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Hi, I'm Caitlin! I have brown hair, hazle eyes, I'm 5'6" and I LOVE my friends!!♥♥
I'm into football, soccer, dance, and volleyball. I heard about advicenators from my friend Sheridan Kayne Vaccaro (and i love her sooooo much)
I love to help people out. And I'm told i give good advice. So......

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Okay...there's this girl...that i'm kinda friends with, and she just wont leave me alone....i mean....she pisses people off, and doesnt get it. how do i make her understand that sometimes i dont want to talk to her, and that her questions are too prying? how do i make her see that she is a little too obsessed?




~rachel~

first i want to apoligize for taking so long to reply i hav been busy.
well there is two things you could do.
1. you could just ignore her
but that aprotch may come off as mean.
2. you could just tell her nicely that she can sometimnes ask too many questions and can be alittle naggy


again sorry for taking so long
hope i helped :)
---caitlin----
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thank you so much caitlin ~shane o mac

i might pass math now

good

im glad i could help =)

i love you too
jk

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Okay, so I guess I'll start out by saying I'm a 14 year old female horseback rider (who you, caitlin, know and hopefully love). Last summer, I swtiched barns from one where I fit in and had alot of good friends to another one where most of the people I ride with are adults. Sure, I hae my great friends there, but I'm starting to not see them as much. The two people ym age I do see all the time were best friends before we all started riding there, so they go way back. The thing is, I really, really want to fit in with them but I don't want to make a fool of myself. Any ideas on topics to talk about to break the ice? (I'll be showing with both of them this summer)

hey stranger lol
just be yourself and don't worry about fitting in. you are there to do 1 ,and only one thing, to ride horses and do your best. And if you just act like youself, they should love you, and if they don't, they will sure be missing out on knowing a GREAT person.

----caitlin----
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None of my friends are very...um... supportive of me. I came out to them about being bisexual and now they're freaked. My own brother even treats me different. I used to be against gay relationships to...until I couldn't get girlfriends. I experimented with some guy friends of mine (not sex, just kissing) and it got me aroused. I've dated some guys and those relationships have been just as good as (or better) than the relationships I've had with girls. Since all of my friends are straight, I feel like I should be too. I want to marry a girl, not a guy, but why do I want to date guys and kiss guys? I've even though about sex with another guy. What should I do? How can I sort out my feelings?

This must be really hard....
But you should just continue dating guys(or girls) and being youself. People will get used to the idea it just may take them awhile cause it's a change.
Just give it time and be pasient.

-----caitlin-----
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Okay well I'm 13 and I'm in the 7th grade and I'm worried about my friend. Okay shes pretty much drop-dead gorgeous and could get any guy she wants. Well I mean she's not like a slut or anything (Okay she kissed her ex boyfriend(corey) 4 times he was her first kiss ... and then shes made out with her current boyfriend once. ).

Anyways she has had family problems. She has two little sisters and they get favored and her mom pretty much yells at her 24/7 and ignores her all the time.

Then recently, about 2 weeks ago, she went to her neighbors house(AJ) and Corey was there. Well Corey grabbed her and she was sitting on him ..., hes like really muscular so she couldn't get away, anyways Corey started rubbing her body and then AJ's like on top of her and hes unhooking her bra. She finally got away and ran into the bathroom and Corey comes in and he was all like awwl hilary i'm sorry for being a jerk i'll help you. So Hilary believed him and he ended up unhooking it again. This kept on happening she was there for about 2 hours.

So shes pretty tramatized from that and her mom. Well to make things worse her mom was yelling at her Tuesday night and she wasn't really paying attention because she hates being yelled at. Her dad then asked her if she was paying attention and she was like it's kinda hard not to dad when shes screaming at me. Then her dad comes over and punches her jaw(and her neck cracked).

Now Hilary is one of my bffae and I don't know what to say to her to help her or anything. Please help me on what I can do for this situation to help her out.

Ohh and we were going to call child abuse people if her dad hit her again.

wow
ok she REALLY needs to get help.
she needs to talk to your student counseler about the boys and she needs to talk to her mom and tell her that she feels ignored and yelled at to much. and if her dad hits her or hurts her again then yes contact child abuse.

you just need to be there for her and love her like a bffe would.

----caitlin----

hope i helped and keep me updated =)

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