Hi my name is Ashley i'm an aspiring writer,poet,and photographer. I don't know if anyone has heard of Brashai Griffin on this site but alot of my friends are mourning her loss, as am i. I still want to help other people though so ask away i have nothing but time. I'm not an expert but people say i'm pretty good at giving advice.I just want you to be happy with the advice i give and help you the best i can.
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Me and my group of friends were at a fast food place out side. we were having a blast by doing truth or dare but didnt do the dares because we chickien out. anyways...one of my friends dare me to kiss a guy who walks pass me i laughed and said no and one of my friends Alice shouted out "ha yeah right!" in a serious tone....um okay why she say that?
she knows i am bisexual and that i liked her but she isnt that way. (link)
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she was making a joke...but even if she wasn't you shouldn't worry about it. People who talk about you are making you stronger...You shouldn't listen to everything people say.no one can make you feel inferior with out your consent so don't give them your consent.
Hope i helped
@};-Ashley L
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he is very skeptical, and things changed with him, though the second chance didn't last that long, by my own fault and his patience...yeah.. hopefully so, but i'm unsure if i want to be friends again. the feelings are slowly breaking away, but i want to try to make this the best of it. since im a senior and hes a junior..i wont get to see him much after this year..but helives 1.7 miles away but yeah...i think u get what i mean. thanks! (link)
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no problem i'm here to help
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The only thing is..he thinks everyone deserves a second chance.. but getting a third chance..all depends on how he feels. He never gave someone a 3rd chance before. Knowing that the chances are slim..I don't know what to do. =[ (link)
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Well getting a third chance may be slim but if cares about you enough to give you a second chance tgird times the charm. Only time will tell if you two will work the whole thing out, and its going to be hard with the feelings still being there. I wish you the best of luck!!!
@};-ASHLEY L
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I liked my best friend for over an year now. In July I fell in love..Febuary we ended the friendship to agreement we needed a change, we needed to figure things out, and to give me time to let go. Over time we could be friends again, so after 3 1/2 weeks we became friends again. It lasted 2 1/2 weeks, we discovered we weren't meant to be friends. So we are done. I didn't feel any pain or emotion in the last 1 1/2 weeks that this happened. Wednesday I got a slap in the face, and realized I may have hurted him more than he had hurted me, and that hurt. But as of tonight, I found it extreme painful that the chances of getting a 3rd chance at being friends are 1 out of 1000...I have only known him 15 months, but we became really close, I was able to trust him more than I have ever trusted anyone. He knows more about me than anyone. (We were never together nor did we ever do anything intimate) It really hurts to know that, that was probably the last of our friendship. None of my friends understand, because they aren't exactly expierenced in the level we were at. They just think it was junior high crap. Though he's 17 and i'm 18. Anyways, how do I find closure in this? Is it possible? Why does it all of sudden hurt when the last almost 2 weeks, I was fine with the whole thing I didn't cry at all?
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Actually this is normal for any friendship that turns into a relationship. The only closure you have is the fact that now the friendship won't work because there are other feelings involved. You were fine at first because you weren't really sure of what you had lost but now that you fully understand it it hurts ALOT more. All heart breaks heal in time and maybe you guys will be friends again but till then you have to deal and know everything will turn out better in the end
HOPE I HELPED
@};-ASHLEY L
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Okay well there is this girl who I used to be like best friends with, up untill last week when i almost hit her in the cafe, but i didnt want to get introuble so i just cursed at her really load the whole 8th grade hurd me yelling, so ya she had blamed me for teling the whole school that she made out with this boy when she is goin out with this other boy, but i didnt she is the one who told the wrong person and that wrong person told the whole person so not my falt, so then she starts crying and i got mad becuase she has told ever friggen secret that i have ever told her and how many time have i cryed its messed up, other than theat she is just not a good friend, after 2 weeks of dateing her BF she had sex, but then he did her and ran,and she comes to school like naked and she is fat and never stops eating, the point is do you think im right for droping her as a friend or am i wrong? (link)
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This just happened to me on Wednesday.This girl made a comment about me crying over the loss of a common friend and she said she wanted to fight me i told her to do....but my friends dragged me out. If she was any kind of a friend at all she would have belived you when you told her that you didn't tell anyone. Also if she's been telling all your buisness to everyone she doesn't deserve your friendship.You made a good choice keep up the good work
hope i helped
@};-ASHLEY L
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Everytime I get a guy friend they always like me!! I do not like them like that. When they finally tell me they do I'm always honest and tell them I see them just as friends. They sometimes get hurt and distance themselves from me or act funny or mention it to me aall the time. I get guy advice from them, you know?
So here's one:
I haven't talked to Alex for about a year, year and a ahalf because he moved. Well he found me on myspace and called me. We laughed as usual. Then he mentioned how he said I changed and likes my physical appearance. I said thank you of course, then he started asking me relationship questions! (WHAT DO I DO WHEN THEY ASK ME? What's the best thing to say.)
Everytime I tell a guy my dream guy they take it as I'm describing them and I am NOT.
Anyways, we found out we are going to the same party/club in the city tonight (what a co-ink-e-dink!). He's gonna be there thinking I like him and try to show his friends and show off; I kno the story. But I'm single and ready to mingle but NOT with him! I know its gonna hurt him if he sees me like get a number/dance with guys. I don't want to hurt him. I just want to know how to handle this! It ALWAYS happens to me and I want to know if I'm doing the right thing. Now that I think about it... I should have told him from the start BUT he was tellin me about how his ex hurt him and how he wants to move on. I also think he thinks we were TALKIN TALKIN before he moved. N-O.
Thaaaaaaaankx in advance. =D (link)
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this happens to me alot as well but you are doing the right thing. If you don't like someone the way they like you you have to be honest....if you play like you like them back they'll be hurt worse. So if the guy likes you that way always be honest, eventually they'll understand.
hope i helped
@};-ASHLEY L
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