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okay..well my friend is going out with this guy that i like..i thought that i was doing the right thing by telling her this..i know it wasnt the best move..but i also said that i couldnt be bestfriends with someone who i like((this was all in an e-mail))..well a few days later her boyfriend told me online that she showed him the e-mail! i was so mad! i started crying..and i was on the phone with one of my friends and she couldnt believe it either...i cant believe my best friends judgement..we have been in arguments for awhile adn i think that i should draw the line here..what do you think? i really dont wanna be friends with someone who betrayed me like that..i just dont! and she has done things like this before...i really dont want to talk to her again..but our families are very close..i jsut dont know what to do..PLEASE help me!!
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I think you should just ditch your friend because friends don't do that.If you say she's done this before that doesn't sound like a true friend to me. To tell you the truth I don't know what I'd do if our familys were close.
Hope I helped.
SAB
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i live in this very small town and im 14 and so is jessica, we've been goodfriennds since we were 10 and she was always sort of an ugly girl, but now shes really gorgeus, shes fit into her body, pretty face, killer body.. she has the whole package. i love her becuz shed never ditch me and shes still the same but now shes been seeing or hangin out with older guys, some 18, some 21, or 23. and i mean if she can do it good for her but i hungout with her, this 22 year old john and his friend vince and i mean we rented a hotel and her and john went in but me and vince stayed in the car and we smoked and kind of hookedup, im getting feelinds for him and i know hes older but is it ok? she didnt make me like him or anything (link)
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I think that it's ok because it doesn't matter if the guy is 20, 30, 40, 50 , or 80. It doesn't matter because al long as u like him and he likes u it's fine. The only problem here is what your parents would think.
Yours truly,
SAB
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I went out with this guy name josh for 3 months then we broke up. When he got a new girlfriend, we hated each other. We didnt even know each other, but just the fact that she went out with him i hated her adn she hated me because i used to go out with him. Well 2 weeks ago me adn cheyenne(his girlfriend) started talkin and became good friends. Well she wants me to go to the movies with her next weekend, but josh is gonna be there too. I still have feelings for him and me adn him dont talk that much anymore. So i think it would be really weird and uncomfortable going. She really wants me to go though. I do wanna go .. but when they start kissing i am gonna get sad and my face might get red or something. Should i still go? What all should i do? (link)
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I think that you should go. Take a close guy friend with you so you won't feel to awkward if they start to kiss. Explain to your guy friend the situation you're in so that he could understand what you're goinng through.
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My friend is moving away.... and my other friend was gonna have a party for her but i didnt no it was gonna be a surprise so i kinda told her... now all of my friends are mad at me and no one wants to be my friend! i was gonna go to this party but 4 of the girls who are mad at me will be there so now im not going i dont even wanna go to school on monday bc everyone will be mean to me and i have no friends bc none of them wanna talk to me or anything and i dont no wat to do to make them be my friends again! (link)
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You have to stand up to them and tell them that you didn't know that the party was gonna be a suprise and if they wanted it to be a suprise they should of made sure that they informed everyone that it was gonna be a suprise .Tell them to stop blaming this on you and grow up. You have to let them know that it was a mistake and that you can't be mad at each other for the rest of your lives. If your friends can't understand that they don't seem like true friends to me.
Try to make new friends.
Keep your chin up,
Sab
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so lets call her summer.
me and summer have been friends for a couple months. but now summer is being mean and is really annoying and i just DONT like her anymore. the problem is i half to sit with her in health and i HATE it. shes really chubby and the boys tease her all of the time but she was mean before that. and im popular and she trys to fit in but shes not bcuz well shes MEAN. and now shes hitting on my boyfriend and its annoying. and shes extremely 2 faced and gossips all of the time. and im sick of it. so how do i tell her i dont want to be her friend? silent treatment? i rate high. (link)
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I had the same problem. This is what I did just tell her that you're starting to hate her attitude and she's just getting on your nerves. Tell her that you don't think it's right for her to be hitting on your boyfriend tell her to get her own.
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