Aloha, guys. I am here to help anybody that needs some help, lol. My name's Caydee. It's prounounced like Katie. My cousin thought of the spelling. I hope I can help you guys out and if you wanna know some stuff about me, read on!
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Me and my best friend Ashlee are REALLY close but lately shes been really into guys. I mean, I am just not the way she is ..I mean were 13 but I guess Im kind of prude. Well, one night Ashlee got invited to a party with my other 2 friends Lindsay and Courtney. A few other people in my circle of friends (And I) didnt get invited. But, I didnt think much of it and I didnt care at all. Then, the other day, I was on the phone with my friend Alex (Shes one person who didnt get invited either) and Alex told me that Courtney, who was at the party, told her that the party wasnt really a party. It was just a few guys and Ashlee, Lindsay, and Courtney. Courtney said they played spin the Bottle and Ashlee (Who had never kissed anyone before) made out with 4 guys at the party! The worst part was that she didnt even tell me. I dont know what to do! I told Alex (Swore on my life, basically) NOT to say anything about what Ashlee did (especially to Ashlee) because she would know Courtney told Alex and Alex told me! Im so depressed! what do i do? (link)
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It's pretty normal for girls to get WAY into guys at age 13. It'll pass and she won't be so into them in a year or so.
You should talk to Ashlee about your feelings or else you're never goin to feel any better. Maybe Ashlee thought that you wouldn't be interested to hear about her experience at the so-called-party. Just talk to her about her actions and the way you feel about them. I know you feel like you can't let your friends down, but you really should talk to Ashlee and tell your friends that you're going to. Just tell them your story and ask them to try to understand. I hope things will get better for you.
-Caydee
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hey caydee,
well i got these two best friends of mine and i've known the one since bout the fourth grade about and the other the fifth grade well now my friend from both grades wheni met them are becoming realy close and even though i've known one of them longer she said she can talk to the other one more then me in a way cuz i dont know i feel very left out like they are hiding something from me ya know? so what should i do? thanks
~sad and depressed (link)
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Dear Sad and depressed,
I think I know who you are. If this is who I think it is, this is what I have to say: We're not hiding anything from you...and I want to talk to you privately, so please IM me, because the last time my friends did this (and it was you know who (M), it caused problems.
If this isn't who I think it is, you NEED to talk to your friends while they are both together. Tell them what you told me. Tell them the way you feel and that you want to not feel like this anymore. Talking always helps. After all, they may just be planning a huge surprise, lol. But please talk them and tell me how it goes!
~*Caydee*~
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Ok so I have these 2 best friends, they are always soo clingly, they do everything together and i hate it!!! Like one day I came to school we were all cool and everything, the next day they were mad at me for no reason!! Then the next day I went to ask them what was wrong and the "leader" of the two (one of them follows her every move) said they were just kidding! I was so upset. They always talk about me behind my back too. They even tell me they call me abd names behind my back. I'm not even mean to them!!I'm not like jealous or anything it's just i'm the third wheel and i want things to go back to the way they were b4 all this drama... (middle school drama) and I really need help I am stuck and I have no clue what to do!! PLEASE HELP ME!! I need help fast!!!!(i rate high)
Thank you!!! (link)
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Well, you defintely should talk to them. I know how you feel, my two old best friends always left me out last year. Tell them that you really wish that they wouldn't "act" mad at you for no reason and that you'd like them to hang out a little more with you. I talked to my friends for awhile and it helped me out, so I hope it helps you. And be calm! Tell them that you're not jealous, you just wish that they didn't do the things they do.
((~)) C ((~))
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Is it normal to be best friends with a girl you've known for half-a year?? This girl and I met in eighth grade this year, and I've become very attached to her. We're both best friends and we tell each other everything. We're like sisters. Is that normal to be this close after a short time?? (link)
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You can be best friends in any amount of time.I became best friends with one of my friends in like a month! So yeah, it's normal, you dont have to be so worried about it. Have fun!
((~)) C ((~))
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Her, I'm having a a slumber party (10 girls) What should we do? ( we aren't allowed to invite guys over, cuz we're only 13) (link)
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I think I know who you are...lol, but if you aren't, here's what you can do...Play games (Truth or dare, etc.), Watch tons of movies, give eachother makeovers, do spa stuff and ask people to bring masks (Peel off masks are fun), pig out on snacks or bake cookies or brownies, give manicures, do hair, make fun of teachers or do impressions of them and other people you might not like, listen to music and tell jokes and just talk, do whatever! Have fun!
((~)) C ((~))
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