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My friend Robby and I were hanging out this weekend. Just for fun we were playing with his sister's barbies. (She didn't care. lol) Most of it was plain insane and meaningless but we did have one character that was supposed to be ourself. Long story short, our characters hooked up. Some parts sounded like the truth, but I can't be sure. Is he shy & using that to hint around, or does it not mean anything at all? I know I ought to talk to him, but I don't want to sound stupid if he was just doing it for fun and he doesn't like me like that. I've never really thought about dating Robby... Until this came up...
Karen (link)
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Guys can be so complex. He might've meant nothing, but it could've also been his way of showing you that he liked you.
If you've never thought about this Robby, maybe you two wouldn't be good together. But then again, maybe you just never considered him as anything more than a friend.
What I would do is just watch him closely- see if he drops anymore hints. If it does, go ahead and ask him- although it'll seem like it's mortifying if he doesn't like you as more than a friend, you'll get over it in time. And if he does like you, try him out- he might be perfect for you. But then again, maybe you two are just better off as friends...but you'll never know if you don't try.
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I just started my Sophmore year of highschool. From the begining of Freshman year 'til now, I've lost MANY friends for stupid reasons. Mainly because I got into a fight with one girl that I was best friends with and then she got all of her friends to hate me too. Which was about 15 people. How nice right?
Anyway, I have a reputation of being a bitch. Because.. Well, I CAN be. But I'm really not when you get to know me.
I really want to try to change my reputation on being a bitch, I want to show people that I AM a good person and attempt to make new friends. But I really need help on changing my reputation. Any ideas? (link)
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I've found that lunch is one of the most important times for social revenge/building up.
Sit with someone new; talk to them-everyone needs a friend, and by showing one person you can be a good one, perhaps your favor will rise.
And even though you were probably right, apologize to the girls you fought with- having enemies (even just a few) is never a good thing.
Hope I helped....
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ok here goes, i have been friends with my best friend for 4 years. two years into our friendship we got a little serious, we started hanging out more and eventually we kissed. this made us even closer. later on we hooked up. though we were so close we decided not to go any further with our "relationship" because he had a girlfriend. We have remained good friends and recently, we hooked up again. during 'it' we stopped cause he said it didnt feel right, but i didnt want to. he has a girlfriend of 1 yr and i have a bf for 2 years. i want him so bad i cant stand it. and we hardly ever get to see each other anymore because of our signifigant others. but he is ALWAYS on my mind....i dont kno wat to do, what do i say? tell him how i feel and risk it all? i know i cheated but i dont regret it...im so confused! PLEASE help! please dont erase! (link)
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First, I would break up with your boyfriend of two years, because you're doing both him and you a disfavor- him, because you don't really love him, and you, because staying with him may make your best friend feel like you love your boyfriend too much to be his.
Then confront him-but be gentle, because if it turns out he doesn't like you, I'm guessing you still want to be friends with the guy. But if you tell him what you did for him-dump your boyfriend-and how you feel, there's a damn good chance that he'll feel the same.
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