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Q: One of my best friend's brother died in a car crash because of street racing. Tomorrow I am going to his funeral with our friends and to be there for my friend. I really dont know what to wear and what I'm supposed to do there. Do I bring a gift. I feel really bad. He was onlt 17 years old. Please help.
IM SOO SORRY !!! thats so sad .. for the funeral you should wear black because it's commmon .. and most people dont give gift .. aww thats so sad .. i deep sympathy for you your fruends and family ... hope i helped .. Love, MauramOo

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hii!! who are you ..?

Q: your sister is killing me man
oOh what one? .. whos this? lol .. Love MauramOo

Q: Hey mau .. i dont think its ashleys cousin .. that just my opinion .. but anyways .. Ashley thinks shes cool for getting her cousin .. if her cousin doesnt think that theres anything wrong wyd that .. that obv. shes a slut juss like ashley! It must run in the family .. well i didnt have a question juss wanted to say that =)


xoxox love ya s4L! mwahs

hahaha ... love you too . xoox sfe! .. Love MauramOo

Q: my friend has depression and shes not taking her pills and she doesnt realize it makes her worse. she thinks it makes her better. and we got into a fight and we are over it now but i dont want this to happen again. she thinks the pills dont help but they do!!! and i dont want to lose my temper and say "WELL IF YOU TOOK YOUR PILLS WE WOULDN'T BE IN THIS SITUATION!!!" because i know thats mean. but i dont want to just sit here either?

any advice?
accually i know someone who takes those pills for depression and when you take them it makes you lazier and i think she'd be better off without them .. but if you really want her to tell her mom or dad .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

Q: heyy its Lau again ive been lookin for the answer all night , she showed her thong it was a dare and people sya they talked to her but all the ydid was yell at her they didnt ask for her side of the story , she isnt lieing and people need to stop sayin she likes sam cause she really dont i think she likes Cam M ?
yeah .. umm no i didnt yell at her so i dont know who is .. why dont you annoy another one of her old friends because if ashley needs to talk she'll i.m. me .. i dont need her older cousin that i dont know to talk to me ..

Q: oh and she did not show sam her thong it was other people
well desiree sed she did soo .. what ever

Q: oh and did she tell you people are telling her they wish she died .. if she didnt tell u that then u really didnt get a good talk . She has alot to say about it but nobody will listen
i would listen if she even talked to me .. i might listen but not forgive .. and no she didnt .. Love MauramOo

Q: hey i no it was mean for what ashley did to desiree but everyone makes mistakes and she was just talkin to me saying how it was the biggest mistake of her like and how she is really sorry from the bottom of her heart i think she is genuinly sorry i think you should talk to her because she really needs someone to talk to . And she said she lost some of her bestest friends nd tht makes her like wicked sad here are some off the names she sed Madison Alyse [ if thts how u spell it ] MauraM nd especially desiree By the way this is her cousin Lauren and i know Ashley better than anyone and when she says sorry she is truly sorry no lie and i think everyone is being mean because they wont listen t what she has to say p,s if u want my screen name ask ash kk bye
i did listen to her .. did she forget to mention she was showing him her thong?! that is so messed up i mean she knows how desiree feels about sam and that is so rude i wouldnt ever be able to trust her again im sorry if no one likes her now but if she thought about it she should of known that its messed up its not that hard to see im sorry lauren but i cant forgive your cousin .. it was just wrong what she did .. Love MauramOo

Q: hEy mauRa itz Kayy l0L .. you arE thE cooLest grL i kno l0L.. fuNn whEn i sLept ovEr 4 mEGg youR s0O kooL hAHa..aDd mE 2 youR frEndz List Love aLways ` Kayy
how do i do that ? lol .. xox Love MauramOo

Q: do u like ashley conley? shes a loser i cant believe she did that to desiree! shes a ugh i cant even explain her!
nope! ... i mean if she was a good friend she wouldnt do that .. i mean it just shows how you cant trust all your friends ... = / .. i would never do that to desiree or anyone .. even if i didnt know them .. even if i hated them!! its just not right .. who is this? lol I.M. me XO0OX .. Love MauramOo

Q: My best friend in the entire world is going out with a guy that I liked..At one point in time I liked him and he liked me..but I never went out with him because my best friend liked him.. I dont know whether or not I should tell her this because, well they look really cute together, but the thing is, is that I think I still like him..
Clueless here..I dont know what to do..
if i were you only tell her if she asks you who you like because you dont want to fight about it ... because well if you dont want to ruin their relationship ... hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

Q: okay my best friend is going out with my recent ex and we went to the movies with a grroup of people but his girl friend could not go and we ended up sitting next to each other and in the middle of the show we started holding hands and yesterday his girlfriend found out and wont talk to me or him what should i do? cause he likes me and i like him...

signed CONFUSED
well if he is your ex-boyfriend she shouldnt have gone out with him anyways .. you should go out with him .. your not the bad person here she is .. she shouldnt have gone out with him after you .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

Q: ok, i have this friend and i really am good friends with her..and then theres a guy i like and i finally got his sn and then she asked for it. i know this sounds really stupid. but i just dont want to give it to her.. i know that she doesnt like him but something is telling me not to..should i? *
well you can tell her that you lost it or deleted it on accident or if you dont want to lie then just tell her the truth and not give it to her .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

Q: I need to know what to do in this situation,i went on a date and i told one of my guy friends about it and then he told another guy that the guy i went out with fingered me and then that guy asked the guy i went out with and he said no and told him it wasn't true...but the worst part is that he lied and said that i was the one who said that he did it to me when it never happened...the guy who started the whole rumor is suppose to be one of my best friends what should i do or say to him.... please help...thanks
if your "friend" says that he isnt that great of a friend and you should confront him about it because that isnt right to do that to you .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

Q: As my title says, my friends tend to be really mean to me. We had a free Spanish period today because there was a substitute, and they ignored me the whole time. They were making plans to go shopping for bathing suits, and go snowboarding with each other, and didn't ask me to join them. One of my friends just randomly tells me to shut up, and she thinks it's just a joke. They tell each other stuff and don't tell me, and then they talk about it right in front me. Basically, they treat me horribly, and I really don't need it from them. What am I supposed to do??
start talking to other girls around school and get to know them .. have them hang out with you .. forget about those bitches = ) .. dont take anyones shit .. no ones worth it .. so just make new friends and see how they react .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

Q: my friends r getting on my nerus because this boy asked me out & that is the same boy they wanted to go with. what should i do?
i think you should date him .. i mean if nobody dated who there friends like then no one would date ... and if they're true friends they'll not mind because if they got asked out by him they would say yes probally too .. plus it's not your fault he likes you = ) .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

Q: Well my bestfriend and i are fighting a lot. i am moving now and i don't want to leave on a bad notice. She said to me "i don't care if you are moving.' That really hurt my feelings what should i do
?
try to make up with her by saying we shouldnt fight and if she disagrees pop her in the eye = ) .. j/p but seriously say why we're fighting is retarded and im moving and imma miss you and i dont wanna move while im in a fight with my BEST friend .. hope i helped .. Love, MauramOo

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baybexmau831
hEyy iMm Maura also known as mAu mAuRamOo or mOniQue ( lol nikki ) my birthday is March 24 I cheer, ski, snowboard, and go running . you can contact me at baybxmau 143 if you dont want to post your problems in here . ask me anything you need help with and ill be sure to answer you unless it's rude and uncalled for . xox Love Maura*

if i could have jus wun dream come true id dream a dream that i could be with you .. i miss you baby!! ... i L0VE Y0U S0O FUCKiNG MUCH!! .. = /

xox Love Maura*

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