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All right, so, I'm 14/f, and this is basically about my guy friend, Jarrod. He really likes one of my best friends, Cora. He has liked her a really long time, and I was the first person he told after almost a year of liking her. He knows he can trust me not to tell anyone because I am an excellent secret-keeper, and so far I have told no one.
Although I did tell him that he should just tell her. Because I had to do that with this guy I liked, and everything turned out fine. But Jarrod and I both know that Cora doesn't really like him that way, although she really cherishes their friendship, I can tell. I told him that if he didn't do it by the end of this school year, I would tell her. (It's also sort of hard to keep this kind of thing from a best friend of yours for this long, even if Jarrod is a good friend too.)
And now, almost completely out of the blue, Jarrod told me that he's not sure why he told me in the first place, that there are other people he should have told before me, and that he doesn't want me privy to his love life anymore, and that I can't, under ANY circumstances, tell Cora. He also said that there is a personal reason that he doesn't want to tell Cora, and that he could not and WOULD not tell me.
What do I do? Why has Jarrod all of a sudden turned on me? Should I tell Cora and risk Jarrod's trust? HELP!!

Sorry about the long question...I rate!

Not to be rude but i dunt blame him y would you tell that he liked her after he told you not to tell he trusted you if iw as him i wouldnt tell you anything anymore..

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how do i tell a friend that i think im to old to hang out wit them in the nicest possibleway??? plese help!

Make up an excuse like your too busy to hang out with them cuz you have a lot of important things to do

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A friend of mine has recently put on some extra weight, yet she continues to wear the same clothes that are obviously to small for her. While in her bathing suit she said she didn't understand why it was so small, and that it must have shrunk. I don't know if she realizes the truth or if she is in denial.

I am her good friend, should I tell her the truth of what I am thinking, and if so how do I do it without hurting her feelings?

I know how you fell one of my friend gained some weight I didnt say anything now shes starving herself and she got really sick if you dont say anything now she going to realize it and start to do what my friend did..hoped i helped

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my bestest, bestest, BeStEsT friend in the whole wide world jus did the worst thing a best friend cud eva do. She slept wit my crush. She sed she didnt mean to, and basically CrIeD, BEGGING me to forgive her. But how can i? She smokes, and she said it wuz becuz she wuz high. Yur probably wonderin wats she doin at his house in the first place. She goes there to get cigarettes. Its bad enuff that kidds our age shudnt be smoking, but anyway.... So she slept wit him, while i wuz on vacation. I'm jus glad she told me, but how can i ever forgive her? She PrOMISeD me she wud never do this to me, and she did. But then again, i mean its not like i wuz goin out wit him in the first place, so it isnt really my crush's fault. She said He came on to HER, but of course thats wat she's gonna say. I dunno wat to do. I'm jus so glad she told me, cuz she could've jus lied and sed everything wuz OK. But deep down...i'll let the picture speak for itself >:0. She begged me for forgiveness, and i want to forgive her, but i cant. Wat shud i do?

Well she was nice to tell you but real friend dont do crap like that if shes always been there for you then 4 give her but if she always does stuff like this juss let her go slowly..hoped i helped rate plz

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I have this friends and I really like her like more than a friend. A couple of months after we became friends I asked her out but she thought that it would be better if we stayed friends. After that was said, we became much closer and im kinda getting signals. what should I do, I really like her?

Ask her does she really want to be friends and if she said sumthen like i told you that already just tell her how you feel ..rate plz

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(14/f) i have a hard time getting along with girls. i only have 3 really close friends that are girls and 2 of them are changing alot and i'm begining not to like how they are acting lately. the majority of my friends are boys. i really can't stand being friends with girls! they always find a way to piss me off and with my guy friends... they are so much more easy going! my friend amanda she's been my best friend for about 3 years and she's the same way as me so i guess that's why we get along. but is there something wrong with me that i don't like being around girls and i just like being around guys??

No im like that to..its nice to have atleast 2 realli close gurl friends but guy friends r easier to get along with they arent back stabbers like sum girls i kno..hoped i helped rate plz

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my best friend was on a chat room and met this guy. and she told me to put him on my list also so we both can talk to him. anyways he was calling her his boo and sayin she was fine and all. well him and me talked last nite for like 4 hrs. on line. and i like him and he said he likes me. and my friend doesn't knwo yet but wat should i do? i dont want to hurt her. but i like him.

Umm online realtionships arent good and it isnt worth wasting your realtionship with your friend you needa just leave this guy alone your probly never gonna see him and chances r hes probly a old man or gay idiot trying to get young gurls and rape them..hoped i helped rate plz

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Saturday I was out at the mall with my friend. We go out together almost every night, but we never really have set plans...just hang out and find random things to do. While we were shopping, my cousin called to ask if I could babysit. I told him I would call him back and I told my friend. She told me to do whatever I wanted and I asked several times if she would rather me hang out with her. She said it was fine and I apologized because I felt like I was ditching her. She still told me it was fine. Well she hasn't talked to me since. I've left messages on her computer and her phone and still nothing and I dont' know what else to do! Did I do something wrong that I am not seeing? And should I just give her time to come around?

Seems like your friend didnt really want you to go i think it just hurts her ffelings that you left her,but im sure if shes a true friend she'll get over it..hoped i hlepd rate me plz

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