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Im better at helping others then helping myself. I try to keep and open mind to everything, I've been thru a lot between family friends and Myself, so if you need advice PLEASE ASK!

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advice

my friend, let's call her "emily," is very opinionated. most of the time it's rude and she's not afraid to voice her opinion, especially to me. now at first i didn't mind this, but now it's getting really annoying. see, last night was the sports awards banquet at my school and she kept making rude comments to me about people she didn't like but were my friends. if she didn't like them, she would be like, they don't deserve this award because of blah blah blah and i just wanted to scream at her because they deserve it so much and she just says that because she's jealous (she used to be good, but not anymore). how can i get her to stop being so rude and obnoxious? i really don't want to hear this constant complaining anymore. i'm not very confronational so i don't think talking to her in private would be my best option. thanks so much!

You can do the same thing to her as she does to you, and see how it makes her feel, or write her note saying that your sick of her doing this and that its not very respectful and she needs to stop. I hope I helped ((Kaitlyn))

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my friend and i found pictures on the floor of the 7th graders... so we drew on two of the pictures saying fat lard... but they told the principal ((being 7th graders and soo gay))... what should we do bc they have cameras in the class.....

I think u should fess up and take the consequences that wasn't very nice to do Sorry I know that advice doesn't help You but thats the most responsible thing to do and sometimes thats the best

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well one of my best friend john has recently told me i've changed and we just entered high school and i dont think i have changed. i think i have just found a new group of friends that i like and i hang out with and i dont doubt that they rubbed off on me, but i told him ill try to act the same around him but now it seems like he thinks hes my boss. he treats me rude and disrespectfully and acts like im nothing to him anymore, and ive done nothing but be nice to him..i've invited him places and try to talk to him but all he does is shut me down and im like one second away from yelling at him because i dont think i deserve him yelling at me. what should i do? i think if i approach him he'll just yell at me saying i've changed. -14 female

1- EVERYONE changes in high school, and tell your friend that, but if he won;t listen write him a note, if he stilll doesn't get it he obviosly doesn't care about you that much (srry) but its not your fault hes just being an As*, but everyone changes like your maturity level is changing and your actually finding yourself, he probably has changed too, and remember GUYS ALWAYS talk longer to mature :-D IHIH*Kaitlyn

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Ok, My friend she is sad and feels theres nothing left in life but friend's.See im trying to help her to see there is more in her life then that but she just dosn't understand.I try to talk to her but she just say's there no use because she knows this life of her's is pretty much true,but even though it pratcically is there has to be something that i can do to help her get over this sadness she has. and i just don't know what to do.plz help me to figure a way to make her happy again.

~SilentTears

Maybe you should recomend her to get some help, she seems really depressed. Or just sit with her and talk to her and find out everything that is bothering her. What she really needs is a friend though so stick with her. Please let me Kno what Happens. I hope everyhting is Ok.-Kaitlyn ITSALLKAILYN*S.N

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i went to a club saturday and like there was this guy there that i knew lets call him joey well his nefu my ex wesley he went to and he dumped this girl lets call her corey he did it at the club to and so joey told me to go talk to her and she was in the bathroom so i went in my friend holly followed me and i told her joey told me to come in her to talk to that girl the girl started screaming at me and then she had an asma attack and i just cant forget about it because she was so angry at me plz help

IM not sure if IM getting this question correctly but, Talk to her and Tell her everything that happened and talk to *joey* and let him know what happened. Sorry if this advice makes not sense.
-Kaitlyn

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HELP! Please! I have a problem...see, I don't get out of the house much. Well let's just say AT ALL! Ever! I have dropped out of school awhile ago, and no job but my mother supports me. I have no friends at all. I try to communicate with them but nobody ever seems to want to hang out with me. And I don't think it's because I've dropped out...I did it a LONG time ago and this is just starting to happen. I never get asked out on a date, and my friends never talk to me. I've basically just become a bum and all I do all day is sit around home on the computer watching tv. I hate it. I know it wont be like this for the rest of my life but can somebody please tell me if this is semi-normal?! I want to know that I'm not a freak of nature.

Our town is really small, and I don't get along with too many of them so socializing is really hard for me. What can I do to make myself feel better about this? Any tips on not being so shy also? Thanks so much!

Try involving yourself in something like dance, gym, get a job it should help you meet new people then you can get out more. Or what might help, Go back to school ( probably not what you want to hear) If your comfortbale with yourself you may find it easier to socialize, I hope I helped! Good Luck! **KaitLyn

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my friend is 6 months pregnant and shes only 13 but i dont knw wot to do. i know i shudnt get involved but i'm the only person shes told and she has no intention of telling any1 else. her bf's a prik so he aint worth telling. i jus dont want sumthing to happen to her or the baby when i cud of helped by telling somebody. i dont want enyfin to happen but i dont want to loose a m8!

Talk to her more about it, and if she refuses to get help, help her, don't risk it she needs help,she can't do this alone and she shouldn't have to Good luck to you and your friend, and I hope everthing works out *KAITLYN*

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hey kait its *ashlee* i appreciate what you said earlier, and thought id tell you. good luck with your advice column, if you need advice or tips you can ask me and ill do the best i can. or you can IM me on aim. my sn is beani027.

ThaNks.I KnO if I NeeD n E thing I'll Find You.My S.N is ItsallKaitlyn.. So I'll Talk To YA Later
Thanks Again
-*Kait*-

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