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Okay...I have this friend. She has been my friend for about 3 or 4 years but we have come really really close. Now we are Freshmen in high school and never see each other. I see her around the hall and stuff and i can tell how much she it starting to change. She dyed her hair pink, she is always wearing black, and she is hanging out with a whole differnt crowd of people like the punks and goths and stuff. Dont get me wrong i have a lot of friends that are punks and goths and i have NOTHING agenst them but that is just not her type at all. Ever sence she is changing like this i never talk to her...i want to cause i feel like she doesnt want to be friends anymore...but if i talk to her i dont really kno what to say...i need help...
i'll rate 5 for anything good... (link)
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hey! just pull her to the side one day and tell her how you feel! tell her that you miss talking to her and you feel like your friendship is falling aprat! she should understand!!
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One of my best friends is this guy rite? well i dont like him as anything more then just a friend.... but he likes me. He asked me out the other day and i told him that i just cared about him too much to go out with him. That i didnt want to ruin our friendship over something stupid like a highschool romance. He still keeps grabbing my hand and yesterday he kissed me on the top of the head. its getting really wierd and its depressing the hell out of me, plus its giving everyone the wrong impression. He's the sweetest guy ever and i dont want to hurt him. i dont want to tell him that i dont want a bf right now because i DO, just not him. And im hoping this other kid asks me out. Its getting really annoying, like hes being really clingy, i cant even hang out with other people without him just coming over! He hangs out with me before school, at break, at lunch, after school, calls me everyday, and now im going to be going to church with him. Hes sweeter then any guy ive ever met, but i feel like i cant breathe.
I need help! Please, ASAP, give good advice and ill rate high! (link)
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hey just tell him that he bin clingy and tell him how you feel about him hanging on you and being around you all the time! if he really likes you he would back off a little bit and he would enderstand!
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ok. so my friend and i like this singer, but every one else hates him. they think he can't sing or any of that. and they make fun of us. they don't want to be our friends anymore cause we like this one singer.. what should we do? (link)
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well if they don't like you because of a singer you like. Than they really werent the good of a friend..a real friend whould stick with you know matter what! just start hanging out with other people and try to make new friends!
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Okai , I have thiz friend who I usuallie tell everythinq too if muh friend Brittany isn`t around for me to talk to. Okai well , the other day I had told her sumthen for the first tyme eva cauz I felt I could trust her nd now shez halfway iqnorinq me. What shuld I do ? (link)
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just talk to her and try to find out why! just ask her why she isn't talking to you that much any more and tell her that you feel like she's ignoring you!
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my friend has always been so nice to me but latly she had kinda of been ditching me for another friend and always talking about her and she just not the same do u think i should still be her friend? PLEASE HELP ME!!!! (link)
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yeah! i wouldn't call her one of your *best friends* just a friend..she shouldn't be ditching you! if she tell's you that she will meet you some were she should! just tell her that your tired of it! she should understand!
xoxo-ashlyn!
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i "had" this so called friend and for some stupid reason she treats me like shit now, and today she said that my boyfriend is probably cheatin on me cuz im so damn ugly, what should i do? please please please please please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Well if she's gunna be putting u down like that then i wouldn't call her a "true friend".. thats pritty lame!! she called u ugly?! I DONT THINK SO! thats just not right! lol she shouldn't be calling u ugly! maybe it's becuase she likes him..but she shouldn't! it's YOUR boyfriend!
**xoxo ashlyn!
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I was so oppsessed with this one kid last year and now that i'm over him and have a boy friend, this one gurl that i knew for 4-5 years, is making fun of him and i hate it, i told him about it and he had me tell her that he found out what she was saying about him cuz he "heard" her "himself" and she said "I don't care, you were doing it, too" and i wasn't. What should I do?
***PLEASE HELP ME*** (link)
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tell her to stop! just tell her that u dont thinks it right for her to be doin that..tell her to just stay out of ur bussness.!n tell her that it's prity fuckin lame if she's making fun of him cuz she prlly doesnt have n e thang better to do! just tell her to say out of ur personal life! if she was really a good friend she would stop for u! but if she doesnt..that's saying that she's not that good of a friend! lol
*i hope i helped!
love ya gurl!
xoxo-ashlyn!
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My best friend is in Florida and as a result I started dating her cuz. (previous letter i wrote). Now i am soooooooo mad at him. Did i ask him out b/c i missed my friend to much or did i really mean it. Can u help me figure this out? (link)
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i'm not sure...at the dance wen u said u guys were gunna dance u seemed soo happy! BUT every one misses steff! i can't wait till she gets her butt bakk here! haha if i were u i wouldn't go out with som1 who is goin to hate/be mean to ur friends!!! he wasn't even talking to u at lunch! thats suck a sucky b/f!! lol i'm sry! but he should at least talk to u N PAY ATTENTION TO U!!! he didnt' even nodise u were mad! and that tells me that he's not ready for a g.f! he's needs work! lol becuz if i had a b.f that was mean to my friends n wouldn't pay attention to me i'd be like get ur scrubby ass outta here! n wen he's with his friends he should still talk to u! just becuz his friends r there that doesnt meen he cant talk to u! that tottal bull shit! lol so i'm not sure wat to do! maybe u really did mean it..but now that u see that he cant take time to talk to u wen his friends r with maybe thats tellin u to find som1 else! tori i kno u can do much MUCH better! u dont need to take that shit.. i kno u can find some one thats NOT gunna be a jerk! ur so pritty! u can get any 1!!!
*hope i helped..right bakk
xoxo-ashlyn
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i have friends and sometimes i feel like they dont need me... i dont know why... i cant tell them about it because then they would obviously say that its not true. i have a bestest friend but shes not in the U.S. so i cant see her veryday and hang with her. please help me... (link)
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get some new friends!! keep the old ones but get some new ones to! or just take ur 2cd bestest friend to the side n talk to them! just tell them how u feel! if they were really ur friend they would understand!!
*hope i helped! write bakk if u need n e thang else!
xoxo-ashlyn
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Hey i was really good friends with these two girls ever since i got wit this guy they say i ignore them when they are rlly ignoring me now they dont talk to me at all what can i do to become good friends with them again (link)
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Just call one of them and be like yo i wanna hang out with u guys one night...and just ask them why you's stoped talking...if there ur best friends they should exsept ur boyfriend! they shouldn't let a guy get between u guys!
*hope i helped....
xoxo-ash
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i have been friends with this guy for like a year now well since last summer and we stoped talkin after i moved but now that i have moved back we started talkin more now and we r starting to hang out together alot more and i am starting to like him he is one of my first love...(ex boyfriends) friends what should i do should i tell him or keep it on the dL cuz i am scared he will freak out and it will mess up or friend ship but then agian i am scared that if i don't tell him then i will neva have a chance wit him..... plz help me what should i do... (link)
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wen it's just you to hanging out just tell him! he shouldn't freak out! and wen your done telling him just say maybe if he wants to u want to start dating him again!
hpoe i helped! plz rate me!
love,ashlyn
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One of my best friends isn't going back to school because her dad is taking custody of her and lately she hasn't been talking to me. I don't know if I should call her or let her call me.But the problem is My other best friend is going on vacation in oct. so I'm gunna be a loner. What should I do? Should I call her? (link)
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yes! i think you should call her! becuz if she's ur best friend i don't think you would want to loose that relationship! so yes you should call her! and since your other friend is goin on vacation just make some new friends to! but still keep the same ones you have!
*hope i helped plz rate me!
xoxo-ashlyn
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Hi I'm Brittany! I go out with a boy named Michael and we have an awkward long-distance relationship. My best friend is in love with a boy who is friendly,cute,and popular. Lately she has been telling me that he likes me. I like him. But I could never go out with him because she really likes him. What should I do? (link)
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hey! i'm having the same problem!! If you really like him and just ask your friend if she would be ok with it... and if she isn't ok with it than all of you should just be friends!!
*hope i helped! plz rate me!
xoxo-ashlyn!
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I have this friend who i used to talk to everyday and stayed up until 3 in the morning talkin to her on the phone, but now days it seems like we've moved apart or are not as close as we once were! We still talk but how can i tell whats going on between us? I'll rate high if its good advice!!! (link)
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hey! i'm not sure..but maybe she has a boyfriend?! or somthing wen u call her just ask her why you guys arent as close as you use to be
*hope i helped rate me!
xoxo-ashlyn
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my best friend is really kewl and everything but she's stubborn and she wants to have sex but she just turned 14 and she doesn't even have a boy frined but how do i talk to her about the dangers and stuff?
signed,
confused (link)
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well one day just be like look i think we should talk about this b4 u do it! n just tell her the danger and stuff..tell her it's really not so safe becuz u can get aids n stuff like that!
*keep asking questions n tell ur friends about my site!!*
xoxo-ashlyn!
hope i helped!
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14/F ok so i like this guy alot and i have for a while and one of my friends knew about and said she would help me...so she told him i liked him and he told me things couldnt work out so then the next day i was with my friend and the kid i like, and she was all over him! i didn't want to say anything then, but shouldn't i have a right to be mad? oh and to p it all off, he likes her too now!!! ugh i just wish there were cooler guys around here... (link)
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yes i think u have a right to be mad! if that was me i would just talk to ur friend about it..and tell her that u don't think it's right that she did that...i think that she should of never done that to u..
i hope i help!
xoxo-ashlyn!
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