound shallow but let her know that its coming from a true friend... and dont worry about that whole (i have a friend....) i beleive you.. lol cause you wouldnt ask advice for this stuff about yourself!
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Ight well there is this girl i've known for since elementary school and we've been pretty close but now im dating a girl and i can feel her animosity for it all. But its like she still trys to get close to me but the truth is im annoyed by her and have had enough of it. She might start giving me crap about how i kinda left her out of this all but i dont know what to do. Shes always trying to get sympathy from me or any kind of communication. She probably feels like i just left her for my girlfriend cause i dont talk to her much i mean we're friends but im not kinda ignoring or leaving her alone for this, its because shes being annoying and dumb. (link)
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if you dont let her know your annoyed by her actions shes going to continue with them.. untill you let her know how you feel.. and that wahts shes doing is irritating you its going to continue.. so let her know.. but remember... theres no reason to be mean.. all you have to do is get the point across! hope i helped
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okay i feel like my friends ditch me because im not as grly as them and i like to do other stuff unlike them and i get real lonely cause i feel alone what shpout i do? (link)
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dude, dont stress this one out! if your friends need to ditch you, look around maybe there not the greatest friends out there! honestly look for some people who are like you and choose to do the things you do! sure oppisites fit well but a good match is when you can do what ya love with your good friends!! keep your head up! be who you are, if you live your life for other people your never gonna be truly happy yourself
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i have this friend, and she tells all these guys that she'll have sex with them. She hasnt told her friends bout this to their faces, but i found out other ways...im worried for her. What if she gets hurt!?!?
tell me what to do amy! i need you help (link)
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hmm so your friend tells guys she'll have sex with them.. and she doest tell her friends.. but you found out otherwise.... ya your friend could get hurt.. but is she really sleeping with these guys.. or just saying it! its really not that big of deal if she just says it.. shes not hurting your or anyone else.. you can try to talk to your friend to get her to stop if you think its bad.. but the best lesson you can learn is from your own mistake... hope i helped
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ok it turns out my friend is a lesbeon!! im really upset i don't know what to do! im scared and i really trusted her....waht do i do (link)
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if you cant deal with the fact that your friend isnt like you in all ways and happens to be lesbian.. then go seek some help.. dont be gudgemental.. shes still your same friend... geez
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what do you do if your friend is good frineds with one of ur ex friends and u dont and she wants u guys to be friends again but you dont really wanna because you think she is annoying but if you dont your friend will freak out be a drama queen and be mad what should I do (link)
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okay sounds like alot is going on.. so you dont want to be friends again with your ex friend.... but your good friend wants you too! well you need to tell your good friend that no one should be able to tell you who you can. and cant be friends with! and if she cant accept that and gets mad then shes not worth it!!! if you live your life always making everyone else happy and giving them what THEY want.. youll never truly be happy yourself! so stay the way you want! dont be friends with her if you dont want to~
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i think i am losing my best friend. I think i shud talk to her about it but i am not sure how what is the best way to bring this up and let her know how i feel? (link)
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if you think your losing your best friend then thats a bad situation... basicly tell her.. that you think your losing your friendship.. and that you dont want to but thats how you see it.. and tell her that you really dont wanna lose her and ask her if she thinks the same.. and let her tell you how she feels and what her feelings are... hopefully youll work this all out and keep your buddy.. x0x0x0 hope i helped x0x0x
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what do i do if my best friend is suddenly not hanging out as much with me anymore and has found a new best friend which she lies about what she is doing with (link)
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maybe your friend needs some space... but just let them know you feel left out and that you still wanna spend time with them!! and see what there feeling! hope i helped x0x0
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hey wat do i do if a girl i went out with a cared about thinks she can give advice, and she's actually pretty good at it, but how do i tell her that i hope she didnt get that 1 dude cuz i mite like her again? (link)
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tell her how you feel.. and let her know what you think... and hopefully she still likes you... well good luck! x0x0x0 ~*a*M*y*~
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What do I do if one of my old friends is making a bad decion with a guy and says she wont tlak to him again but still flirts with him what should I do tell her AND she doesnt have the best body in shape and she walks around with her bathing suit on and its kinda nasy what should I do about that (link)
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tell your friend your opinion.. and she can choose to listen or not.. some mistakes are better learned if you make them on your own... so sure let her know your thoughts and talk it all out with her... .. and bout her bathing suit.. man thats tough... maybe let her know with out being mean.. like ask her to go on a diet with you... becuase you wanna lose some weight.. or tell her that you found such a cute bathing suit for her.. and make it so its doesnt reveal much... either that or you could just plain out tell her.. but i think that would hurt her feelings.. but you do what you gotta do... hope i helped! x0x0
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my friend goes back and fourth between friends. if we get mad at her she goes to them they get mad she comes back to us is that right because the two groups of friends cant stand eachother and want her to choose because it is getting annoying can you help (link)
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that happened to me and my friend when i was in the 4th grade... yea i was young but it was still a problem..... if your friend ditches you... again and again.. you need to let her know you dont like it! and then once she leaves again after she knows it bugs you.. just dont let her come back to you! and then when she finds her self alone.. she'll probably realize she made a big mistake.. and hopefully learn a lesson.. hope i helped
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my best friend is going after my ex. i'm sure its ok but i really dont enjoy it. i still like him. and its hurting my feelings. but....... i really dont no how to tell her that. (link)
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the best thing to do is to tell your friend whats going on with it all!!! i mean you have to realize that your friends not doing it to hurt you.. but she prolly doesnt know it is hurting you.. so just talk it out.. and come to a good understanding!! well i hope it works out!! x0x0 hope i helped
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well this friend of mine recently we were hangin out and we got to the subject of another kid that we didnt relly like we all talked some crap and then she goes and tells him all about it even after we said please dont tell anyone i know its not good to tlak crap but we did and she lied should i be mad? (link)
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its normal to be mad at your friend... but it all depends.. if she apoligized and admitted she was wrong then i think its okay to give them a second chance.. if this friend is a good friend of yours.. i dont think you should lose her over something little.. but do as you wish.. and stay mad.. or try to move on.... hope i helped...
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LaTly i have been vary depressed like im not the old me...i used to be vary fun tew be around, loving life, and full of energy...and i think i mite be depresed because i cut and everything but i think my question is...wat is happening to me (link)
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i went through the same thing and happen to be getting over that.. whats happening is your going through a hard time in life.. you may not know exactly what is bothering you but something is... letting a close friend know whats going on might help alot... its good to get your mind off of things so try to get out and have a good time.... and letting a friend know is good.. they can always try to help... keep trying.. it will end soon.. *and cuttings not the way to go, pain fades.. but scars stay in life forever*
hope i helped
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