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A good friend of mine, of my entire school's, died. He was the Spanish teacher and the koolest teacher. He was more of a kid than most of us kids are. It's a middle school, so I mean, just the drama makes ppl upset, let alone someone close's death. I have been doing OK. But a good friend of mine (and an old crush of mine) has been hung up over it. She really loved the guy. I wish that I could help her. Normally, I'm really good with advice, but I just don't want to say something stupid this time. Any advice on giving advice? (I know it's weird but I really care about her as a friend and I hate to see her hurt). She's 14 and already has enough troubles with middle school drama.
-A dude who would appreciate help (link)
wow, im really really sorry. and give your friend my email just incase she wanted to talk. just be there for her. give her your shoulder to cry on when she needs too. always be there for her when she needs you.


I'm going out with this guy that my friends just absolutely hate! One of my friends even threatened to stab him in the neck with her pocket knife during church! I don't want to break up with the guy because he's absolutely perfect to me. What should I do?

prettykitty77723 (link)
find out wh yyour friends hate your guy so much! he cant be that bad!


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all my friends (that are girls) are prettier than me ! especially my bestfriend ! she is like perfecttt ! she has the perfect face, the perfect hair, she is a perfect cheerleader, and she has the perfect body
.. and me well im skinny so im not that big-chested .. and well my hair never comes out as good as hers and i have the worst smile.. like i got braces and my teeth are straight .. but their reallly big and my smile isnt a good smile.. ALL my friends have good smiles and are pretty and outgoing and the boys like them..
like i mean i dont think im UGLY .. but compared to them i feel like i am ..

i just need something to help me gain more self-confidence and stop me from being so self-conscious about the way i look and i want to be more outgoing like my friends

is it wierd that i'm jealous of my friends? what can i do so i wont be jealous anymore? (link)
you shouldt compare youself to your frriends! by the way u described urself u kind of sound like me. i think im pretty just the way i am. and all my friends are prettier than me. but i dont really care because no one makes fun of me either. so just look at you and point out your good spots.


There is this girl at my school and she's super sweet!She is most likely the nicest person in our grade.WE're friends and all but she's really getting on my nerves.She's always sitting with me at lunch we have to be partners for everything(she is in 4 of my classes), and she switched into band because im in it too. First i just let it go because i know she just wants to be my friend. But now she's been doing it for 3 weeks and its bugging me. I need some time with my friends and myself. I cant be with her 24/7!
So what should i do or say? I dont want to be mean cause she's really sensitive... (link)
just be nice and try to talk to her. say im sorry but i kind of need space for my other friends too. i mean, u can sit with me at lunch and we can be partners sometimes but i want to be partners with my other friends too, ok? hope i helped!


Ok I have this friend named Josh. He's 13 and in the 7th grade, and well he has abig issue with Natalie shackleford. He loves this girl, he told me he is constantly thinking about her. He's scared to tell her how he feels, because he has been dumped on alot of times by girls. He doesn't want to get hurt again and he is crazy about her. I'm not talking crush. OOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHH NNNNOOOO! It's much bigger than that. People have always told him he's fat, he's ugly, and he can't get a girl. He's on the football team but he's still too scared. I am a real close friend of his and I want to help him out. Tell Natalie about this and tell me if she feels that way about Josh.


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Caught in the Middle (link)
help him out! tell im to talk to her, get her number, screen name, write notes to her, whatever! if he wants her he has to try his hardest to get her. if trys hard enough, he will get her.




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