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Hiho! My name is Meg...and I like giving advice. My friends say I give good advice, and lead me to this site. I liked the concept, so I signed up for an account. I hope to help everyone with their problems. If you need advice, just ask! ^_^I'm back from a LONG haitus, so I've probably missed a lot of advice giving! I'm really sorry! My computer died, so I had to get another one...and that took a while. But, I'm back now and ready to give advice! ^_^
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My name is Mia. Lately i've been feeling really bad about myself because i'm horrible at making friends because i'm so self concious about every thing I do. But luckily I had one true friend who lives in another town. Let's call her Megan. Today on myspace, I was looking at megan's profile and saw she had a few comments from Lea, a popular girl at my school. They were "who's the annoying girl?" Then the next one was "mia who?" then "no i dont show my comments, " So I was like omg, please don't tell me Megan is saying i'm an annoying bitch. Well, I know how to look at peoples comments if they hide them, and i'm not a stalker. I only do it in situations like these. Sure enough, comments from Megan said "so you have seen the ANNOYING GIRL! " the next one said "omg lol MIAAAAAA" then "CHEERLEADING MIAAAA" (cause i do cheering with lea) here's the horrible one. "yeah haha she was asking me like a billion times to come over but thank goodness I had a reason for my cousin being here and shit! you dont show your comments do you" I FELT LIKE CRYING. she's the only girl I get the courage to actually ask if I can hang out. and I did NOT ASK HER A BILLION TIMES. she always says she's busy so I ask her like once every 2 weeks. But i'm so confused because when we do go over each others house, she acts like we are best friends, and she invites me to all her parties. WE WERE FRIENDS SINCE WE WERE 3!!!! How should I address this to her, on the phone, IM? And how should I say it. And I don't want to be little shy Mia. I want to be a little nasty with her.
What I think you should do is tell her flat out that you saw the comments, and tell her it hurt you. You don't have to be nasty about it, just tell her the truth.
ohkay. so 15/f. My best guy friend has a girlfriend. And I dislike her very much. But if I tell him that I dislike her, he gets upset at me. And he sometimes doesn't talk to me after I tell him that :| But what annoys me...is that I fakely try to be nice to her. (I know it isn't right) But I try and be nice to her, just so he would talk to me more. But it annoys the hell out of me, when all three of us are talking...he embarrasses me...and puts his girlfriend in a more superior "position" than me! And I hate being fakely nice to her, because I KNOW that she doesn't like me. And I know she's faking it, just so she seems perfect to him! But she's not..she's SOOOO fake. I've been trying to convince him that she is. But he won't believe me. It's like one of those movies, where you try to tell the truth, yet nobody believes you. The thing is, I'm younger than him. And I have no intention of like going with him or anything. He treats me like a younger sister/girlfriend. But the thing is...when his gf isn't around...he flirts with me! I just don't know what's going on. Sometimes when we're on MSN...and both of them are online...I sign in, and they both just IGNORE me completely! I feel so left out. lol...I wish something bad would happen to her. ;_; Is this jealousy? =/
First of all, I don't think you're feeling jealous, but more like you feel annoyed that you're being ignored. What you should do is flat out tell your guy friend what you think about what is happening. Be honest, and tell him what you think of his girlfriend too. If he truely cares, he'll do something about it.
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omg, my friend. is being such a big huge slut. and doesn't even care. she sends naked pictures of herself to guys she doesnt know, her mom found out , she doesnt care and still does it. then she sent it to this one girls boyfriend, and his girlfriend freaked out. [not that i blame her at alll] and my friend kept making it worse. i cant stand what shes doing. and whenver i agree with the other person, just a little bit, she freaks out and gets mad at me. what should i do? i dont want her to end up being pregnant one day.
I think you should sit your friend down, and tell her what your thoughts are about the situation. Tell her how worried you are, and that you're upset about it. If she's a true friend, she'll understand...and hopefully stop. If she doesn't stop, or doesn't care, then maybe having her as a friend isn't worth it.