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last year we had a big clique it was me ,my fav friendjasmine,brandi,serean,christa,kerra,chelsi,ferrin,neri,and thats it.this year is different neri,chelsea,serean moved away and kerra found a new group and ferrin has 2nd lunch so its me brandi jasmine and christa.Jasmne was my best friend since the third grade and we are now in the 8th.the clique was ok at first then i started to go by jasmines house almost every ek end and we would tak about all the fun things that happened and our little inside jokes we had and christa and randi never said nothing at the lunch table so one day jus stopped eating lunch with us when i asked bandi why she said we dont never know what you two be talking about half of the time and now they sit with other freinds i think they are jelous becase they didnt have fun with us what do you think their problem is?
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Dear Clique,
It's normal that this will happen, you get closer with someone in your clique than some of the other people are, it is most likely them just getting annoyed because they honestly don't ever know what you two are talking about, just try toning it downa notch and try including the whole clique. Sorry may sound harsh but true.
-Beanie
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I'm dating this nice art-ish guy for couple months. He's into design and art stuff, but doesn't like to read books......Love sports....What should I get to him for christmas gift? (link)
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Dear xmas gift,
Get him a nice art set, like maybe some oil paint and some sketch pads and what not, it's a great artistic idea, plus artists are always running out of supplies.
-Beanie
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well ill make this short
im in a group and i have my best friend there too and shes becoming close with the rest of my group.. which isnt a bad thing. but at the same time i feel like im losing her. we still are close but i also feel like im becoming her second choice. i would talk to her about it and have no problem talking to her but i know what she will say.
should i talk to her anyway or just let it slide and not worry much about it?
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Dear losing my friend,
I would personally talk to her, because if you never tell her what is going on in your mind she'll never know then you may deffinetly lose her for good, not everyone can read minds, so let her know wuts on yours.
-Beanie
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I Have Been Working With This Girl Now for 10 Years,Everything I do she copy's from me, from my Nailpolish ,to the same exact kind of car and the same color too....I Cant do anything without her doing the same thing,I feel like i cant be myself
because she is always doing and saying the same things as me.I have said something to her before and it still hasnt stopped.What can i do to stop this annoying behavior?PLEASE HELP ME CAUSE IM GOING CRAZY!!!!!!! (link)
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Dear copycat,
Tell her to back off, you need to tell her the truth, tell her how it's driving you insane. She needs to know the truth some time, better make it soon before she wants the same job as you.
-Beanie
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my friend follows me EVERYWHERE and does EVERYTHING i do. if i hang out with someone, she doesn't let me hang out with them she will just invite her self over to where we are and start hanging out with us. ITS REALLY ANNOYING! i'm actually starting to make new friends but its impossible if i keep hanging around with her.
Shes really bossy and controlling. What should i do? Should i keep ignoring her or tell her to stop following me around? (link)
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Dear most annoying friend,
Tell her like it is, it may hurt her feelings, but no offense she needs to get a life. If you keep ignoring she'll procede with what she is doing. So get it over and done with and let her face the music.
-Beanie
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it might be long =/
Alrightt this school year just seems to be horrible. It was amazing at the begging of the year i have so much fun and eveything i wanted, amazing friends and a boyfriend. Every weekend i was going out going to parties have fun and doing good in school. BUt then one week it badcially all came down, my boyfriend broke up with me and a few of my friends turned on me and it it was just a lot to handel at once. Be cause of all that i only have 2 true friends now abnd one of them had to move to another state. So lately i have been going out im doing bad in school ad i just alwasy feel depressed. I hide it alot because im trying to dssorta talk to more pople maybe make this year beter but when you have gone to school with the same poeple your whole life, they already have an idea of who you are so aming friends is hard, so bacially here is my question what are some ways i can make myself more happy? What can i do to have a funner year.
thankss for anyone who read this cause its long =] (link)
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Dear hard year,
I know it may seem bad but things will turn around for you, it always does. This may seem harsh, but it's a just, that you will probably get over within this month. And really when you think about it no one has that many true friends. Because really think about true friends are the people that stick by your side no matter what. You find out who your true friends when you are put in a situation. And that seems like what happened. So now you know who your true friends are. And honestly most people only have around 1-3 true friends. And don't worry the depression will go away, do something when you start feeling depressed.
Draw or paint, make some music or go shoot a few hoops. And just try to stay positive, instead of looking at all the bad things, look at all the good things, you can now check other guyz out, and you can always make new friends.
A good idea is to join a sport team, it'll bring you close together with all the people in the team.
Don't worry it wasn't too long of a question.
-Beanie
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ive had a tight group of friends since like the 3rd grade. now everything is falling apart and we seem to not click as well as we used to. but the thing is they were my life, and i hung out with them every weekend and told them everything, but now i just feel like i cant connect with anyone these days. im not going to change myself for the preps at my school and im not going to be a dork. theres no one in between, and i no the only reason i have held on to these friends for so long is because i have no where else to go, and i guess i got to comferitble, but now i have relized that they arent real friends.
how can i make new ones? (link)
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Der Lonely,
Don't worry about the sudden change, it's extremely when you get older, not everyone stays together forever, although you may get lucky and find a friend for life, but friends come and go. Try joining a sport. It's a great way to meet new people and it brings you close to the people in that sport. And if your not into sports join a club.
-Beanie
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This really cute guy kissed me 4 months ago out of blue. We've been friends for a while, and I always have crash on him. After the day he kissed me, he didn't talk to me for 4 months. (neither email or any form of communication)
Now, we start to talk through emails, but he acts as nothing ever happened. What does this mean? What's going on? What do I do? (link)
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Ok, no offense but it was four months ago and if he meant something about it he would of said something by now. Unless he's the extremely shy type. It probably means that he didn't mean anything by it and he probably just wants to still be friends. So what you should do (this may take alot of guts but it needs to be done) pull him aside next time you see him away from everyone and ask him if he meant anything from that kiss. And if he says no, then you need to move on. If he says yes, make a bold move and ask him out.
-Beanie
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