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I used to have many best friends. When 7th grade started some of them became part of the popular crowd, a few went totally goth on me and cut them selves constantly and some just ditched me. I have like one or two friends now that still hang out with me. I have lots of other people hang out with me, but now I'm realizing how they truly feel about me by all the rumors they are starting. I just don't know what to do anymore, I'm so alone. Please help.

well those kind of people are two-faced. and you dont need people in your life like that. just have more of an "i dont need you" attitude and more people will be attracted to your confidence. & i dont want to seem rude but it sounds like maybe people ditched you because it was time to grow up since its middle school and you were still acting immature. so just have confidence and act mature. and remember.. the only people you need in your life are the ones who need you in theirs

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my best friend is the one i love. it is so hard for me to go near him knowing he doesn't love me. is it because my age? were 2 years younger? we go over each other's house all the time...and all we do is LAUGH! and when ever i tell my other friend's about it they tell me i should just ask him out. should i? or should i wait a little bit longer till we a bit closer? please help

friends make the best relationships, so if it feels right, go for it!! :)

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Okay, two of my best friendsare really good friends between themselves too, but they fight ALOT!! i try to just sit them down and talk to them, and sometimes i'm the go-between, but right now im caught in the middle. Like, at lunch today, they were in the middle of a fight, and not even sitting at the same table, and both wanted me to sit with them, but i didn't wanna choose a side, so i sat with some of my other friends, and they both got mad at me for that!! What can i do? they wont even listen to me!!

try to tell them that you like both of them as friends... and you dont want to lose either. Good job not choosing a table.. that was the best thing to do. any time that they are mad at eachother, you should do that. if they wont even give you a chance to say that, then you could try writing it in a note. if they still wont even try to understand.. maybe neither of them are good friend material, and you should hang out with some other people until they stop fighting.. and then join the friendship again. hope i helped

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ok friday night there was a basketball game and i went and i hung out with one of my bestfriends k but at the game i thought she was being mean right ok well after the game was a dance and i didnt go but i called my friend k and she was there and she hung up in face which made me really mad k and yesterday sunday i was talking to her on aim and shes all are u mad at me and i was like yea and shes all y and im like well you hung up on me when i called and lately you just start yelling at me for no reason... so she like got mad and blocked me... she came to me at school last week and just starts yelling at me telling me that i could have gotten her phone taken away and im just like ok well you gotta tell me that instead of yelling at me and yea shes done it more then once and like i was trying to explain to her that I hate when she yells at me cuz were supposed to be friends but she wont let me... and this pisses me off cause sometimes it feels like she doesnt treat me like a friend but something else... today i went up to her and tried to work things out cause shes my best friend so i went up to her and smiled and then shes like thats such a stupid reason for you to be mad and im like no you arent supposed to hang up in my face and this other girl standing next to me is like yea you should have just been like i cant talk right now gotta go bye but she didnt and then she starts yelling infront of some of friends that i shouldn't call her cell phone after nine and a bunch of crap so i just turn around and leave cause i serioulsy dont need her yelling at me... but still im so mad cause its like i cant tell her how i feel and if i do she will get mad isnt that dumb arent we supposed to be bestfriends and tell each other when were mad and stuff i even told her that it hurts my feelings in stuff but she wouldnt listen to me...
What should i do PLEASE HELP!!!
~!~Live Strong~!~

i used to have a best friend like this... it wasnt all that fun. i bet your friend is a fun person to hang out with... but she gets really moody, right? well i dont think you should depend on this friend so much. my friend never stopped acting like that... i just decided that the title of -best friends- wasnt the best for us... we still hang out, but i dont depend on her to always have my back, cause she proble won`t. hope i helped.. xOx

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i have this friend beth and shes makign all of these bad choices liek havin sex and doin drugs.. how do I help her?

tell her your concerned... i dont think you can totally make her stop making bad decisions, but if you tell her your worried about her, she will back off a lil cuz she knoes sum1 cares about her... Ox hope i helped

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maaaan-- i only have 3 friends :(

ahaha your a loser... MAKE SOME u loner!!!!!!!!! LOL, JK :) xOx

--ps this is my friend, i would never answer a real question like this, lol

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o0ok.. my best friend well she claims we are best friends and i love her to death. but she is aloud to have more friends but if i go hang out with anyother friend she like gets upset with me n im like o0ok how n the heck is this fair. so if you could help me that would be wonderful ik so confused n have no idea what to do.

thanks
Megan

the next time she gets mad, just tell her, "i dont htink this is fiar, you hang out with other friends, but i cant? im sorry for not inviting you, i just wanted to hang out w/ this person a little bit."

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