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E-mail: Bigdishsatellite@hotmail.com
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Location: Scotland
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
Member Since: March 12, 2006
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I met this girl this year, and we quickly became best friends. We ate lunch together every day, saw eachother outside of school, and we had English together so we would always see eachother. Semester 2 began, and she started to eat lunch with the guy she liked and his friends, leaving me all alone. I found a new group of friends while she continued hanging out with her crush and his group of friends. I confronted her about it right after it started and we argued about it so much we didn't talk for 2 weeks. We made up, but things still aren't the same. She says its important that she gets the guy, but I always thought our friendship was more important. It's been a while now, and we still don't talk often (VERY rarely), never see eachother, and I don't know what's going on in her life anymore. I want our friendship back, but I don't want to fight about it again and have it be even worse. What can I do? (link)
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I think you may have a tiny crush! Freindship is very important and i think that if you talked to her about your freindship but tell her she should still get the guy she wants then you 2 could still be friends. Even if it seems that shes abandoning you, you have to talk 2 her about it. And sure she will have other friends but at least in the long run, once again, you will be one of them.
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Right, my best friend is usually really nice, but recently she keeps putting me down, mostly about things that arent even true. She keeps pointing out people and saying they're taller than me and teasing me about my 'frizzy' hair. Shes even started being mean about the things i like. Like my big eyes she says are weird and the other day she said "I like my tummy better than yours" and i really like my toned tummy. Even though most of it isnt true, its really getting me down. What should i do? Please do not tell me to talk to her about it because she would just tell me i'm being stressy. (link)
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Usually i would ask you to talk to her about it but if she is being so mean im sorry but i dont think she is that good a friend.
Your friend should be someone whos nice to you and someone you trust. Not someone who treats you this way.
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okay so i have two best friends. and lately its seemed like they have been leaving me out. of everything. one of them, lets call her A, ive known since 3rd grade and shes been my best friend since. now im in 8th. the other, V, has been my best frined since 6th grade. and i like intoduced them to eachother in 6th grade. its always been us three. we have even gotten the name as "triple threat" around our school and such. but now it seems like its them, and then me. they talk on the phone everynight for hours on end, and everytime they see eachother they run up and hug each other for what seems like an hour. and im lucky if i even get like a hi sometimes. it may be that im jealous.. but i still want a hug. you know? they have been getting closer to eachother and farther from me. i know i really shouldnt be having to deal with this kinda thing with my best friends, but i am. and it totally sucks. ive talked to them about it and they said its kinda my fault because i do travel basketball that takes up all my weekends, but seriously, they shouldnt be blaming it on me.. should they? i did basketball last year too, and it wasnt any different between us. this started happening like 2 months ago. and now its getting really bad. if you have any advice on what i can do, please just post back anything. please! thanks in advance :] (link)
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Its hard to be a 3rd wheel & feel jealous about it, in fact im going through the exact same thing right now.
I think that you should hang out with them more often and laugh and tell each other secrets. You go in tommorow with a big smile and hug them both and act cherry and talk to them all day then ivite them round and have fun and they will see that you can be fun too.
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