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I come from a small town in New York called Fulton. not many people in our high school maybe 300 something. But I still love it here. I am most like any other 17 year old girl but I am not all that girly, I grew up with all guys except my best friend who I meet when I was 6. I love to dance, I also love the UFC! I am the biggest dork ever and I just dont care beucase I love it! There are very few people in this world that I love with all my heart. I still act like a little kid most of the time. I can't stand people who are fake and who casue drama. I get along with just about everyone and I tell it like it is.
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okay. i really i dont what i'm doing. i completely fell for my best friend in the entire world. he is completely awesome and goofy and everything i've ever wanted in a guy. we are completely inseperable and i can tell him/talk to him about anything, except this. i cant seem to talk to him about this, not because of him, just i've never been someone to tell people i like that i like them. but he says that he would never date me because my friendship means too much to him and he could never bear to loose me. but everytime he describes what he likes in a girl, its generally kinda things about me. like curly hair and not anorexicly skinny. and i'm both of those things. and on top of all that i feel like i'm loosing him because i just sarted talked to my cuzin who i had had some problems with again. and he and her have become pretty close. i know its like him to be friends with like everyone but i couldnt bear to loose him. especially not to her because i've always been jealous of her and shes stolen two of my friends b4. but he says he'd never do that to me but i ge really paraniod. help me
you cant be upset if he talks to your cousin he is your best friend and he doesnt want to lose you like he said guys often do mean what the say as girls we just read to deeply into things or at least that is what i have noticed. i think that you should be like have you ever tought about you and me together. and if he just says no say that like someone said that you two should date and that will get him thinking about it. and you should just firlt with him a little more. like you do with other guys that you like. but dont talk about other guys beucause then he may think that you dont like him. hope this helps! good luck!
Hey, I kinda need alot of help here.
My friend Christie has recently been in a car accident.. on Saturday night. She isnt hurt, but her head is pounding and she has bruises where the seatbelt was and where the air bag burnt her.
Her father is in critical condition, He broke both of his legs and his nose and he is very burnt.
While the collision happened, she was going 40 mph and the guy trying to pass a car in front of him was going 65 mph. It was a head on collision while the person trying to pass was over the double yellow line.
Christie's head is pounding, and I don't know what to say when she says "my head hurts.. it's pounding!" And I told her to go back to the hospital [she went saturday night after the accident, and they said it was just a head ach.] I told her to try to ice it, and just not go in heavy activity and she does anyways. Should she go back to the hospital? And after the told them her head hurts, they told her she probaly is in shock and its just a headach.
Thankyou
yes she should go back to the hospital beucase it could be more then just a head ache if it has been going on for more then one day. tell her that she has to and you will go with her if she wants you to and i personly think she is scared still and she just needs someone there for her. but make her go back!
how do i tell my feelings(not romantic) to my guy friend who i have only know this school year
i have been feelingleft out ever since he had a gf(his 1st if that makes a difference) i never had a bf so i wouldnt no how it feels
im afraid that he will think in weird like a sterotypical gurl who always has emotions
we r both 14 in 9th grade
you just have to let it slid kinda just know that right now he is really into his g/f right now. it will be the same when you get a boyfriend but i am sure when they brake up you two will hang out. but if you feel really hurt just be like i miss hanging out with you we gotta do something soon and im sure he will take time out to hang with you.
Ok my BFF has another BFF which I hate!! I think my BFF is talking about me to her, but I not sure.
How can you tell? I can't stand my BFF's friend.
What should I do, Be nice to her, or be as mean as possible?
I think you should be nice you can still hate her just be nice beucase she is your friends friends and if you are a true friend you should just be nice to her.
so i have this friend named alicen. and i consider her my best friend. however, she doesnt think im hers. how do i get her to think im her best friend? Pleaseee help this is so important to me. Thanks.
You should be there for her whenever she has a problem and you should be like how is my best friend? and just say stuff like that.
how do i look my boobs look bigger? without plastic surgery, or anything like that. How do you stuff your bra without making it look obvious. Thanks.
you should try a water bra the work wonders!
so i moved to a diffrent city ab out 2 and a hlaf years ago, and i thought it was the worse thing ever because where iused to live i grew up thier since i was born btw im 15/f.
anyways, so last year was my first year of highschool i cam to school not knowing anyone, i hated it, maybe 3 weeks or so i made a group of friends bt you know they could neever add up to my friends from my old twon .well i thought so. i spent so much time saying how much i hated where ilived and i hate the ppl out here but that wasnt true infact i actually loved the ppl but i was afriad of letting go to my old friends
i neevr hung with them outside of school on the weekends or anything because i would always be in my old town(an hour away)
this year im alot more comfortable i would change my friends out here for the world, but im really sad because now im hanging with them so much that i never see any of my friends from where iusesd to live and i actually cried the other day because of it, the mean the world to me and im loosing them?what should i do?
well bring all or your friends to gether and hang out with everyone at once at like a game or just at your house or the mall. Just try and make plans with your old friends for a day and then the next day make plans with your new ones everything will all work out just try and stay in touch with everyone.
Me and my friend play this question game on AIM where you each have to ask a question and if you dont answer it then you have to tell one of your most embarassing moments. Well were running out of questions. Does anybody have any good ones? Preferrably about boys and stuff. THANKS SO MUCH. :). 13/f
I play that game too, its really hard to come up with random questions, There what have you never told anyone?, If you could know one thing anything about me what would it be?, If you could be have anythign in world what would it be and why? If you go to any time in history what and why?
i have this friend who no one likes, and i kinda like her, but she has her moments. Plus everyone thinks she a lesbian, and i kinda agree. I hate talking about her, but idk what to do about it. I dont like confronting her on the issue, but i also want to be sure of her sex. SHe does many things to me which i dont particularly want ehr too, but its weird to tell her STOP!! im not sure what im asking exactly, but i need advice!!!
If you are her friend then you will be upfront with her even if it hurts her feelings she will understand if you explain it to her even if its a little weird.
Listen, most of my bffls are moving this summer, and i have alot of picture books, but i dont have any money for a camera. What should I do? Should I just leave with no memory or what.
P.S. I'm really scared for my closest bffl, because we have known each other since 2nd grade. Ill miss her the most, what should I do?
well you should see if one of your parents would buy you a couple of disposable camera's that are pretty cheap. then you can go get them devloped and put the pics in your photo albums. Or if one of them have a camra have them take the pics and see if you can go print them out.
my best friend maria and i are in the biggest fight of our history of fights.....she even told me that she didnt want to be my friend...now i fell guilty for what i said...i said that she annoys me. all she ever talks about is her boyfriend, soccer, and how much she loves this guy seth and how much she hates these girls madison and adriane. i really want to be her friend cause she is the best friend i have ever had....i even said that i dont think her boyfriend is real and she wrote me this note saying that she dosent want to be my friend. PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!! I AM SO AFRAID TO TELL HER THAT I AM SORRY CAUSE I AM AFRAID THAT SHE WILL SAY THAT SHE HATES ME OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!
well you gotta just explain to her mostly how you are feeling and say you are sorry it will help alot and try and make a peace offering. but in the future when she needs to vent sometimes no matter how annoying it is if you are her true best friend you will be there to listen to her. and when you need to vent about people or anythign she will be there for you.
i'm going to apologize now, this is long. okay well first off, my parents are divorced. second, i do not talk to my dad whatsoever. i have many reasons but above all that, i can't stand him. except he lives down the street from me. i have been living full time at my mom's house for 2 years now. and all of a sudden, she wannts to move like 6 states down south to south carolina.i told her i don't want to move because 1)my boyfriend. i'd miss him so much. 2)i hate the beach and warm weather 3) i just bought a brand new 600$ snowboard.. theres no snow there... and i have 4 new snowmobiles 4) and of COURSE all of my friends. i love my friends. they are great, and always keep me laughing. yes, i make friends easily but i don't want new ones. i love mine. i'm 13/f by the way. and my mom said that she REALLY wants to move to south carolina. so that means theres a really good chance we are moving. my mom said i have two choices if we move: i can live with my dad (hell no), or two, make new friends and move. i don't know what to doo!!!!! yes i want to move but not fricken to south carolina!!!!!!!!! i want to move to the next town over. what should i do about this situation ?
well you are only 13 and you may you love your boyfriend now but there will be boys in South carolina and if you cant stand you dad and dont want to live with him you have one option to move that is that sucks yeah but you will make new friends and you are only 13 and in life even if you dont move you dont keep the same friends, but just htink about moving like a brand new start and come on the beach is awsome tons of hottie guys with hottie boddies all works out! and you can always come back for vactions.