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I'm Alyssa. I am 16, about to be a junior in High School, bi-sexual, and been through A LOT. I am willing to answer anything and everything.I am looking into becoming an ER Nurse or EMT and i'm taking Anatomy and also basic Health Science. Plus I have an insane amount of health problems.
I have been diagnosed with depression and anxiety and also I know alol about eating disorders, as I have had one, and gay/bi issues I know a lot about! I'm also a computer whiz and know loads of HTML and that kind of stuff. Basically ANY kind of question-- I can answer! Hope to you help you.
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Is it a bad thing that he guy u have a crush on says ur cute but 2 shy?
This guy is a loser. Shy = mysterious. Mysterious=intriguing. Why would he NOT like a shy girl?
If he's saying that you're "too shy" he is probobly not interesting. Move on as quickly as possible, and find a better guy. One who thinks your shyness is cute.
I'm 13, and there's this guy that I REALLY like. I told him, he doesn't like me back, but we're still friends. There's a dance in 3 hours, and I'm not sure whether I should ask him to slow dance. I mean, we slow danced last dance, and I'm afraid that I'll look like I'm desperately trying to "win" him when I'm not, especially considering the fact that he knows that I like him and that he does not like me back. Do you think I should, or would I just look like a loon? If not, could you give a good reason?
DO IT! =)
Just go for it. It's really not a big deal. It's just one dance-- it could lead to a relationship.
Screw what people would think. If you like him, make your move. Whats the hesitation? Just do it. You will be so proud of yourself if you do.
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all my friends (that are girls) are prettier than me ! especially my bestfriend ! she is like perfecttt ! she has the perfect face, the perfect hair, she is a perfect cheerleader, and she has the perfect body
.. and me well im skinny so im not that big-chested .. and well my hair never comes out as good as hers and i have the worst smile.. like i got braces and my teeth are straight .. but their reallly big and my smile isnt a good smile.. ALL my friends have good smiles and are pretty and outgoing and the boys like them..
like i mean i dont think im UGLY .. but compared to them i feel like i am ..
i just need something to help me gain more self-confidence and stop me from being so self-conscious about the way i look and i want to be more outgoing like my friends
is it wierd that i'm jealous of my friends? what can i do so i wont be jealous anymore?
I have issues with looking younger than I am. I also am very skinny and scrawny.
What you have to realize is that you CAN'T change. You're stuck with you. Make yourself feel better by sprucing up your style and look a bit. Get a new hair-due. Do something different with yourself to make you feel pretty. Buy a new outfit, too. That always helps me.
Do what you can with what you have!