hey my names christina from katy
and i love to help people ,, i will tell you things tht i would do if i was in that situation .. you dont have to take my advice and if you do , i hope i helped you out .. ♥christina
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i have four best friends and all five of us hang out in a group all the time. two of them are guys and two of them are girls. anyway when one of the guys isn't with us my other friends talk about how they think the guy who is gone is gay. (i know for a fact that he isn't because i've done stuff with him and no one knows...) but it really doesn't matter if he is or not i just don't think it's right that they do this. should i tell my guy friend what everyone else is saying about him...or would that just cause trouble? (link)
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friends tell each other everything but i would ask the guy who theyre talking about to not tell them you told him because then they wont trust you even if they should because .. what if it was them who they were talking about they would have to wonder if you would tell them too right? ♥christina
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well my friend,lets call her sam, had told me that she was anorexic after i kept asking her why she wouldn't eat. (This was like during the last 2 months of school.) Then surprisingly she kept being that way and if she ate she would purge.
She now has a confidence about it and scince all my other friends where gone (i only have 4 3 whr gone) she would actually take food away from me saying i was FAT and that i should be like her. At lunch i would go get food and sit down and the second i would look away she'd take my food and go throw it away!
so i had to start sneaking food in during class. I was practicly starving and was getting tierd really easly in sports. It sucked. Then she goes up to my coach and said that I(me) quit! i didn't even want to quit!!!!!
Well my question is how do i get her to stop? she just won't stop! even in the summer she finds ways to keep me from eating.(my parents are often gone so she comes over,i don't want her to but i am just to gullable i guess)
HELP ME!!!!! (link)
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girl if shes really your friend
tell her that you dont like what shes doing to you, and that you are perfectly comfortable with yourself and your body
and that it really affects your health
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i went on vaca for a week with my best frioend and i had so much fun and we met this boy justin he is 15 and i really liked him and we thought he liked me at first and then we found out he liked my best friend, julie. she liked him alot so i let her have him caz usually guys like me more.
but then when we left the beach we stayed at. we still talk to him on aim and texting. she said something to him and he got kinda mad but she thinks its worse than it is. but now he wont really talk to her but he talks to me so much. and he tells me alot. now shes convinced were going out. but i wouldnt caz she really liked him.
so now i dont know if i shpould stop talking to him to make it so we dont get in a fight.
urgh! i need help. please someone answer this.
thank-you.
and if it helps 14/f (link)
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honey you have a lot more guys coming your way and even if you were just friends with justin understand that she feels hurt and maybe a little jealous.[or alot lol] but if you want to keep an amazing friendship it may be better you and justin not talk im sorry for the bummer goodluck ♥christina
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okay, so there is this girl who claims to be one of my good friends, you see she has been talking to my ex boyfriend and he brought up to her about going out. He recently has broken up with the girl he went out with before and after me, and i had been moving on ward and started to become interested in someone who happened to be his friend(i had no idea)Well he heard about this and imed me asking how i knew him, then later if we hooked up. I think him asking my friend out was because he was jelious of the fact i like his friend. Anywho, the girl calls me and tells me this and she goes oh how about i date him to get back at him for what he did to you (he took my virginity and completely manipulated me) I said i suppose. But i think she is just doing it because she has feelings for him, she always has even when we were dating. And we were talking and somehow sex got brought up and she asked if i would be upset with her, i told her i would be upset because she says she is my friend and she knows what he did to me. I think she has feelings for him, what do you think? Should i just cut them both out of my life? (link)
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sweety its up to you
i know i would but heres something to consider
if you really moved on then why does it still matter?? goodluck~christina
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So I have this friend, who I've known since 6th grade, well she got a bf 4 months ago and its a long distance relationship. Well she's always texting me sayin things like, " I think he's cheating on me" because of some stupid comments he left on myspace. Or she says, "what if he doesn't like me when he sees me in person?" I tell her he will cuz she's beautiful but she feels fat and ugly. So what do I say to her? Cuz it gets annoying after a while. Thanks anyways. (link)
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honey everyone is insecure
but friends always tell each other everything
just be honest and say something like
hey dont worry about it i think he will love you but dont make a big deal about it and i dont want you to get mad at me for saying this but i think its affecting our friendship cuz i dont feel like were as close as we were.. something like that youll think of somethink good luck ♥christina
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