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I was in art class when my "friend" came up to me and tugged my braid 'affectionately', but it hurt me and I ended up screaming almost at the top of my lungs "JESUS!" I felt bad after that because almost the whole class was staring at me, and my friend was ticked that I had screamed because she had done that to me before, but I think it's childish now and I refuse to let her. I feel really bad because you really shouldn't scream that in ANY class for that matter, because it might offend some people. I think I might have offended some people, but I was really embarrassed because I screamed so loud and I was dead quiet and my face was red. I don't know what to do. What should I do?

Hey~ Take it from someone who has done almost the exact same thing....Just tell your friend that you were startled and you didn't mean to offend her or anyone else in your class. People make mistakes, I mean you didn't purposly try to offend anyone. When something hurts/startles you, there's not much time to think about your reaction. Actually, there's no time at all...It's no biggie...just explain that to her....hope things go well...and if you have any more questions, don't hesitate to ask...
~Morgan

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Hey this is (Hailey!) Ok, my 3 friends and I got in a fight, and its been 3 days since we haevnt been friends, and i mean, we were best friends to tha bone! And they are out having fun while I am sitting at home a mess because i miss them. They haven't even called me or talked to me. They don't even care about me. I don't want to lose them, but it looks like they DO want to lose me. What should I do? Because I know most of you will probably say "they arent worth it," or "make new friends" but i love them to death and i dont want to just let this go. And I mean, i've already tried to solve it, i've tried everything. THEY HATE ME. OMG Help please. I cant take this much longer. :'-(

It seems to me like they just need a little bit of space from you. This is not a bad thing, and it's VERY normal. You just get tired of people in a while. You don't even have to do anything wrong. Call them up and say that you've been missing getting to do things with them, and maybe you guys can hang out "sometime soon"....by saying that...it lets them know that you do want to hang out with them, but you're not overly obsessive. And don't let them know that you're bored with nothing to do. It's going to make you look desperate. I hope this helps some, and I'm sure that things will be back to normal soon. Like I said this kinda stuff happens all the time....Good luck...don't hesitate to ask any more questions .
~Morgan

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so here it is...
I flirt alot ! but only with guys i know well... not with this guy i like.. i dont flirt with him... but i flirt with likes guys who flirt back so i think they think that i like them.. but i dont... how do i stop flirting with ther other guys and flirt with the guy i like ?

Ps when i try to even talk to the guy i get really red and cant think of anything to say...
thanks

Flirting is definatly a hard thing. It's hard to help who you flirt with and who you don't. I mean you can control it, don't get me wrong but still. So I think that you should first worry about how to flirt with the guy that you like instead of how not to flirt. So, when you're talking to the guy you like, let's call him "Jim", just come up with common conversation. I mean you could call Jim and ask him if he wanted to go the the movies with you sometime, that way he'll know that you're thinking about him. There you could talk about, school, anything you have planned in the near future (trips), talk about what he likes to do, if it's a sport ask him some questions about htat. Don't focus the whole conversation on you because you're going to come off as conseaded. And if you do end up going to the movies...there's less talking to do, as if you went bowling or something.....Well I hope that I helped a little bit and if you have any more questions, don't hesitate to ask...good luck
~Morgan

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I feel like im going to be so left out this summer. I want to go to the pool so badly but I'm afraid no one will want to go with me. I dont have many people on my street that are my age, so yeah..And Im just afraid and I dont want to have anyone over and I feel like people can invite me but I cant invite them. I dont know why. My birthday was a few weeks ago and i wanna have a party, but it has to be GOOD. I dunno what kind to have and stuff, just me switching schools to a kinda school thats not so social, and me already being way shy and stuff hasnt helped.

Hey~ You don't need to worry about calling your friends and asking them if they want to do something? It's hard to keep in touch with people in the summer. But summer is also a great opportunity to meet some new people. Go ahead and go up to the pool by yourself, see if there is anyone there that's close to your age, then start a conversation with them. "Nice day to be at the pool....So do you come up here a lot?"...things like that, and then introduce yourself and see what happens. Sometimes that's the best way to meet your next best friend.....If you have any more questions, don't hesitate to ask. Good luck
~Morgan

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sorry it kind of goes under 2 categories




14/f
Ok so i have this friend lets call him Craig. Well my good friend, lets call her Kaylee likes him. Alot of my other friedns likes him too. Anyway, she asked him out, but he said no.They are still good friends. Well "Craig" is in my gym class, and he constantly flirts with me...like all the time. and i think i am starting to like him. I think he might like me. I dont know though, because everytime i think that the guy doesnt really like me. ANYWAYS i dont know what to do. Should i tell "kaylee" that i like him? should i tell HIM i like him? HELP PLEASE! thanks i rate HIGH!(he is 14/M, and she is 14/f)

hey...I think that you should tell kaylee that you like him and that if the opportunity came up that you would date him. Since you and craig are friends, maybe you could ask him to the movies or something to see if you two hit it off. Trust me, if he has a good time with you, then something will more than likely happen. I hope that things work out for you. Let me know how it goes.....good luck

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