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14 f - Okay i've just noticed that my best friend has really changed...see last december she got hooked up wit her prince charming n up till this very day they r still together, i want her to be happie wit him, but i feel i'm loosing her in the process! Look we used to talk everyday n then she would 3 way call him, n then it changed to calling me, n then leaving me to talk to him, and that was only for like 30 min...n then now it's like she bairly calls, and when she does it only lasts like 5 min. at the most! I've tried telling her, but it alwayz stays tha same!

*dazed n confused* (link)
honey, honey, honey! boy does this story match my life. ok.... i had a boyfriend for 10 months and then i found out he was cheating on me. he like practically took over my life. i stopped talking to my friends and i would ALWAYS be on the phone with him. is your friend becoming lazy in school and becoming disrespectful to adults, particually her parents? if so you need to have her come over and tie her to a chair(so she can't get up and walk away) and talk to her. remind of her of all the good times yall used to have. trust me it works. my friends did the same thing to me. tell your friend that you miss her and want her back to her regular self. do it before she gets hurt. trust me. she might even be considering having sex with him since they have been together for so long. i thought about having sex with my bf and then i got the "talk" at school and i changed my mind. ask her if she is considering having sex with him and stuff. if so just go to your library and see if they have any videos or picture books about S.T.Ds. trust me it will change her mind. (we puked at our school) just see whats up with her. trust me. things might get back to normal!!


My best friend and I got into a fight because she lied to me about why my boyfriend broke up with me. She actually told him she was in love with him and stuff like that.. since she KNEW he also liked her. And the reason she did that was to get him to break up with me.. all because of jealousy! Well.. she finally told me the truth.. AFTER she knew 2 other people told me. She thinks im mad at her for causing him to break up with me.. but im mad because she lied.. I tried to tell her that.. and she got really defensive and blocked me. Everytime i try to talk to her at school, she walks away from me.

She and I have been friends for a few years now. I hate for our friendship to end like hers and her other best friend's did. How can I talk to her? I tried appologizing and all she said was .. "Mhm Im sure you are". How can I make her realize we are both better off with each other? (link)
if this has happened before with her and her other "best friend" then it must be happening with yall. she obviously isn't a really good friend if she did that. i just went through the sme thing but i didn't lose my bf and he doesn't like her. she likes him but everyone calls her fat and that she has herpies. WHO CARES!! i don't like her anymore. just tell your friend to go _____ herself.


ok my ex-best friend keeps non-stop talking behind my back and saying how bitchy i am ( even though i'm not) and she keeps telling this guy i like bad things about me, some are true and some aren't and she is getting on my nerves and i just don't know what to do because she was my best friend until christmas break ( which was when i found out when she told all this crap about me) i can't ignore her because she's in my group of friends... what should i do??? by the way we're both 14 and female... (link)
look honey it is called P.M.S.


17-f so i have this really good friend...a guy...and we've been friends for three years. I love spending time with him because hes just about the funniest person i know. We have a lot in common too and now since we've been friends for so long he knows me really well. Anyways for a while now im beginning to think that he likes me. I dont like him that way. How do i tell him that i dont like him without actually doing it. And if i need to tell him outright...how do i do that without hurting him? (link)
If he comes straight and asks you out or even says taht he likes you just give him a chance. You never know. This guy could be your future soulmate. If the first date doesn't work out then tell him that your sorry and it just isn't working out that well as a couple and i liked it better as friends.




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