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Q: i have this friend lets call her "L" for now.All my friends and I think she is bi-sexual but i don't know what i should do.Basically on new years i invited her over to hang out and she kept touching, playing with my hair,tickling me,laying on me(so i moved and she did it again),jumping on me, and always looking other girls, and she is always checking out me and my other 2 friends saying oh my gosh! your butt is so small and stuff.So, i don't know do u think she is bisexual because she has a boyfriend so she cant be a lezbian.What should i do? Should i ask her? If I do though she will deffinetly take that offensively because she is like that.I have a boyfriend so i know i am not like her.
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I am bisexual so im advising you as someone who knows :-)
If your friend is bisexual, she may not yet even realise it to be as serious as you see it. She could just be having a laugh not realising how she acts is causing these thoughts to arise...However, if she is bisexual she may not say anything due to the fact that she is worried about losing you as mates.
You need to ask yourself...does this make any difference? Are you asking this question because you are 'afraid' she is bisexual or 'worried' she is hitting on you? Will it change your friendship if she is? If not then you should just forget it...It doesn't matter if she is or not as she is still your mate.
However, if this does matter to you so much you need to think about just how good a friend you are and where your loyalties, and thoughts lie
I hope i have helped
Biker_chic -xXx-
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Q: someone told me they heard my two friends, lucy and jill, saying really mean stuff about me. they didn't tell me exactly what but said they'd tell me more later because they had to go. i just think this kind of drama is so annoying, and i hate dealing with it. i know everyone talks behind other's backs, but my friend says it was meaner than just the usual stuff. i'm so over it, and this really annoys me. i'm not jumping to conclusions, because i know my friend could be wrong, but she has no reason to lie to me. what should i do?
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It takes a lot of will-power to rise above things like this...It is good that you are not jumping to conclusions. However, it is not always a good idea to just let them keep talking behind your back. It might just be my perspective, but from my experiences i strongly believe in viocing your opinions and standing up for what you believe in. Try talking to those who you heard were saying things behind your back...tell them that you don't like it and that if they have a problem they shold tell you to your face so that the issue can be dealt with in a mature way, rather than just being rumoured between people.
I hope i have helped you...Good Luck! xxx
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Q: Ok first off this is to deal with my friend and me. my best friend plays soccer and everyonce in a while we play against her team. but I sorta like her in a more kind of way. so I kinda go easy on her. because I could beat her tail in a skinny sec. but I don't know if she likes me. she is one of my best friends. so advicenators, do you magic. HELP. if they help, I will rate nicely. and fairly, sup4321
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wow...i can relate! I had a similar problem with a girl i was friends with for over a year.
it would help to know your age and how long you have been mates, but never-the-less, all i can say to you is, don't rush into teling her as you would be risking your friendship if you do not know how she will react. Telling her striaght, how you feel may cause problems, but i know from experience that if you keep it to yourself you will start finding it hard to be around her.
Leave the soccer game on the field...it's just a game, so it doesn't matter who plays better. Leave it for a while and just make suttle hints every now and then...if she likes you, she will make it known soon enough...GOOD LUCK! xxx
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Q: this friend of mine all of a sudden stopped talking to me and gave me attitude and went to another one of the girls in my class and now doent talk to me anymore. what should i do????? please answer soon.
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Don't worry about it...If she has just left you for no reason then she isn't worth it and most likely doesn't know what she is missing out on. If you feel that bad about it, then try talking to her, just say that you don't understand why she is acting the way she is and ask her if there is a particular reason. However, if she still doesn't talk to you then leave it...Find someone who will appreciate you and show a bit of respect - she can't be much of a friend to do something like that.
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I have had many issues with bullying and negativity at home as well as many other negative and unfortunate incidences in my life.
It is because of all of this negativity and heartbreak that i am who i am today, as in some ways i have become a stronger person.
It is due to this that i decided to put together an advise column for which anyone who has issues such as i have, can have someone to talk to who has experienced it themsleves or can relate to their issues. My advice column is for people of all ages with any sort of problem and it is strictly confedential. E-mail me with your problems and i will reply as soon as i can with advice on the situation at hand.
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Birmingham AIM: MSN: biker_chic_kg@hotmail.co.uk Member Since: September 25, 2006 Answers: 20 Last Update: May 14, 2007 Visitors: 2110
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