I am a nurses assistant. Im also a bridal consultant. I want to become a teacher. I moved alot. I have lived in small towns and so i know most of my experinces to be around family and friends. I know much about health and nutrition. I have dyslexisa. I have three brothers. two of which i know and one that ran away. I have been in a relationship for a year and a half... im sure theres more to know about me! but thats all folks.
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16/f. i have really bad anxiety. and im suppos to get medication soon. but i think i will start school before i get it and itll be really hard for me to make friends.. because i get really nevous and when i talk i sound like im in special ed, but im actually really smart or i sound just really quiet and squeaky..and its also hard for me to smile unless someone says something thats funny. i dont smile that much, never have really.. even when i was younger. when im with a friend, im not nervous at all but i dont have any. lol :( (link)
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i have terrible anxiety. i am akward around my friends... but they understand.. show them who you are. be helpful.. your smart help them be the friend that they can always lean on.. you dotn have to be a huge joker or be the most enthusiastic person in the world. you can have a great time in school without trying to become a prom princess. try to smile everytime you look into a mirror. and when you shower try to smile the entire time( i went to a therapist who told me to do this because we feel vulnerble at that time and to smile.. even till our faces hurt can help alot). but dont worry about that because it till make it worse. dont focus on it. im positive you have wounderful qualities people look for in friends. try to be out going and there for people. people will want to be life long friends with you.
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I am in highschool and in the begining of the year, I met this girl. As time passed, she grew more and more annoying. She is an attention junky and will do anything to get noticed. Some of the things she has done have been extremely embarrassing to the point when I ask myself why do I know her. She won't leave me and my friends alone and we have gotten into many fights. I am sick of her and I don't want to spend the rest of my highschool career with her by my side. I wish she would just leave me alone. She is dreadful just to speak to on the phone. What do I do? I have already tried telling her I don't want to be her friend. Please ~~~help! (link)
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i would say dont answer her phone calls... dont call her. dont ask to hang out when you see her somewhere. slowly she will get that their is no friendship there and will stop trying to bug you. if she does not.. if she is the type of person that goes totoaly crazy.. get a restraining order.. atleast an inschool one.. so you can have your highschool life back to yourself.
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Me and my friend got into a huge fight 2 days ago.And everytime on the bus she is always giving me dirty looks but i give her one back.How can i tell if she is talking behind my back? (link)
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if she ever talked to you behind other peoples backs she is probably talking about you. if you ever talked behind poeples backs to her. shes probably talking about you. because she did it to others or because you did it to other people she might think its okay. if neither of you ever did that then she might not be talking behind your back.. she might just be angry with you and giving you dirty looks. so i guess ask yourself those questions and hopefully you will know what to do.
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16/f. there's this girl..and she was my "best friend" since the 8th grade. we're now in the 10th grade. and we've drifted apart. we have no classes together, we never do anything together (once per every three months..we might go to the mall..once..) she never calls me..i never call her. myspace is our only form of communication everyday. along with saying hi and talking for the first 20 minutes of school. we have different groups of friends..and she doesn't get along with mine =| we have completely different interests. and i realize that friends should be different..but we're TOO different. she also gets on my nerves and is very annoying sometimes. along with clingy. (if she's my best friend, no one else can be) she's always 'bored'. we don't even CHAT online..or text. yet she still considers me her best friend..but she doesn't know that i've made a new best friend. i love her..like a friend..i really do. but it won't work out. how can i slowly tell her that i'm not her best friend anymore? i think it'd be better for both of us.
thank you in advance :[ (link)
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persoanlly i dont think you need to tell her. are you guys REALLY best friends right now? im sure she knows. you guys see eachother out of school every few months.. she is probably as bored and tired of the relationship as you are.. but it doesnt mean just because you guys dotn hang out and talk for 3 hours a day doesnt mean you guys cant be freinds. i think that the BEST way to tell her is maybe not to straight out say it.. that can just cause a fight.. jsut let it grow apart.. we all realize it at some point. but i have to tell you my best friend and i talk maybe every three weeks we neevr hang out we dont go to the same school we dotn have the same friends, we dont have the same interests.. but when i REALLY need someone she is ALWAYS there for me. im always there for her. inbetween the big stuff we have our other friends... you know? and we know that we have other best friends too.. it just takes time.. so you can either just tell her and that will cause a fight... or you can let her realize it on her own..
anyways i hope that helps.
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i hate girls and i wanna tell my friends that i hate girls but i don't want them getting the idea that i hate my friends so how should i word this? (link)
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well if you need to talk baout it. say "some girls" "sterio typical girls" and stuff liek that. dont just generalize it.. i think thats the best way to do it. and believe me im sure they will udnerstand cause we all have felt that way
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OK this may not make sense to all of you, and if so, I'm sorry :P
Well the thing is..I feel more comfortable hanging around with guys than girls. I have an equal amount of guy and girl friends and I'm NOT a tomboy.
An ordinary girl.
But I donno, it's like with guys I'm more relaxed and more outgoing.
But then again, at the same time I have quite low self esteem.
Is there anything wrong with me? The way I feel more relaxed around guys, why is that?
Also what could I do to improve my self esteem? (link)
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theres nothing wrong with you. you probbaly enjoy being with the guys cause you may worry about girls judging you more than you worry about the guys. thats normal.. as for self esteem. for me its from within. i know it sounds SO cheesy and stupid but telling yourself that your outfit looks good today and stuff helps. you dont have to sit in the mirror and convicne yourself your pretty everyday. just small things that you can think about yourself as the day goes on.. if you know what i mean? just try it for a while. i swear it helps
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lately the friends ive been hangin out with for like a year have been gettin on my nerves. i mean like my x best friend is now like the person i most avoid because of how annoyin she has become, or was she always that way and i never noticed till now.all these ppl that i thought id be friends with for like ever, are now very annoying and i jsut dont want to have anything to do with em. i want to go and make new friends but does that make me a bad peron for ditchin em for other ppl? (link)
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take soem time to yourself. or hang out with a new group of friends. if you miss your old friends you will appriciate who they were and perhaps not care so much about all those annoying things they do.. and if it ends up ebing they become more annoying then you know you did the right thing by giving yourself space insted of making a big huge fight
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Ok I have 3 friends and I love them all but here is the deal. One friend named S always says she has problems with me and C. I love S because she is so funny and smart but she is always saying bad things about us. Sometimes at lunch she will list the problems about C and some things C does do but I am just like watever. C also talks about S and says somethings that are true. I love C too because she lives close to me and we hang out a lot and she is funny and caring. Now H always sides with S and I feel like I am just stuck in the middle and all I hear about is crap about the other friend. I love them all and I still want to be friends with all of them but how do i get these problems to stop with still being friends? (link)
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why dont you just tell them that you dont want them to talk baout your friends like that weither or not its true if they have a problem they should just go tell eachother because you would stand up for them if somoen was talking behind there back. and start doing that for all of them. it would show to their face that you would stand up for them and indirectly showing them that you are a caring friend by saying not to talk about other people behind their backs? thats what i do
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There is a girl at school, she seems nice. So recently she got a myspace. She tells me "Oh you're on my top so I better be on yours!" so of course that means for me to put her on my top. I'm a nice person, so I did. Now I find out she is not the best person. She FAST in other words. And I do NOT want to be associated with people like that. I want to take her off my page, but what do I say if she asks what happened in the most polite way?? THANKS! (link)
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i get that ALL the time. bugs me... i dont add peopel when they ask.. i hide mine. and when people see that their not on my top friends when they use the computer with me i just tell them i dont rate my friends so its not a big deal..
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i don't know what do give one of my good friends for christmas. i want to get her something good cause she's been there for me 6 years, what should i get her?
15/f (link)
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i know it sounds so stupid at my age (18) but i get my friends little things.. and alot of them.. like.. their favorite movie. pictures frames.. silly string.. candy.. blanket... pillow.. stuffed animal.. calendar... hair ties.. anything that you KNOW they need.. or that reminds you of them or reminds them of you. just the little things matter in life.. and can be a really nice present.
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omg i have a pretty great life im in 7th grade and already there is WAYYYY to much dRAMAH and i used to be friends with a lot more people now and we are kind of breaking into cliques now and i like all my friends a lot but there is just WAY to much drama betweeen boys and all the other cliques in school (link)
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Dealing with drama can be tough. the best way to tone the drama down, and still be friends with everyone is to LISTEN. people LOVE when you seem like you care. not that you dont care.. just that you listen. For example. say emily talks about erin in a not so nice way to you.. you have some choices. you can say OH MY GOD I KNOW!! SHE TOTALY DOES THAT ALL THE TIME BLAH BLAH BLAH. or you can listen. they can get out whatever is frustrating them. tell them itll be alright and to talk to erin because erin might be doing something irritating because a problem shes having and hasent told you guys about it yet. at your age you love to talk because so much is changing ALL the time. try your best just to slow it down and not let yourself be put in a situation where you look like your gossiping about others all the time. ALSO.. thatll help with guys.. guys dont want to gossip all the time. they like to "chill"..just have fun.
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