i no this isnt rly a big thing compared 2 wut u deal with but i dont no how 2 like deal with this muh self...so...my BEST friend in the entire world has a problem with keeping secrets n i dont no what 2 do?¿? i cant get mad at her even if i tried and ive tried talking 2 her about how i dont ever want ne one 2 no about these things but she seems not 2 understand. like this one time i did sumthing with this guy n i told her not 2 say NE THING but she goes rite up 2 the guy n talks 2 him about and when i asked her y she told...she was all like 'well he doesnt care if i no' i was like omfg! 'ya well i do and u didnt no that he wouldnt care so u talked 2 him about it ne way and didnt even no what he would think!' i jus dont understand....i love her and i never want 2 lose her but bestfriends r suppose 2 be able 2 keep secrects, rite?¿?
yeah all best friends should but maybe you should do the same thing to her an when she asks why u did it say "well now u know were i am coming from" then again that could b consider as rly childish.. but dont tell a secert thats big.. just something small, ya know? an never give up on tellin her though, how u feel about it, cause best friend dont give up on each otha..ya know? I know what ur goin through cause i have a best friend like that an she is always there for me i just dont tell her much, but i have more then one best friends.. i just dont count on her for that.. i guess thats why your allowed to have more then one best friend.
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Ok, so heres the deal. I've been bestfriends with this girl since I was 11 now Im 18. At the age of 15 we stopped talking for a year because we went to different highschools. Well now, I can't stand to be around her because she lies a lot. And it will be about stupid things or even serious things that you wouldnt lie to your bestfriend about. For instance being a virgin or not, how many people you have had sex with, how much you drank...etc. to the stupidest stuff like how much you spend on a car, how many hours you work, how much your getting paid, hitting an animal in the road n making a story up about it. I tried to confront her 3-4 times before but she gets mad and makes a big deal about it and claims she will never lie to me and stuff. Now that I've had a boyfriend for about 7 months shes thinking I dont hang out with her anymore because of him when its not that at all. Granted I do hang out with him everyday but we will go to parties, watch movies, stuff like that. With her we would sit around or go for a drive n she would usually end up dropping me off at 11 cuz she didnt feel good, was tired, and stupid things like that. My curfew is 1. Everythign she says now I doubt and I'm starting to believe shes a pathological liar. What should I do because everytime I try to talk to her she just turns it all around on me. And when I dont wanna do something like go away with her because Im not allowed or go to the club she tries to guilt trip me sayin that shes second best to my boyfriend and that I never wanna do anything. I've talked to my other friends and they all agree with em n say that they dont liek her but use her for a ride. My betsfriend doesnt know that. What should I dooooo? Hope thats not too complicated for you to follow i kinda rambled on. Thank youuu
well since you already tried talkin to her about it, give her a taste of her own medinice and when she says "why u always lie" b like "so now u get it" but even that is a little childish sometimes friends need to go there own ways but if you dont want to stop bein her friend then you have to keep tellin her how you feel even when she gets mad dont stop..
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My best friend never approves of my "sexual activities" with my boyfriend! Lately, I just wont tell her because I hate how she overreacts but shes my best friend and I cant keep secrets from her!! I feel terrible! Now that I've had sex, I want to tell her but definitly dont know how. She'll get so mad at me.. Should I tell her? What should I say?
say it how you just did..tell you actually wait and need her fed back (sounds like you do - thats how i am wit my best friend!) an like i said say it how u just did, tell you cant keep anything from her, cause u can. and u need to tell.best friends always understands.. i had to when my best friend started havin sex at a 11..dont worry.. those who are true wont have a problem wit what you do..
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