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how can u tell a friend u don't want 2 be her friend anymore without hurtin her feelings ok my so called best friend wouldn't come 2 my b-day party becuause 3 of my other friendz who she hates came she told me this and i told her 2 ignor them but she still wouldnt come and also she is a back stabber one day i was over her house and we were about 2 go outside and have a snowball fight and her couison called and she went to the mall with her couison and just blew me off and her couisin hates me me and her have been friends since kindergarten pleze help


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ok if you and her have been friends that long you should try and keep it up, just talk to her and tell her what is bothering you, honesty is always the way to go, sit down with her and in a really calm non offensive voice just tell her that it bothered you when she blew you off and stuff, if you have this talk you might get into a fight but it should blow over and you two will become better friends
good luck

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Ok I have these 2 friends. I know them both really well. We are so close. Well today they played a trick on me. They made up a screenname and pretended they were this girl that I hate with a passion. They talked a bunch of shit. Well it got to the point that when the convo was over that I sent the convo to 2 of my other friends e-mail and told them to read it. Well i go to tell my friend about it and turns out it was her and my other friend..The thing that made me mad and pissed off at them is the fact that they said it was that girl and they know i hate her. They completly don't know what happened between me and her and shouldn't have done it. But my ? is .....What should I do about it? I mean it might of been funny to them but they don't know the whole story and it completly pissed me off...Should I tell them it made me mad and that I am still mad at them....But please tell me what I should do....
Signed ,,,,TrueHope10

i would tell them the truth, tell them you are kinda mad, and you will have to tell them why, if you aren't willing to tell them why then you can't really be mad at them because they dont think it's that big of a deal, i'm sure they didnt really mean any harm, but just talk to them
good luck

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Well i have this friend lets call him fred... Yesterday i was talking to fred when i found out that he had tried to kill himself tree times already... but the worst thing is he is only in 7th grade... what can i do to help him? please help..

i had a friend who tried to commit suicide a few times, and even though it was really hard i told a councilor, i thought she would totally hate me for it but you know what she actually thanked me so i would tell a councilor or another adult

good luck
donny

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i'm a part of this group of friends who i love so much. but the problem is that they only hang out with me because my parents are the only ones who will take them around. at least that what i think. right now they're all hanging out together and left me out of it. what should i do?

well i think you shoul confront them about it and tell them how you feel, they probably dont know how much this bothers you. If they still leave you out or you feel like they still only want to hang out with you because of your parents driving them around then i would say you should maybe try and find new friends even though that may be hard for you....

good luck.... i hope i helped!!!!!
-Sara

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i have this friend who is so selfish. she told me that if i went out with his guy named matt that shed hate me more then her friend olivia. i really like her as a frind..but i want your opinion..thanx

ok if your so called friend wants to treat you that way then she's not really your friend at all.... even if you do like her

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I think I am loosing my best friend. She has been hanging out alot with someone else, and when she isnt she always has excuses. she isnt the same person, i know she has to change, but i mean- she is obsessed with her weight and eating. Im not really worried about that though, i just miss her. what should i do? just forget about her?

you dont need to just drop her as a friend, if she doesnt want to hang out with you then dont push it but if she needs you to be there in a time of trouble then i would be there for her you know always be a good friend even if she isnt that great to you

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