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My names Tina, and I have been through a lot of bad and good things in my life. While the bad things were occurring, i always wished that it was never happening, but when it was over, i realize that without those bad moments, i would never have been the way i am right now and certain very enjoyable moments would've never been experienced. so remember, people, EVERY bad moment in life is the cause of more than ONE very good one. trust me, i know. ;P
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My best friend who i used to like lies to me and blows me off half the time. Today during school i asked her to hang out and she told me she had to clean her house. Later on i went to the carnival in town and i see her there. Everytime i look in her direction she hides from me, i look over and she hides behind her friendsor turns around. Why does she do this?
i dont think she likes you very much. she probably is avoiding you and doesnt want to have anything to do with you but she doesnt want to say it because she doesnt want to cause any fights or anything or hurt you, but the thing is, it actually hurts more being confused and not knowing. what you should do is sit her down and tell her to tell you what is going on and y she is avoiding you, since it is making you very confused and hurt. i bet youd rather know what shes actually feeling than not knowing right? hope it works out and keep in mind im always here to answer your questions.
my friends are always so mean to me but the next second nice what should i do?
you should ask your so called "friends" why theyre acting like this. think about it, are they only being nice when they want something from you? this might mean that theyre using you and taking advantage of you. it wouldve helped if you gave more information about during which moments that they were nice and which moments they are not. are they nice most of the time or mean most of the time? since you dont have enough information in your question for me to give you anything more, i highly suggest you talk to them about it. if you want more advice from me and you want to give me more information, im fine with it. besides, i am always glad to help anyone. so if you want more advice from me, PLEASE feel free. hope everything works out. remember, i am always open and ready. :)
Ok so my best friend has been through a lot this year. a little while ago i was pretty much her only friend then i got her reaquanted with her old friend that moved away who was also a very good friend of mine. now the friend that moved away,becca, has this brother that i really like. and she knows that and is cool with me likeing her brother. when i introduced the other girl sarah to all of them she started liking the brother. and she knows that i have liked him for a while. then this other guy came in and his name is john. he liked me and i kinda liked him but i still like the brother a lot more.and so i didnt know what i should do about my friend because i didnt want a boy to mess up a great friendship and i really want my friend to be happy. and i kinda thought that she might back off since she knows that i have liked him. so i decided that i will have john and she can have the brother. and now they are about to become a couple. and honestly im really happy for her but it hurts and i havent been around both of them yet and im scared that i might get jealous or that its just really goin to hurt to where i cant hang out with them. i guess the main thing that i feel is that my best friend came in grabed the guy i like and doesnt realize how that makes me feel. and i have helped her through alot of hard times. i have told her how i feel about him and she says that she will back off if i want her to but what friend would acctually tell her friend to back off. ok well if anybody can acctually understand this please help. sorry its confusing
thats messed up what your friend did to you. she knew you liked him and she didnt know it was wrong? how could she stand to be a couple with the "brother" if she knew you actually knew him? well ,the thing is, its not right. you are being such a good friend to this girl and shes not feeling guilty about this at all? if so, this isnt true friend and you shouldnt have done that for her. i dont think she cares. is she was, she wouldve felt guilty and back off becuse she has to know that you were wanting her to bak off. you did that for her, she would not do that for you. she obviously sees love relationships as a more important thing than friendships.
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i didnt mean to say that what you did was wrong, i think itsz too nice in fact. i just mean that your friend should actually consider your feelings. i would talk to her and tell her how you are feeling. Im just saying she obviously knows that you are feeling this way, it would be hard to believe it if she didnt. well, u dont have to end the friendship that is not what im saying. you should probably talk to her about this and make sure that she knows how ur feeling. talk it out with her, and i really hope it works out. :) good luck
jamie has been my best friend for the past 4 years. we have another friend gabby who we were pretty close to. gabby always though of it was the 3 of us but we were closer with each other than we were with her. as time went on we got into our share of fights because she felt we excluded her and such. at the beginning of this year about 7 of us including gabby, jamie, and i formed a little group. we were all pretty close. we would have sleep overs almost every weekend and pretty much only hung out with someone from our group or our group of guys we chilled with. pretty soon one person from the group was gone. gabby had never really been considered very pretty but she started hanging out with these weird looking guys who she soon enough brought to be friends with people in the group. me and one of her friends not in the group got into a fight and gabby started randomly excluding me from everything. i feel really betrayed since my best friend is just like letting this happen as well as everyone else. i really dont understand why gabby would not include me though and it bothers me. i dont really know what to do. i have been chilling with other people but i feel pretty hurt. why do you think she could have stopped including me? what should i do? just let me know what you think please.
i think shes just getting revenge because you did the same to her, you werent including her in you and jamies stuff so she would bring in friendsz of her own and not include you in their activities. did she exclude jamie too? well maybe you should talk it out with her and tell her that you guys didnt mean to exclude her from stuff.
Well i ask my friend to hang out everyweekend but everytime i ask her she says soething like "i have to babysit or i have to clean?" and like i really think she doesnt wanna hang out with me but the next day she can hang out with anyone and i dont get it?
(female, 14)
im sorry to say this, im really sorry, cuz it really hurts when something like this happens to somebody with a heart, and it surely seems like you do or else you wouldnt have posted this question. so, ill get to the point: i dont think this friend really likes you anymore and she really doesnt want to hang out with you. but she didnt tell you because she doesnt want to hurt your feelings. this isnt a true friend and you might as well just tell her that you will stop callin her a friend if she doesnt stop giving you lies and ditching you. im so sorry i had to say this but im being honest.