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I have this friends and I really like her like more than a friend. A couple of months after we became friends I asked her out but she thought that it would be better if we stayed friends. After that was said, we became much closer and im kinda getting signals. what should I do, I really like her? (link)
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wow that's kinda hard- if she said that to you..i wouldn't push the issue ...but i would talk to her about it once more- present your point and tell her why you think taking it to the next level would be awesome...like maybe you have the same type of family or a lot of things in common or the same background...try to make her see where you're coming from- but don't force her into anything...if she says no then it's a no..but tell her to stop with the mixed signals because she's just playing with your head and that's not very nice at all! hope i helped, let me know...good luck! :D
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I am a 13 year old white girl (almost 14). I am intrested in this black kid. some of my friends are ok with it but one of my best friends think i shouldnt like him because he is black. he is one of the nicest and sweetest people i know. i just dont understand why she cant see him for an amazing person and not just him being black. What can i do to get through to her? (link)
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you can try a few times but if she was raised to believe that inter-racial relationships shouldn't exist then there's nothing you can do to sway her decision..she's just that kind of person i guess...don't let that ruin your perspective of him though...it seems like you really like this guy and he's really sweet so stick to your opinions and do what you want, not what your friends want you to do..because then you'll truly be happy- ask her to hang out sometimes with you guys...and maybe she'll see past the color..and she'll see that he's a great person and the color doesn't dictate what kind of personality he has..because we're all the same color inside- all of our blood is red...our hearts are the same and they pump the same way...and they love the same way..maybe she'll learn that.. good luck, hope i helped, let me know! :D
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me and my boyfriend are 13, he has these 2 friends who i am also friends with and i get on with them really well and i am good friends with them. is it ok to be close friends with my bf's mates? i don't fancy them or anything so is it ok? (link)
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yes it's totally fine in my opinion- as long as you have trust between you two and he realizes that all that you have for his friends are "frienship feelings" then there should be no problems...if he doesn't seem comfortable with it- make him and yourself understand that trust is the biggest thing in a relationship as well as honesty- as long as you keep those two grounded...you should be fine =] hope i helped ...let me know
love elle
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Hey guys,
Well heres the problem. My best friend of like forever, up and decides that smoking is more important than our friendship. it really hurts me to see her do it because i know the pain it caused her when her grandmother died of cancer just a few short years ago. She goes on about how she doesnt need a supervisor or someone telling her what to do, but i keep telling her that i only get on her back about it because i care. she doesnt seem to realize that im only trying to help. however, my help cant always be the answer. i am myself, an advice giver on this website, but sometimes you just need others' advice. if anyone has any advice, or anything at all i could say to my friend to help her, please let me know. im scared for her, and also for our friendship. please someone help me. (link)
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hey, i know how you feel...smoking is bad and she should have realized that after her grandmother's death- maybe there's something going on in her life and she uses it as an outlet for her pain...and if so, then maybe that's also the reason for her rejecting your help...i've had a friend like this before and all you can really do is let her know you're there for her...even if she rejects it at the time, she'll remember your words and she will come to you when she's ready and if she needs help- you can't really change a person, even if its your best friend...sometimes people need to figure things out on their own but it always helps to have someone by their side...if things continue to get much worse...consult an adult- if it gets that serious and you're truly worried...good luck and hope i helped =]
love elle
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