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i love to cook but i cant because i have a game to go to and i want to go to a cooking compittion of my friends but my other friend has a cheer game that she wants me to go to they both asked me to go at the same time so i dont know what to do there both fighting over whos im going to go to plz help fom bree (link)
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That's really hard. Maybe go to one and then next time go to the other you know? Because your friend will more than likely have another cheer game so maybe go to your friends cooking compittion and then next time go to your friends cheer game...or go half the time to one thing and half the time to the other
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This is how it all started:
Me and my friends were talking about just random things due to boredom and I mentioned I was going over my guy friends house tomorrow. Now, I used to like him and so did my friend Kristine. But she doesn't like him anymore and every good chance she gets, she insults him and calls him ugly or stupid or whatever.
So, then she says "Oh yeah right. He is lying to you" and I was like "No, not really. Me and him are like best friends" and she said "Thats what he tells you. I asked him, 'Do you like her?(referring to me)' and he said 'No, just as like a friend. Not even best friends'" and I was like "Well, you don't know what you're talking about. How often do you even talk to him?" "A lot" she says (which a month or so earlier, Jason contradicted saying that he dislikes her and rarely says a word to her). But then my friend Natalie(who I know Jason talks to sometimes) said that Kristine actually does talk to him a lot. Basically, they both said
1)He doesn't like me as bf/gf
2)He doesn't even really think of me as his best friend(which he has called me before and says that I am one of his best friends)
So then later, I called Jason and talked to him about this. He got upset, asking me why I would believe Kristine over him(I talk to Jason a HELLLLL of a lot more than Kristine. Me and Jason are on the phone almost everyday) And saying that he rarely talks to her. He didn't even know who I was talking about at first when I said her name and he just told me she was lying and I said, "Now, maybe I misinterpreted, but didn't you say you considered me as your best friend?" and he said "Yes" and I told him what she'd said and he just seemed flabbergasted and kind of upset. But he told me that it was lies and he does talk to Natalie but not Kristine. He also said that he does tell people, when asked, that he doesn't like me in a bf/gf way and that we're friends. So then after the little "tiff" had calmed a bit, he said he had to go and I asked him, "Do you still want me to come over tomorrow?" and he said "I'm not positive. I'll call you" and I said ok and we hung up...Now, please, someone. God, I need advice on what to do and say to each of these people because I'm about to cry. I can't stand people lying to me, especially my friends and especially Jason because I actually care about him more than I care about Natalie and Kristine. Thank you so much, I'll rate (link)
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Wow Sweetie. That's a hard one you know? Who are you to believe? Who is lying? Who isn't? Are they both lying? Who knows. Just who is the one you have always be able to trust no matter what. That's the one you should believe ok Sweetie. Trust me on this. I know it's hard. Well hey I'm so tired so sorry if this does not make any sense at all!!
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well i went to my school dance with my friends they guy i like (kinda my best friend) couldn't go i was kinda sad he came up to me and said sorry but i can't go tonight and he huged me but i still went then when a slow song came on i danced with someone else i use to like and to danced to every slow song then he started holdin my hand next think i know i'm so outside making out with him omg ! what should i do ??? hes older than me and i like my other friend to alot errr so now when i go back to school things are gonna be werid (link)
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That is all up to you sweetie..If you chose to let them be wierd they will be if not then they wont you may like both of them all you can do is take time away and really think and then decide thats what i know or when i need to think i take my cd player and a cd *right now either Avril Lavigne Under My Skin or Kelly Clarkson Breakaway* and I go to the swings and I swing and really really really think and I do this for hours and then after than my mind is clear and shyt like that
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My friend and i had a fight last summer. And then when school started she acted as if the fight never happened. Shes all like" Hey Buddy!!"
I dont belive she just be mad then be all nice.
She then made most of my friends turn against me. I'm not her friend anymore but she insists on being friends. How can i get her to leave me alone? (link)
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Tell her to leave you alone
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I'm 16/f, and I have 3 friends who always do stuff withought me. I feel like i'm never included in anything they do. And I always feel like they're talking about me at theyre little get togethers. I'm always sitting at home while they're out having fun and they don't even bother to call me. I also think they're parents hate me as well, which sucks even more. My question is, what should I do when they DO call me and what should I tell them? (link)
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Tell them to get lost if they do that then they are not true friends
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OK, I was in this sort of relationship, b ut I never went out with this guy, but anyway, my friend who I wasnt' friends with at the time ( I was mad at her) told my worst enemy about this problem. And I'm really mad cuz I don't want her to know. I mean my enemy won't tell anyone but, I am really mad! Should I confront my friend and ask if she told my enemy or what? Please help! (link)
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Hell yeah confront her!!! Don't be stupid and mess up your friendship by being a backstabber(sp) just confront her...You will feel alot better
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i wrote b4 about how my friend gets really frustrating and annoying, and every1 told me that i shoulldn't be friends with her, but its not that simple. one, anybody who just outright says ur so annoying she doesn't take seriously and just thinks they're joking, even after they tell her they aren't, and two, if i just go up to her and be like: i dont think we should be friends, we dont get along, etc etc, that would be really mean, and i have most of my classes @ skool with her, sitting right next to her, and i wouldnt be able to do it anyway.is there some other option? (link)
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Ummm Seriously talk to her about it!!!
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hey i need help i really dont know what to do..ok i liked this guy lets call him bo and my best friend knew that and she knew we were talking and she told me the other day that they were talking i was like whoa and she told me that she was going to tell him she liked this other guy better lets call him dru.well we had a party the other night and she was with bo and she left with him then the dru came over and he was pissed cause she wasnt there and she came bak and found out that he was ther and she started crying then the bo left and my friend and dru cuddled all night long ...then the next day after she told me that she was going to tell bo she liked dru instead i read her awaymessage and it said i love you bo i was like u stupid hoe and she told me to get over him and then i was talking to my other friend and she told me that my best friend was going out with dru but when i talked to her bo was over at her house...i dont know what i should do i mean she was my best friend and now she has the guy i liked (link)
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Steal him back!!! I have done it to my best friend...No I'm joking well I have but don't just talk to her and tell her you dont want the bo guy to get between your friendship
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i got invited to two things tonight. my boyfriend wants me to hang out with him and stuff. but a bunch of my friends want me to go to their party. half of the party my friends are going to don't like me and it's a sleepover. i want to stay at home tonight but there's no possible way i could get a ride home from a place 15 mins. away bc my parents will be wasted. but i want to go to both! what do i do! HELP!! (link)
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i dont know what to tell you but dont go if you dont want to
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Well out of the blue, starting after winter vacation, my old best friend is coming back to my school. We were best friends growing up till third grade when she lefty for a Catholic school well now she's comign to my public school and she was nervous and called me up for the first time in 4 years. NOw that I am the only one she knows it means that sjhe gets to "shadow" me for her first week till she learnes where everything is. I kinda don't want her around anynmore though, she immature and I have outgrown her and made new friends. Yet i feel stuck becuase her mom called my mom and said how excited she was and stuff and i can't just bum her off on someone.... What can i DO? (link)
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All you can do is tell her the truth it may hurt her but still you have to tell her
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this question dosent really go under friendship..but there was nothing else i coul put it under...anyway..i got a dvd player for christmas and i have some good dvd's like napolian dynamite but i get sick of it if i watch it alot and the day after tommorrow but that is pretty long and finding nemo but that aso gets kinda boring... the only movie that i enjoy watching is my favorite movie ever...sweet home alabama...i dunno what it is about that movie but i never get sick of it...does anyone have any other movies that are good and they never get sick of? cause i would really like another movie to watch! lol =) (link)
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Breakfast Club
Bring it on
The Goonies
Princess Diaries
Princess Diaries 2
A walk to remember
Dirty Dancing
Footloose
The list goes on Email me at miss_adriauna04 for more
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Ok, this isn't exactly a friendship question, but i didn't know what else to put it under.
I'm going to turn 14 in about a month, and I'm in the 8th grade. This year my parents are letting me have a party, and I need some good party ideas for my age. Skating is out of the question because i had one for my 13th birthday party.
Any suggestions? (link)
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just have a big party at your house...boy/girl...invite alot of ppl from school in stuff you know and ask friends for help
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