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Hey I am Nicole and I love giving advice. I am great at giving advice about your love life and pretty much anything else. If you ever need a helping hand or feel like you just need to talk to someone I will always be willing to help out.
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Me and my friend were really close. We were too close but i would sometimes feel that he is not a true friend. I would do everything possible for him. He started dating a girl I never approved. I somehow managed to separate them on a bitter note. Later, I developed some differences with my friend and meanwhile by utter misfortune got close to his girlfriend...he would think we are dating so he was very upset. I also didnt bother then and unintentionally hurt him. Later, I realized that the girl is not a nice human being. she is fake and very materialistic and it was just an infatuation. I want my friend back. I feel guilty for all that he had to suffer. He doesn't talk to me at all. I tried to say sorry but everytime it ended on a sour note. But, i cant go back to him as i m scared that he would shout at me, abuse me and indulge in physical fight and might create a scene.
You stole your bestfriends girlfriend, you gave into temptation. It's normal for him to be angry at you. If your friendship is strong enough he will forgive you. Email him, text him, call him you get my point. Anyway you have to price to him he can trust you again. It's all up to him though. Good luck and I hope this serves you as a lesson in life. Girls/guys come and go but true friends are always there for you.
My guy friend of 4 years just now tells me( female ) he wants more than friendship now or he can't be friends . We have never had sex and I do not want to take it to that level with him. This really hurts my feelings cuz I don't want to lose him As a friend what should I do ?
He is trying to manipulate you. Don't give in! If he's the kind of guy who would stop talking to you because you Don't want to have sex with him then he was never a true friend. Also if he really loved you he would understand you dot love him and let you go.
hi im katlyn... there are dese girls at school they dont like me for no reason and dey are really buggin me they love to talk about me and they love to messs with me every time i walk past dem they study me hard and dis one girl always comin by me telling me to give her candy and if i dont she said she gon do somthing which aint gon happen ....i think its because im pretty and she is ugly real ugly and dark as hell to and she always pushing me arond and she hate me to fo no reason....i dont even kno da bitch and the girl actin real hard in front of her friends tryin to make me hate myself and she keep on touching me and pushing me which i dont like and yes i do do something back and if she do it again on monday we gon be fighting cause i aint about to have dis little ass girl pushing me around hell no ... now are dey haters ????
phsss yeahthey are hater but really you don't have to fight them. The same thing happened to me with this girl and all I did was tell her that obviosly she has no log first of all secondly if you spend soo much looking at what I do it is because you got nothing better to do and that I was flattered someone spend all their time looking at me :) hope I help but seriously don't spend your time fighting with them ignore them the most possible. If you fight them you will show them you care enough about them.
how do you deal with people that constantly need/want attention. Not in a desperate way but people that always like to be the center of attention and talk a lot and always need to have everyone listen to them? i am pretty but i dont talk about it or emphasize it so much but I do have this new friend who is really pretty too and she just likes all this attentions and is always getting it and talking about herself and stuff. idk how to deal with it???
I know what you are going through because the same thing happened to me last year. You can try talking to your new freind, tell her how you feel. What I did las year is I talked to my friends and since she didnt really pay much attention to what I said I tried my best to not mind it. I'm am just wondering does it bother out that she wants to get attention? If you do I am very sooryto say that there is no really much oh can do to change hersince youcant change how people act and think. I hope my advice helped you out.
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Been friends with my friend Sam since 1st grade. We have always been tight. Been friends with my friend Melanie since 5th grade. Sam, Melanie and I had always been great friends. When I decided to go to a different high school, Melanie stops talking to me, and keeps hanging out with Sam excluding me from all activites. I begin to resent Melanie, but am still friends with Sam. Not until recently I told Sam how I felt about Melanie... bad idea. After hanging out with Sam almost every weekend (Melanie being there as well but not talking to me and I not talking to her) did not invited me to go out for mischief night. Hurt my feelings alot since I've been going out with them since freshman year. When I asked Sam why she did this she said something along the lines of "I couldnt invite you since you make it known that you don't like Melanie". hmm... I told her to call me. She texted me later that night at like 12 asking to talk and I said I was tired. Havent talked to her since. Word on the street is that she's ignoring me... even though I didnt do anything. What should I do? Give up on the friendship? I understand Sam feels stretched, but she shouldnt feel she has to choose. I know I dont make her feel like she does at all. I don't want to her call her up because everytime we get in a fight I'm chasing her for an apology. I wont do it this time. Please help... thanks.
Well my adive is to not give up onyour friendshrip. From what you wrote you three seemed very close. Don't let this silly fight ruin your relationship. Try not to resent melainie remener forgiveness is a key to life. I know you said you don't want to b the omw saying you are sorry and mabye you don't. Trying getting Sam melanie and you together so you guys can talk about what happened that you guys are growing apart. An also why it happened. My friends and I are very close and we always try to not let silly glfigjts break us up. Also don't listen to everything people say it might just be a rumor. She might not be trying to ignore you. Well hope my advice was of some help