My BoYfRiEnD rIgHt NoW iS aBrEy JaMeS!!!My best friend is Autum Waw, Nikki Joyce and we r like so freakin always goin to be friends. it doesnt matter who trys to stop that from happening. ppl tried last year and it didnt stop us so nothing ever will. (i am knocking on wood like crazy.) lol!
Nicky you are the best!! I LOVE YOU!!
Danielle Babe your the best. I couldnt live without you!!! ;) I LOVE YOU!!!
I hang out with Danielle Semore, Autum Waw, Tera Potts, Austin Hullet Mullet Gullet, Josh Plater, Chris Bullard, Matt Woodard, Nicky Defrange, Nikki Joyce, Kevin Fletcher, Amanda Allen, Sara Carrillo, Savanah Smith, Rebecca Marquez, Brandon Eckert, Thomas Gearinger, Lisa Heflin, Josh Garber, Daniel Kerbow, Ariel Sanders, Shawn Adams, Chris Wood.!!!!!!! ThEy ArE tHe BeStEsT pEoPlEs EvEr!!!
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okay ive known these girls for a very long time but this year we started to be best friends. we always did stuff with each other and had sleepovers every weekend. but lately they both have been getting mad at each other and they both turn to me to either invite over without the other or for advice. i feel uncomfortable because i don't want to get in the middle and i want to keep both for friends. i want to be as close as we used to be. how do i make that happen? help! (link)
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if i were you i would talk to your friends at the same time and tell them that you dont want them to fight anymore and that you want to be as close as you used to be. i know what its like to be put in the middle of these situtations. i tend to be the peace maker of my friends and me. and they always seem to come running to me for advice about everything. well like i said i would sit down with them and tell them that you dont want to have them fighting anymore and that you would really like it if they would talk everyithing out and settle it all right then and there.
hope i helped!
signed:~Desy~
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look, theres this guy and i mean ive liked him a very long time and he really means a lot to me...i try to stop liking him because i know he messes around w/ these other girls that i dont like...that NO1 likes...but everytime im around him he puts me in this trap and like trys to find a way to hold my hand and stuff and its sweet...what does it mean? i mean we've discussed our liking each other b4 and he f'd things up last time so i told him to f off......but i know now that i really like him...again...and i dont know what to do...please help... (link)
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i would say ask him out or at least talk about it again. because it seems to me that he is dropping hints like crazy when you are around him that he likes you. and i have been in this situtation before. as a matter of fact i am in it right now with my ex-b/f and stuff. but i dont know what to do when it comes to me. but i can help other people with this kind of problem when they ask for advice even if i dont know what to do for my relationship, because its a lot different when your not the one trying to figure it all out and doing it. so again i say that if i were you i would talk to him about it or ask him out. and by-the-way me and him are talking about this to and so far its gone ok
hope i helped!
signed:~Desy~
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I have a friend lets call her T ok she move this year at the beginning because of her abusive ex b/f. Well she is moving back this summer. Here is the problem we are going to high school next year for the first time and she wants me to go with her to a different school. My mom already said yes, but i dont know if i should leave my old school and friends just for her if u give me a good answer i will rate high
please help me
Lisa (link)
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um................let get this all strait! "T" moved because of her ex-b/f and now she is moving back this summer.. she wants you to go to a different school then the highschool that you should be going to because she doesnt want to go alone. but you dont know if you should leave all of your other friends for one friend who doesnt want to be alone and have to make new friends all over again.
well if i were you i would really think about what you want more. if you want to be at a school that you know that you have friends there to support you in everything that happens or if you want to go somewhere that you only have one friend there. i mean you could get in to some sort of fight with some person at this other school and since your other friends arent going to be at that school then they wont know exactly what all went down to start the whole thing between the two of you. between you and your best friends they may not understand why you and the people are arguing. so with all of that in mind i think that you should do what you think would be best for you.. you should go to what ever school you think you will do better at and not worry about what the rest fo your friends want you to do. just follow your heart and go were it takes you. your heart should take you to the place that is best for you!
Good Luck!
Hope I Helped!
Sorry that i couldnt give you a strait up answer! this was a really hard question and i usually do the best i can to answer any question to the fullest of my abilities. i havent ever refused a question that has been in my inbox and i dont ever plan on it happening!
signed: ~Des~
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I was talking to this girl from my class on the phone today and I realized that she is pretty cool and I want to be friends with her. The thing is that she is not very popular and I'm afraid that if I start hanging out with her, my other friends won't want to hang with me and might diss me. Am I being shallow or stupid? And what should I do? (link)
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if you want to be friends with her then you should be. if your friends have a problem with her just because she isnt popular then that is their problem. if they are true friends then they wont diss you and stop hanging out with you. you should do what you want to do and not let peer pressure stop you. it doesnt matter what they think about her. as long as you like her that is all that matters. everyone needs a friend and you can be just that. dont let your friends put you down just because you want to hang out with her.
signed: ~Des~
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Background information: my boyfriend dumped me online 2 months ago, but we stayed friends. My best friend helped convince me that getting revenge was a good idea, and came up with ways of getting revenge.
I just found out that a week before we split, she was talking to someone about how we were on the verge of breaking up.
I didn't know anything about this at the time. However, she knew I was going to be dumped. She knew it would upset me. She knew all along and she convinced me to get revenge.
I feel totally betrayed - what should I do? (link)
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if i were you i would just try to talk to your friend. because she knew and didnt tell you then you should feel betrayed, i would too! but just talk to her about it. ask her why she didnt tell you. because you would have liked to know that he was going to break up with you.
signed: Desy
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SORRY THIS IS LONG..ILL GIVE A 5 TO ANYBODY WHO ANSWERS THIS!! THANX!!
me and my friend have been best friends since 8th grade...were now in 12th grade and as the school year is coming to an end and were going to be graduating i feel like now is the chance that we need to hang out and reminice on our inside jokes and everything. the problem is..she has a fiance..she is 18 yrs old n has only been going out with this kid for 4 months... they spend every minute of there lives together and its like there is no need for me anymore. Well i've talked to her about this so many times i've decided to just give up. So i started to just hang out with my other friends. Well all of a sudden she said to me "it feels like were not friends anymore" and i said well why do you feel like that and she said " because we dont talk alot n stuff". Well the thing is everything i try n talk to her she just says oh were still friends and goes on her way. Everytime i try and hang out with her it's either oh im doing something with Russ tonight (thats her fiancee) or its well u can hang out with us if u want. I dont want to be the third wheel..yes i have a boyfriend but she doesn't like him so what am i supposed to do about that? im trying to please everyone but its not working. And when i try to just hang out with her and just me and her its like her fiancee gets all mad at me and everything. I really don't know what to do!!! can someone please help!!? (link)
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I think that you should stop trying to please everyone at the same time, and just be yourself. Nobody can please everybody that comes into their life all at once. Maybe you should talk to Russ, and tell him that you want to hang out with your bestfriend by yourself WITHOUT him around and without him gettin mad at you for it. I mean she was your bestfriend before she was his fiance. Tell them both that you feel like he is taking your best friend away from you and that you really dont want to lose her at all. I did that with my bestfriend who had a fiance and then it helped and he didnt let her take him from me.
HOPE I HELPED!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!
signed:~DeSy~
p.s. if you ever need anything else feel free to leave a message in my inbox. and i will answer it as soon as i can. I am usually on here everyday, and when i am in Technology so i answer questions when i am in there almost every other day.
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what do u do when your friend is about to date a guy whos a complete asshole and that ALL of her friends hate? please help soon! (link)
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try to tell her that you dont think that she needs to go out with him. if your a really good friend to her and she is a really good friend then she will listen to what you have to say about him and why you dont think its a very wise idea for her to date him.
signed: Toddsbff
hope i helped! thanks for asking!
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I have this friend, And I seriously think that I am falling for him. We talk all the time and we claim eachother as best friends and all, But now, I dont know, I've seriously fallen for him. I tlak to him and I get this big smile on my face and I just start giggeling. All I ever want to do is be near him! ugh... oh yea, He's younger than me. What do I do?
((Confused)) (link)
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go for it! it should work out! i mean if you and him r bestfriends and everything then it shouldnt mess up your friendship b*cus if yall r as good friends as you think then niether of you will let something interfere with that relationship!
signed: Toddsbff
Happy Valentines Day!
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theres this kid who keeps on saying sup' dog to me and when i dont answer him he sayes a name so evil i cant repeat it even on the computor. this has become a problem because now my friends call me that sometimes. (link)
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well have you tried to talk to your friends or him about this? I think that if you stand up for your self and confront your friends they will most likely stop. They will probably understand and everything. If they dont stop then after you ask them to and talk to them about it then they arent the greatest friends in the world, and they may not really care about your feelings about the situation. so try to talk to them about it and go on from there.
signed:Toddsbff
P.S. Good Luck!!!
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say you doa weight loss program and you tell sya 2 friends, then your other 2 friends found out you told them something but you really feel uncomfortable if you tell them so you dont tell them, a week paces and you think all is fine but then your friends you diddnt tell started makeing fun of you and you really dont think they should do it. you want to stay friends with them but every thime you try to tell them it just isnt the time and place. so you now have no idea what to. so thats why ikm asking you right know.
please help me
always
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well just ask them to come over one night and say that u really need to tell them somethin then when its the right time tell them and i really think that they will be understanding. i wish u good luck..
signed: ToddsBff
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