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Ok, this is my problem. A girl in my class seemed really nice at the begining of the year, but now she's getting on my nerves. She thinks she knows everything and won't ever agree with me. She acts like my best friend, but then when we're around her "popular" friends she acts like she doesn't know me. I've tried telling her, but she won't listen. How do I get her to realize that she's not better than me?

if your friend is like that, to tell you the truth, shes a total wannabe. I say to try to talk to her again. Just IM her or something and go "[[girl's name here]], we need to talk" and tell her exactly what's going on. If she doesnt listen to you, then frankly she isnt a real friend because she doesnt even give you time to explain. friends depend on eachother to be honest and open if they want to, and apparently your friend here isnt doing that. I hope I helped, and if you need anything else feel free to leave something in my inbox.

xOo Nikki xO

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this girl that says im her best friend always talks about my other friends behind their back, so i tell them because i dont think its right for her to do that. The other day she was talking about one of my friends named danielle, and so i told danielle this weekend and dnaielle said that my suppose to best friend called me a spoiled brat and a bitch and said that she doesnt hang out wtih me that much because i act stuck up .. but she is always calling me. I talked to the best friend and she siad she didnt say that, but how do i know because she always talks about everyone else to me. What should i do? i rate high!!

Well, heres the thing. No friend talks about other best friends behind their backs. If she really did call you all of that then shes not worth being your friend! Nobody deserves to be treated like junk, even if they talk junk to other people. So, what I'm trying to say to you is::Drop her. Otherwise, just tell her to stop talking about you and your other friends behind their backs. I hope I helped. Tell me how it turns out.

xOo Nikki xO

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One of my best friend's brother died in a car crash because of street racing. Tomorrow I am going to his funeral with our friends and to be there for my friend. I really dont know what to wear and what I'm supposed to do there. Do I bring a gift. I feel really bad. He was onlt 17 years old. Please help.

You wear something formal like a tux/dress. And you'll probably see some people you know there, so you can just talk to them and cry if you feel sad of course :( of course, its always nice to bring a gift. maybe bring a rose to put on his grave. I hope I helped, my friend's parents died so I know how you feel.

xOo Nikki xO

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Okay, one of my friends who used to be a really good friend of mine is mad at me. She says I follow her every-where, and do every-thing like her. But I don't, I wish we could just be friends again, but she won't even talk to me. I don't know what to do, I'm so confuzed! Please help! I rate!!

Thanks, a desperate friend!

Well, I mean, I kinda have a friend like that. Sometimes people get tired of someone hanging around them 24/7. I mean, they have a life, too. So one day just go up to the mirror or something and ask yourself. "What do I do to make this person mad?" And maybe go up to her and ask her what you did wrong. I mean, its probably not your fault because you probably didnt notice it. I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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