My names Sam and I live in Georgia. I feel that I give good advice or I wouldn't be doing this. Sometimes I'm feeling sympathetic but a lot of the time I can be kind of blunt. That doesn't mean that I don't care, it just means that the truth isn't always what you want to hear. If it's a complicated question, about relationships and such, please IM me its a lot easier to work out that way. If you leave one in my inbox it will most likely be responded to by a question and a shot in the dark so include as much info as possible.
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Ok,i like this boy but were friends and all.Really good friends.But like everytime we talk i get so into the conversation and just want 2 blurt out that i like him.Should I??
Signed NEED HELP FAST! (link)
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Yeah, just tell him. If you don't tell him the he'll never know.
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I have this friends and I really like her like more than a friend. A couple of months after we became friends I asked her out but she thought that it would be better if we stayed friends. After that was said, we became much closer and im kinda getting signals. what should I do, I really like her? (link)
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I was in this situation a year or two ago. Just ask her out on a date or something. Go to a restaurant and then go for a walk while the sun sets, at some point try to hold her hand, its the easiest way to tell if she likes you. If she accepts it then she does, and if she doesn't then its pretty easy to just play it off and you lose nothing.
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I would like to thank y'all in advance before you read this. It's probably rather long just because I think you need a little backround information about me... Good luck and thanks if you give me advice... I'll rate you high for this one (That sounds like a bribe)... ANYWAY... I'm having kind of a friend/idenity crisis. First off.. I use to NEVER hang out with girls. I was always one of the guys until 8th grade (I am not going into 10) When I grew boobs, had a NICE body, and was the captian of the competition cheerleading sqaud of my middle school. I had everything I wanted... I was beautiful, and popular (Shalow.. I know) Then, I didn't even make the high school cheerleading sqaud and I was kind of at an all time low. It was one of the most depressing time periods ever for me. That summer I gained 30 pounds and had no friends except my boyfriend. Luckily, I had my boyfriend there for me, which is still with me. At the begining of my freshman year I told my boyfriend how I was kind of nervous about going back to school because of my drastic change. So he told me I should hang out with girls. And so I did. I found a group of girls to hang out with. Turns out the year before I had bad thoughts about them but once I got to know them they werent what I really thought... (big lesson you all... don't jugde) Anyway, So that year was okay. I had girlfriends and stuff.. But I was kinda over weight and feeling really crummy about myself. But I wasn't gunna let that get me down... So I decided to get in something to take the place of my lifetime love, cheerleading. I became an active member in student council. There I became class president, And now I am student body president. I kinda prefer this position over cheerleading. ANYWAY... back to my friends... This summer was kind of weird with my girl friends position. I was happy i had girls to talk to about girl stuff and do girl things with. My boyfriend was happy too. So this summer I started big with TONS of partys and tons of drinking. Me and my girlfriends had a riot. But then I went to 3 leadership camps and decided that I wanted to be a role modle. So i stoped smoking, and drinking, and the parties. Well after I didn't want to do that my girl friends kind of left me behind even though we were really close. We barely talk anymore... And if we do its because they don't have anything else better to do and they wanna chill because they're bored. I know my possibilities.... I know my position.... I know what I can do... But what do y'all think about my position? About me? And what I should do.. Thanks (link)
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I'm kind of having the same thing right now. I've been involved in softcore drugs now for almost 3 years, alchohol, weed, dusters, shrooms, those are softcore drugs, hardcore would be like coke and heroine. Anyways, now im trying to turn my life around, but every time i get close, I lose a lot of my friends. You can try hanging with people that are more concerened about their future, but you have to consider the other option, I mean, having fun now might mean your not as healthy later on, but how much fun does a 60 year old have anyways? I say have fun while you can, but remember to keep school in check.
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my best friend is really kewl and everything but she's stubborn and she wants to have sex but she just turned 14 and she doesn't even have a boy frined but how do i talk to her about the dangers and stuff?
signed,
confused (link)
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theres not really that many dangers. But, 14 is very early. Probably the earliest anyone should even consider it. Try to convince her to not do it, tell her that she has the rest of her life to do it. If it looks like she's going to do it anyways, try to hook her up with your best guy friend, he'll probably like you more for it, and if its a really good guy, then maybe they can have a strong relationship afterwords. Also, encourage her to use as much protection as possible and make sure her and her partner know how to use a condom properly (read the back of the package, you'll be surprised how much you didnt know)
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here i go:
okay my best friend...."Nancy"....well we have been friends for about 3 years and well we have a lot of fights about stuff!! we just recently had a fight and she said "we have 2 many fights" and she hasn't been talkin 2 me a lot usually she is the one approachs me and says "hi" but now i'm sayin "hi" only she won't talk 2 me!! i said 2 her okay u wanna b like that fine so i haven't talked 2 her!!! what should i do?? she is gettin on my nerves and she is actin like a child, i am 2 mature for this kind of childish behavior!!! Lemme Kno!! :)
xoxo,
.*.BeSs.*. (link)
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If you just had a fight she's still mad. Give her some time and hope she doesn't find new friends. In a few weeks she should be over it and try to figure out a way to hang out together, but with other people there too. You should have some time to talk somewhere in there and things will get straightened out.
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hey - my best friend has this boyfriend .. and like i KNOW shes to good for him and whenever the THREE of us chill something goes down and she gets mad at me .. because i "flirt" with him .. like i try not to and shes such a bitch sometimes i just cant take it and then .. she goes and chooses him over me .. how can i tell her hes no good without hurting her .. and this is something that totally bugs me .. you have NOO CLUE .. and maybe if it was 2 guys and 2 girls i wouldnt get into a fite with her .. and you know what i cant help that i like her boyfriend a lil cause he is really really HOT .. help me please !! (link)
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First off don't be a cock block. Sorry to use slang like that, but if he's about to do something with her then don't step in or interrupt, theres nothing more annoying. Flirting with him isn't a big deal. If it bothers her that much then she probably isn't very seccure with the relationship. I flirt with my friends girlfriend all the time. He knows that she really loves him and so it's ok for me to joke around and flirt. Maybe you should talk to your friend and explain that your not actually trying to pick up her boyfriend and that if it upsets her that much then you'll try and stop.
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