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Ok heres the deal..im 14 and in the 9 grade and i feel like i have no friends..i mean yea i talk to people at school but idk like at lunch i sit with these ppl that my "friend" sits w. and i dont even sit by her i sit at the end of the table w. these boys and i dont even tlk to them i just sit there and eat my lunch. Then there comes the weekends and i have nothing to do and i usually stay home w. my mom and dad and i come home every day after school its really is pathetic..any idea to help me?

If she makes you sit at the end of the table with a bunch of boys and doesnt evan offer you a seat by her .... then thats toatlly not a honest friend! **(( people like to say true but w/e ))**If u want more friends then get more involved with more school and all that stuff....And if your still at the end with boys then hunny tell her that you want to sit by her and not by a bunch of boys! Luv ya
Jess oXoX

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this is driving me crazy...all my friends have bf's besides me..yet im not the prettiest girl in the world..but every where i go someone says something about their bf's or how they hate being single..and i am 15 and never had a bf...can someone help me?

If all of your friends have bf's then thats cool. If you really want a bf then go for that one guy youve had your eye on for the past couple of days weeks or w/e....

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ok well i have like 3 questions

1) I wanna go to the movies with my best guy friend and see a scary movie with just the 2 of us so i can get closer to him, but how do i go about asking him but not making it sound like im interested in him?

2) When my mom takes me to the movie, shes gonna be bugging me about who im going with. Should i lie and tell her im going to see a happy movie with a bunch of girls and him so she doesnt hassal me?

3) This ones not related, its for my friend lycia. Well she really likes this boy donnie, but he likes her best friend and her best friend is starting to like him even though she has a boyfriend. She wants to tell him she likes him but she doesnt want it to get back to her best friend and she knows he'll tell her, she asked me to help her but i have no idea how.. any pointers?

1) Hey thats a situation i think most people have been in before! Just say " Hey wats up? I was wondering if you werent doing any thing if you wanted to go see a movie sometime?

2) Just say "Mom Im going with my girls and my guy friend and were gona go see a nice scary movie " she'll understand

3) If your friend Lycia has that "best friend " and has a boy friend then She shouldnt leave her boy friend for this guy because obviously this guy she doesnt like as much because if she did she would've left her boy friend already for him! If she likes him tell her to go for it and dont be afraid if he tells her or not cuz if she was a true friend she would understand and wouldnt get mad at all!

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okay so me and my friends were going to go see star wars yesterday... please don't comment on star wars that isn't what my question's about... okay, so we didn't invite our other friends because they didn't want to see it, and we were meeting some guys there and one of my friends thought that they would make us look bad. I thought it was mean but i didn't comment. Anyways so now one of the uninvited people is mad at us because she actually did want to see ther movie. what do i do?

Tell her that you tryed to invite her previously but she didnt want to go . Tell her you are really truly sorry and if you wouldve known that she wanted to go she wouldve said somthing

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well my friend that i liked this year asked if i was coming to school the last day of school ...i said that there was no point becasue we get there at 8:00 and leave at 9:30 and were only going to be allowed in are first hour class and watch a movie ..he said that it would be my last time for me to see him and that he wanted to see me.i like him alot ..i was gonna kiss him but i think that would be to werid wat can i do ?! please help me

I think that you should go to school because it would be your last time and his last time of seeing either one of you because SUMMER is guna be REALLY long! damn i would go for that kiss if i was u cuz that could lead to something EXTRA EXTRA special

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There's this guy named Jeff and sometimes, he is soo nice and funny to me..but other times, he always tells me that I'm ugly..he says it in a "just kidding" voice but idk if he is being serious or if he really is just kidding. It hurts my feelings. What can I do?

If I were in your position which I have been before..... ask him why he keeps on saying this and tell ask him to stop if it is really hurting your feelings thats bad

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well my friend to,d me the other day that she tried cutting and she showed me the scar. i told her it was bad and everything..i was like yelling at her not to do it again and what it could do to a person. she told me she would never do it again and so far she hasnt i made her let me see her wrists..and i know there are other places that she could cut too like her stomach and stuff..but im not going ot do a full body search on her everyday and im really worried about her. she made me promise not to tell anyone else..but i told my other really good friend i know she won't tell because i know she would be worried about her too. i really dont want to do and i dont know if shes lying and is still cutting..and i don't want to tell anyone because it was just one time and if she really stopped i would feel bad she would be really mad if i told on her. she would never tell me anything else again and im scared i will loose her friendship. im really worried about her please help me i rate high**

--michelle

Cutting your-self is a easy way of leting out pain on your-self! if you want her to stop that bad then when or if you see a scar then just sit her down and talk to her because u really care about her!

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ok i have two best friends, lets call them jill and Sue. Ok Jill and Sue have been hanging out A LOT! and its making me really jelous. Ok me and Jill were BEST friends until Jill and Sue started hanging out. ok Sue recorded something on Jill's phone and i thought it was funny so me and Jill SORT OF did the same thing and put it on her phone. Sue saw it and got REALLY mad so she recroded something saying..."You know what (my name) you need to stop stealing my stuff and making it look like yours!" i REALLY don't know what to do! what should i say to her? or to both of them?

*ThAnKs A BuNcH!*

*XOXOmeXOXO*

Explain to her u were geting jealuos of " Jill and Sues " relationship and u wanted to do somthing to just have fun. if she doesnt understand then thats not a true friend

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