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Q: Ok so I'm Sarah, 13 and I have this friend and we've been friends since kindergarden right but lately she's just boring I dont want to be mean but like there isnt anything in common between us really...And now she like ask's me everyday to hang out or go to the movies or w/e and I dont really want to...I dont want to be mean...How am I suppose to send her a vibe that I dont want to hang out with her quite as much as she wants? Of course w/o being a bitch about it lol
Mabe you could tell her that you've grown apart.. or that you think that you have nothing in common with her but she isn't a bad friend or a bad person.. hoped I've helped.. Good Luck! I'm always here to Talk!

Q: my best friend and i have been like really close since freshmen year and now like everytime we want to do sumthing she always has to bring someone else along i mean sometimes i just want to hang with her like we used to because its no fun when the people she brings im not friends with and i end up getting ditched...i dont like it what should i do??????????
Talk to her girl. That's all i can say. good luck!

Q: This is really long, but I need help! Last year I befriended three girls in my class. They became my really good friends, but one of them was my best friend. One of the other girls isn't very nice to me this year, since her and my best friend used to be best friends. I think that she's jealous. So my best friend and I haven't been hanging around the other two that much just because they're not very nice to us and some other incidents have happened. We've started to hang out with another group. They seemed really mean last year, but this one girl left and now they're all nice. So all of us are really good friends and we all get along great. We've all become closer through church, sports, and school, so I see them all the time. She my best friend and I just leave our two 'ex' best friends alone? They seem to be happy, but I do feel sort of bad. I'd rather hang out with my newer friends though. Help!!
Girl! Don't Feel Bad!You've All Changed.. Moved On With Your life... Meet New {or Not} People! It's Fine ! There Fine! Your Fine! Don't Worry Enjoy being happy!This Is all about growing up!

Q: I have three really close friends, Taylor, Sarah, and Alyssa. We're all completely different but we get along really well.

So now here's my question, Alyssa's going out with this guy, Micheal. And Taylor and I don't like him at all, infact we hate him. He lives in a differnt city now, but when he did live out here he went out with two of my other friends... and cheated on both of them. Alyssa looks past this because she's been in love with him for almost a year. He never really showed interest in her until a month ago when he was horny and she was willing.

Then Julia his latest ex and Alyssa's good friend found out and got mad at both of them. Because Alyssa didn't ask if it was ok to be with him, even though he and Alyssa didn't actually go out just do... stuff... Then after all the fights, Micheal has the nerve to actually ask her out. And Julia get's pissed again because she warned Aly about him.

But then the cherry on top was that Alyssa bring's him to Sarah's birthday, uninivted, of course Taylor and I make him feel so akward he leaves. Then Alyssa lies and leaves halfway through the party saying she has to go home. To hang out with him, and when we find out and call her, she lies about where she is and who she's with saying she's christmas shopping.

What should I do she doesn't listen and he's an ass. Who's already cheated on her once and they've only been going out for about two weeks.
And she's a virgin and he's reeeeeally horny!!!!!
Hey Try Your Best to Snap Her Outta It Is All I Can say.. But Don't Leave Her In The Dark. If/when She Does Get Her She Is Gonna Need A Shoulder To Cry On. ~ A Concerned {another} Taylor

Q: my friend has had this off and on relationship with this guy.hes fingered her and made out alot and stuff but he goes off and does stuff like that with other people.shes like my best friend EVER and she calls me crying sayin hes makin out with some girl.it breaks my heart and i think she should leave him.all he does is break her hearrt.she deserves so much better but she claims she loves him so much.other times she hates him.can someone help me?im afraid im in the middle.
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Concerned Friend
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