Hey my Katie!
I'm thirteen years ld in live in none other than FLORiDA!
I'm a really cool person. I get along with almost anyone who talks to me wihtout an attitude.
My history with boys is like way BAD.
One gjy used me to get closer to my best friend.
Three guys cheated on me.
And another asked out another girl wile we were still dating.
etc.
SO love life wowzers!! lol well there is
this guy his name is Tanner and
i absolutly "LOVE" him!! MUAH TANNER!
lol he is soo awsome and i love being around
him, he makes me laugh and smile
even when i should be in tears! he is
defantly the guy i have been searchng for!
love ya babe!
moving on
I love giving advice.
and its something I'm pretty good at.
Give me a question!
And guys I'm looking for the right one. Prove to me theyre not all the same. ((stupid and rude))
E-mail: Shortbutsweet702@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Florida BABY!
Age: 13
AIM: shortbutsweet702
Member Since: December 20, 2006
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hey, well im 13/f and im in the 8th grade. i went to a school kidnergarten until 6th grade then transfered for my 7th grade year. the school i transfered to is a school that has 7th grade up till 12th grade. at my old school i was pretty popular. i had a lot of friends both boys and girls. in fact, i used to be more popular then most people in my old school. then when i transfered [i transfered with some of my friends from my old school] i became less popular. the friends that i once was more popular then became more popular than me. sometimes they hang out with an older crowd like 15 year olds. in my new school, basically all i have is them. i dont hang out with the 15 year olds like they do. sometimes i feel excluded. i cant find a new group of friends because there is no one. i tried hanging out with new people and i just felt like a third wheel. i cant talk to them either because i did that twice and then they fix it for like a week then start again. i dont know what to do. help me? (link)
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Well I moved schools recently well ((like forever ago butt?)) anyways,
I know where you are comming from. .
Whenn I was like in 4th grade i switched schools, I didnt know anyone and felt like such an outcast.
Then I just was like "whats with me? Get out there and make some friends" just talk to your self in your head and just tell your self to move on from your old friends.
You mght never be very popular in your new school but you wont be such an out cast anymore.
just become out going have a party as soon as you meet BUNCHES of people and invite everyone!
Hope I helped
Best of luck
KaTiE! ;)
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I used to be so outgoing, I was friends with everyone and I talked to anyone. But latley, I've noticed my list of friends has shrunk, I spend more time at home, and I'm becoming shyer and shyer. I worry when we get new nine week classes, because I'm afraid I won't get any classes with my friends when I used to be happy with whoever I got. How do I get the old me back? (link)
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Well sometimes people get a little shy over time. Its totally normal.
Some people tend to just get bored of the same thing and then stop talking to everyone and dont make new friends.
Just find some random person in your new elective, and begin to talk to them .
Then have a party for no apearent reason. ((This pretty much just gets you back on the social ladder))
Hpe I helped
Best of luck ;)
K@T!E
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Ok so my friend(15/f died, along with her dad and brother in a car crash. Her mom and older sister are the only ones who survived.
Alot of people on myspace and msn, ect... are writing a bunch of messages about her and to her family type thing. I was wondering if I should post a bullentin saying that everyone should write a message to them about her or w/e and then we should have someone give them to the mother. Is this a good idea or would it just hurt the family more? I just want to show support and what not so yea...what's the best thing to do? (link)
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I understand hat you re going through ((well sort of))
When I was about 10 years old ((13/f)). One of my reall good friends died. So when I was in 6th grade I helped my teadher with a campaign to raise money for a plack at our school in honor of her.
At first we though of the way it would affect the family. No way in ay shape or form will this hurt the family.
Although it may bring back memories if anything it will help. I think you should go for it. This may help everyone to get over the death, no one will ever forget but they can remember better memories of her/him.
Hop that I helped,
Best of luck
K@t!E
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Well I have this friend we will call her D, and she is like SO awesome and I LOVE hanging out with her! But D is has a bestfriend(not me were just good friends but im her 2nd bff) her bff treats her like dirt. I dont want to tell her because she will probably get mad at me or something.
And D sometimes treats me that way too because i guess she is use to having people treat her like that but whenever I say anything to her about it shes always like "Chill Im just kidding" but shes sooo mean when she does it!
So what do I do//Tell her? (link)
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The irst thing to do is make a date that the two of you can hang out. Mayb going shopping or having a "sleep over", then gradually begin to talk about her #1 bff and the way her bff treats her. Then bring up the fact that sometimes your friend begins to act like that.
stop before all drama though. and just move on.
If it continues to happen then maybe she isnt a true friend and you should move on. . ..
Hope I Helped
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okay so me and my best friend are still really close but she has become friends with a different friend group and i would really much so want to be friends with them. i guess you could say they were the "punk/emo" kids. i talk to a few but whenever i'm around them when i'm with my bf i don't really talk. i get like shy and block myself out. i feel like anti social. what do i say to them to start like becoming friends. i've never really had to try to become friends with anyone like this. it just kind of happened for me. help. (link)
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Making new friends is never easy, but always rewarding.
Just start talking about what kind of music they like, what are their hobies. you know try to find something that you guys have in common.
Once you guys find you have something in common, things will get way easier.
Make plans to hang out at the movies and go shopping, Dont be shy, when youre shy you might as well be "anti social". Just be your self and have a good time.
Hope I Helped
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Ok so I've know this girl forever it feels like. Shes is soooo my best friend. I mean lately we've been getting in a LOT of personal fights. I think that it has something to do with how much time she has been spending with her sister. ((step sister)). . .
Her sister isnt a good influence. Together they have been completely inseperable. But I mean her sister is like three years older than her. And her sister HATES me; for no reason; she doesnt even know me.
I mean with out her sister around Megan and I are like the BEST of friends.
What do I do?
Signed,
Confused && Broken! (link)
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Woah its so ME! HEL ME GUYSES THIS IS MY QUESTION I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!
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I have "aquaintences" in my town. i've never acutally had a "main group" or real friend. i've never had someone say "aww,,i love you ______!!" in a friend way. and it makes me really sad. because i want to be close with people but i just feel like they dont like me. and i dont know how to open up or be friendly or start convos. how do i do that stuff? im not in the "loop" or anything. and this girl that i dont really like hangs around me ALLLL the time and i think that makes people not like me. i really dont want to be rude to her but seriously i dont like it at all. how can i find friends that care about me? any help, tips? (link)
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Finding "true" friends these days is very hard. But easy at the same time.
First thing to do is to find someone in your town; close by,that has the same interests as you.
((its hard to be friends with someone who you have nothing in common with))
Next is to just hang out, go shopping, or maybe even do lunch.
The last thing to do is to aask them for advice about a serious life problem that you are curently expeirencing.
Although it may be hard at first it is a releaf when you finnaly get everything out on the table.
I understand that you may think that "no one" likes you, but it probably because you dont let pople in.
Which is totally understandable. But remember you only get to live life once, so live it to the fullest.
hope i was a help!
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