Heyy everybody i hope u like my advice column. I like to give advice 2 people who reelie need it. If u ask me a question i'll try to answer as best i can. I jus don't like it wen people ask b/s questions jus to fool around or make sum1 look lyke a dork. So please don't do that to me or ne colomists. I think its kinda disrespectful. and it makes u sound weird. neway don't b afraid 2 ask q's on family or friend questions. I answer those best so i'll stop here so u can read mi advice and see if i'mma good colomist.
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Me & my friends played a prank on this girl in my school that was picking on me, and she turned us in. Yesterday, I wasn't in school and the guidance conselor called all my friends down to the office, turns out EVERYONE was sayen I did it, even my best friends. I did do most of it, but not all of it. & I admitted to it. Are they real friends? (link)
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I don't think that they are ur BEST friends. If they were your best friends, they would have taken the blame 2. If i were u i would consider getting some new best friends. sorry :(
hope i can help
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Alright... So I just held a party which started about five hours ago and ended around 11:00 pm. 8th period today I invited one of my guy friends at the last minute. I told him that he couldn't bring anybody but himself, since there were already going to be a lot of people and my mother would flip if someone she didn't know, showed up at our house uninvited. He told me his friend whom he hasn't seen in a long time was coming to visit, but I told him that he couldn't bring him for reasons I already stated. It was basically an open invitation, if he could come alone, then he could come, but if he couldn't, then that was too bad. So, a little bit before the party after a few early people arrived, he called me and said he was in the neighborhood and was wondering if he could come a few minutes early. I said it was fine, and he came... with a friend in tow... I was a little pissed, but I let it slide for the time being. Well, a little while later after basically everyone arrived, he "pretended" to steal some of my DVD's and lots of food. Then, a few minutes later, he calls me over and says he's got a "shitload of alcohol" in his car. Now, my friends and I are not into that kind of stuff, and it made me really uncomfortable. I basically told him I thought he should leave. He got a little pissed but agreed to it. His friend was kind of just sitting there the whole time, not talking. So they got up and stood at the food table for a while and just hung out. I was really pissed and worried at the time, cuz one of my other freinds was threatening to leave (the alcohol comment made her really uncomfortable), so I said "Are you just going to loiter there?". He got really pissed then, and then left with his friend. A few minutes later he called all heated and was saying "You were really rude to me, and the alcohol thing was just a joke" which I didn't believe, because he only said it was a joke after I expressed my discontent. So then I told him again why he had to leave, and he was just like "yeah whatever, fuck you" and hung up. Now, I've thought about it over and over and my friends say that he's a jerk and I have every right to be angry. But I'm not sure... Was any of this my fault? I feel I made it very clear that he wasn't supposed to bring anyone, and that if he wanted to spend time with his friend, he should do so. We could always hang out some other time. It's not like he's doing me some huge favor by coming. I just need to know, for my own sanity, do I have the right to be angry? Thanks... Pom (link)
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yes i think you have a right to be angry because you invited him but he didnt want to listen to what you told him(not to bring anyone) then im sure u wanted him to leave bcuz u dont want nething bad to happen. i would have done the same thing. dont feel bad
hope i helped
~happy (almost) halloween!
~TrUmPeTcHyK92
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My best friend's boyfriend was beating the shit out of her.. he made her give him head in front of his friends or else he'd beat the shit out of her.. she had bruises and i saw them.. she told me about it.. i tried talking to her and him.. she tried talking to him.. it was never gonna end.. so i talked to tara (a school counsler) with 2 other people.. and we told them what we have seen and what was going on.. now she blames me.. and only me.. she said i ruined her life and she hates me.. she said that i blew it out of proportion and her lame fucking excuse for it was that he gets worried about her and then he gets angry so like when ur so angry u wanna hit someone that's what he does.. hello but am i the only one who doesn't hit my signifigant other when i'm pissed off?? i just don't know if i did the right thing.. i love her so much she's my best friend and i'd do nething for her and i just felt like this whole thing with her boyfriend was waaay out of control and i couldn't do nething more to help! i had to tell someone.. i dunno but i feel like killing myself and i dunno what to do... first i wanna go kill him.. then i'll kill myself.. sounds like the best plan to me but ya know there are people who actually care about him surprisingly and i couldn't never kill neone but that's beyond the point.. i dunno what to do about my friend and meanwhile it's throwing me in a hole i can't get out of and i just dunno what to do.. please help :'(
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heyy,
well i no that u should definately NOT kill neone (u or him) and the only advice that i can give u is to not feel bad and u did it bcuz u cared right? i would b the happiest person if mi friend did sumthing like that 4 me. I just think that ur friend either was to scared to tell some1 or have sum1 else b told OR she didnt want neone to no this soon(if it was soon after)
i hope i can help
i hope everything works out
~Trumpetchyk
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A friend of mine has recently put on some extra weight, yet she continues to wear the same clothes that are obviously to small for her. While in her bathing suit she said she didn't understand why it was so small, and that it must have shrunk. I don't know if she realizes the truth or if she is in denial.
I am her good friend, should I tell her the truth of what I am thinking, and if so how do I do it without hurting her feelings? (link)
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heyy,
If u feel that u truely need to tell ur friend, then tell her straight out. if shes a good friend, she'll understand that u want to help. cuz i would want mi friend 2 tell me if i put on some extra pounds. wouyldn't u?
hope i can help
Good luck wit ur friend!
~`*TrUmPeTcHyK92*`~
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I've had a friend for 6 years now, and we've met these two other girls. She's been REALLY mean to me because she's less popular than me and wants them to hate me or something. I know if I talk to her she'll pretend she doesn't know what I'm talking about. And to top it all off, our moms are best friends!
-Friend or Foe?
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I think that you should get a new friend because if she was a real friend she wouldn't do that kind of stuff. Don't worry about ur mom cuz she'll understand that just because both moms are friends doesn't mean that u 2 have to b.
hope i helped!
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me and my friend fight ALL the time.. i really wish she would shut up! she brags and annoys me a lot! then she thinks we are like best friends! i dont know what to do!! i dont want to tell her i hate her cause i dont know how she will react! but what if she feels the same way as I do! please dont tell me to just "talk it out" i need real advice that will work!!!! thanks (link)
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Since you fight so much i think that you should tell her that you need a break from her for a couple of weeks. then if she says ok, after a couple of weeks, see if your relationship w/ her is going in a positive direction. If not , then i think that you two shouldn't b friends anymore cuz it's not worth it to put yourself through soo many fights to just b friends w/ this 1 person.
hope it works!
Good luck!
TrumpetChyk92
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hOw cOme When yOur Besfriends Are SuppOsed tO Be yOUr BestFriend They Turn On yOu..??...And When yOur BestFriends Are pOpular In The ScHoOl..Once One dOnt Like yOu The Rest dOnt???..And Katy..gOod Luck On The Site I Beliven yOu..All My Luck gOes tO yOu Girl (link)
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If your "Bestfriends" do that kind of stuff to you, then they're not really your friends at all because FRIENds wouldn't do that.
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