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Hi, Im Callie, and im considered the Go-to-Girl. I might not give perfect advice, But i do try my best. Im really bad at spelling, so please, bare with me threw it. I love to read and write. Poems most of the time. Sometimes songs. I play select soccer and im pretty darn good. I love to laugh and have fun. But belivie it or not, Alot of people consider me emo. And thats mostly because i like black, piercings. But i dont see how that makes me emo. But who cares. I cant say i have a perfect easy life. But i wouldnt trade it for the world. Even tho im good at giveing advice, I need advice. Alot. Because i Question many things that most people wouldnt think twice about. Also i know alot of useless information. And i Still have NO idea how i know it. haha. So if you need advice, Ill try my hardest to give you what you need.
Hope i have help, Hope i will help you in some way. And if you have a Question you want to ask, but dont want alot of people to see, You can email me on one of my email accounts. You can email me on Soccer_cheka_11@yahoo.com, or Lost_in_the_music@ymail.com. I check both almost everyday.
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E-mail: soccer_cheka_11@yahoo.com
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Hey, a friend of mine is named "Amanda" but she doesnt like the name so much so we're trying to find a nickname for her. Anyone got any ideas?

P.S. She doesnt like the nicknames Mandy or Manda either (yeah, i know, she's a annoying about it). (link)
hmmm you could try manny
and if that doesnt work, you can email me for some other ones. soccer_cheka_11@yahoo.com


Okay i am going into high school next year and my friends are starting to drink and smoke. i cont want to but i know i will not be invited anywhere if i don't. i know this seems like simple, say no, but the only way to keep my friends is to drink or lose them. i know it seems like these friends suck, and they do but i cant change groups. like idk, but idk i don't want to. i just don't want to sink to that level. if you are a teen, you know what this is. you cant just be like "no I'm not drinking" I'm only 13. I'm turning 14 soon but...what do i do? (link)
i have that problem too. i just tell them i think im going to watch out and make sure that nothing happens. but that doesnt mean that you cant drink. i would if i were you. im 13 too. and i just watch out for them to make sure nothing happens. so just say that.


Why are you mad at me? I didn't do nothing to you, and you are taking Chyeenne side i all of this, and then she didn't tell you that she told one of my besties that i was "madly in love" w/ him. Wh yare you mad at me? And just so you no, i broke up w/ Brett. (link)
well when we were in pe you were like all "when is your mom and mr.mannas wedding. and you know i am tired of all the mr.mannas stuff. and you know it. and im not takeing cheyeenes side at all. this iasnt about her me and you. this is about me and you. and how you can just let things go. you have to go around makeing eveyones life harder. and you said how much you and brett were perfect for eachother. so you cant even be blaming me for all this and you cant even be getting mad at me.


i basically only had 2 friends a week ago. a guyfriend , Bob. and a girl whose a friend, jane. well jane and i go to the same school. bob doesnt go to our school and i usually went to his house every friday to watch movies and hang out. but he and i both really liked eachother. he had asked me out a few times and i turned him down each time. then he asked me out again last monday and we've been going out ever since. but i asked him if we could still be friends even if we are going out. he said yeah, but its not the same. i want it so badly to be the same. but thats impossible. hes always sitting so close and putting his arm around me and we kiss and stuff. and i know thats what your supposed to do with a bf, but i miss what we used to be. im happy with him, but im a changephobic. and that huge of a change for me? i cant take it. he was my best friend and now i only have one friend! can someone gimme some advice on how to either accept things and get used to it? or do you think i should do something else? (link)
Hun a boyfriend isnt just a boyfriend. hes suppost to be your best friend too. so tell him how you feel. dont just let it eat away at you. cause that could ruin your friendship. and you dont have to just accept things. if you dont like something, change it. maybe just talking to him will be all it takes.

~hope i helped~


I have a boyfriend. Me and him have this notebook that we pass back and forth and when anyone askes to see it we always so no. Well, my friends went off on me saying that i was a fake friend, and then she claims that she tells me everything when she tells me nothing at all, well, then she gets all of my other friends mad at me and keeps pretnding like she's innocent, but she's far from it. I have a really REALLY big secret that i could tell everyonethat could really hurt her. I don't Know if I am better off without her as a friend, or not, or if i should tell her big secret. Please Help Me! (link)
Well first off. dont hurt her. Just because shes willing to be that low doesnt mean you have to. And maybe you should just tell her that maybe shes the fake friend not you.




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