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THIS SITE IS GOING DOWN. YOU GUYS THINK I MADE A GIRL KILL HERSELF CUZ OF THE ADVICE A GAVE HER? YOU GUYS ARE DUMB BITCHES !! MII ADVICE TO HER WAS TO NOT KILL HERSELF !! SO DON`T BLAME IT ON ME JUST LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE AND STFU
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Ok kimie Im a guy. And I think im bi..but idk how to tell my friends. I dont even know if Im ready to tell them yet. I can't beleive im asking you this because im nervous as heck but at least im anonymous. Im afraid that if i tell my friends, they wont accept me for who I am. Im even afraid to tell you! How will I know when im ready to "come out"?
Well if they`re you`re real friends then they should accept you no matter what. You should try telling them by saying "I have something to tell you and I`m telling you this because you`re my friend and you should accept me no matter what." Then tell them you`re bi-sexual. If they have a problem with it, find new friends.
You`ll know when you`re ready to come out when you are FOR SURE that you like guys & girls & that you have enough trust in your friends.
I hope I helped! Good Luck :]
ok well there is this girl that used to be my best friend and now she is just plain annoying and she always tries to tag along with me and my other group of friends, but she doesn't no that i don't like her so she still asks if i can hang out and stuff. and i don't no how to tell her that we are over.....or should i tell her.....i don't no so please HELP!!!
well don't be fake! don't pretend to like her. you need to make it straight with her that you don't want to be friends anymore. just tell her straight up. not in a mean way, though. i've done this before! all you have to say is..
i'm sorry. i just don't think that we should be friends or hang out anymore.
it's as simple as that.
okay, so my close friend chelsey has had problems in the past with anorexia/eating disorders of some kind. she went to a treatment center and was fine for about a year, but for the past 4 months, i've noticed that she's been skipping lunch at school, and she told us that she's down to a size 00 and she's about 5'5" so its extremely tiny. her parents weigh her once in awhile just to keep track, but they tell her before they do it, so she goes and drinks tons of water to gain weight. my friend's and i have hinted and written letters to her, saying that we're worried, but we seriously canNOT get it across to her that she is on the verge of relapsing her eating disorder. do you have any advice as to how we could tell her that what she's doing is extrememly dangerous and that we care about her health? thanks
Many people have eating disorders because they have a low self esteem. Your friend may feel like she's not pretty and maybe that's why she's not eating as much. What you need to do is tell her how much you care about her, tell her that she is beautiful and that there is nothing wrong with her, and let her know that what she is doing can lead to death. Show her as much appreciation and love as possible and if she is a true friend, she will eventually listen to what you are saying.
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that sounds oddly familiar.
kay... me and my friends used to be this girl's friend ... none of our parents liked her and she was just weird and mean... So we wrote a letter saying we didnt want to be friends with her anymore. It was like in febuary and its worked but she always stares at us and like..ew. there's a rumor going around saying hses a lesbian and yeah. its starting to freak us out!
Haha well okay, she's probably just mad at you. Like I know that when girls are mad at each other, I think they just stare at each other to see if they are talking about each other if you know what I mean. My best advice right now is to ignore rumors & ignore her.
mkay well theres this chick &&+ we usally get into fights but there usally intresting ones because we have a lot of things incommon just not the exact same &&+ if you were that be sorta like creppy scarry &&+ boring but i enjoii makn up b.c its s0o much fun yo! &&+ when we drink starbuckz it magical hah yeah well you might know her..we both have checkered vans. &&+ when i came over we were such camera wh0r3z x3 mkay well what do u call this? haha
-starbuck addictx3
Haha um..well the reason you & your friend get in so many fights is because not everyone can agree on the same thing all the time. If you really love your friend & want to be friends with her, you would put all arguements aside & try to get along. Forget about the arguing, try getting along, & your friendship will even be better.
Hope I helped!
1. Okay, i don't mean to brag or anything, but I guess I'm pretty popular. I like a guy who im pretty sure likes me back, but we're not going out. I just don't have the nerve to tell him.. what should I do? I eat at the table right next to him in lunch, but I don't really talk to him. He talks to me, and whenever guys I like or have liked in the past, my face turns TOTALLY red, even if I dont like them. I can absoutely talk to them, but not without my face turning red, and thinking i like them.
2. My friends. OMG I love them to death. One problem is.. I'm jealous because im still pretty close friends with this girl Jen* ,but we get in MAJOR fights, and kindof alot, about a few times a month, and so we're not as close anymore. I have many bffs, but my new best friend, Kate*, and I are SUPER-TIGHT.. we tell each other everything, from guys to anything random, like pencils =), but now they're starting to hang out [when they used to hate each other] and now I'm jealous.. what should I do?
Thanks in Advance.
* Names have been changed
1. Since you are a bit nervous around guys, maybe you should have one of your friends tell the guy you like him, and ask the guy if he likes you back so you don't have to talk to him yourself. After your friend lets him know that you like him, then he might say that he likes you back. Chances are he will ask you out. Once you guys start going out, you will start feeling more comfortable around him since he would be your boyfriend & then you won't turn red when you talk to him.
2. Since your two friends are hanging out what you should try to do is resolve conflicts with *Jen. Just say "We fight a lot, & we're still really good friends. We should just forget about all the fights we've had in the past, & try getting along better". I said that to one of my friends because I had the same problem & me & her are good friends again! After you solve problems with *Jen, then you can hang out with her & *Kate together. That way all 3 of you can be best friends & no one would be jealous.
Hope I helped :]
okay so theres this guy and well he like my friend well of course he does there going out but the fact is theres being rumorz of him going out with her on a bet and by tues he should recieve $20 well its tuesday and i guess it wasnt a bet and he seems as if he really likes her and hes saying how much he likes her but whenever hes around me flirts with me me and even one of my best friends who walk around us notice as well as her and im starting to feel really confused.. and i dont know what i should i just hung out with him yesterday and now this girl shes like my best friend and i dont want her to get hurt but i really like him..but i wanna be like best friends with this kid but he its s0o hard not to flirt when hes flirting back advice plz.
-confused in many wayz
Well, what you think may be flirting may just be goofing around. Like, I liked this one guy once and he was doing things which I considered "flirting". Turns out, it was just messing around, and he only thought of me as a friend. This guy may just be messing around with you, it might not mean anything. But if you are really sure that it is for real flirting, and you really like this guy, there is nothing wrong with flirting back. Just let your friend know that you like him, but you're not going to & steal him from her. If the time ever comes when he ever breaks up w. ur best friend & decides to go out w. u, make sure it's ok before u say yes, so no one's feelings are hurt.
I hope I helped :]
I have this friend (we'll call her Bella) and i absoluetly love her to death. Like, we have been best friends FOREVER. No lie. So now we are 13, and like, guys are really starting to come into her life. She also seems to attract guys who are players and only want her for her ass. Then they will dump her after they get what they want, and she will hate them. Three weeks later, shes like all over them again. It makes me mad, because shes just like giving herself away. I know i should just let her handle it, but her sister turned out a total slut and troublemaker and she started how Bella is starting. I just dont want her to like go down the wrong path, because i like love her to death! We are fuhreaking like sisters.
Sorry its so long =/
Any suggestions on how I can get her to be a little more reserved and not as "easy"?
The best advice I can give you is to be the best friend to her that you say you are. When she starts to like a guy and plans on going out with him, you should probably check to see if that guy is a player, or if he wants something besides a relationship with "Bella". Don't let her go out with guys that you know will hurt her, just tell her that you care about her and are there for her. You want to protect her and that's the reason that you don't want her with all these players. Also ask her," Do you really want to end up like your sister?" That will get her thinking about what she's doing, and that will probably get her to start making better decisions. So basically, just make sure the guys she wants to go out with are OK so you can prevent her from getting hurt before she starts going out with them, and tell her how you really feel, let her know that you don't want her to end up a slut.
That's the best advice I can give you, I hope it helped. If it didn't I'm sorry.
Well my friends my one friend whenver i had my boyfriend and i talked about him..shed be like oh be quite! and ignore me and now she has one she always!!!!!!! talks bout him and stuff and its okay! you prolly know who this is...lol oppssayy i dk i tryed talking to them once agian ignored.. ehh
Okay well just tell her that you're okay with her talking about her boyfriend, so she should be okay with you talking about yours. People are different and respond differently to things. So maybe she gets annoyed easier than you do, that's just her. You can't change that about her. But what you can do is get along and say "Hey, I listen to you when you talk about your boyfriend, so I think it's only fair that you listen to me when I talk about mine".
I hope I helped!
Much love
There's this girl that keeps calling me her best friend and she constantly clings to me. She's an ok person and I think of her as a friend who'll I talk to once in a while, but in no way do I consider her to be my best friend. She's a nice person and I don't want to hurt her feelings, but how do I get her to leave me alone?
Okayy; I've been in this situation before. Just tell her "I don't know you well enough to already call you my best friend". That's what I said, and the girl had no problem with it. Her feelings didn't get hurt either. Hope I helped!