I dont really know what to say about myself. But, I guess I'll just say some stuff about me.
I'm 15, and my name is Melissa.
I'm 5,4 and 105 pounds!
I have brown hair, green/gray/gold eyes, LONG legs, and freckles! But not alot of freckles...more like a bandit mask of them. Lol, like in the shape of a raccoon mask.
I go to CAT pickering, and while there i take Culinary Arts. Then after that, I go back to Downingtown East High School for the rest of the day. I LOVE IT!! I only take like, THREE classes a day and i'm in tenth grade!
I love all music, except for creepy country, (no offense to all you country lovers out there!) and I love to draw!!
I'm not really punk, preppy, goth, or anything like that...i'm more like....me? lol, ANYWAY,
That's all I have to say!
If you need help, feel free to ask me. I dont mind answering your ?'s! Or if you just want to talk, my AIM name is Samarawntstoast. IM me if you want to!
Peace!
~Melissa~
E-mail: tdrod4@comcast.net
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Age: 15
AIM: samarawntstoast
MSN: firefairy141@hotmail.com
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My best friend is WAY too sensitive. And it's soo annoying like you would NOT believe. I'm really getting sick of it. Her boyfriend just broke up with her a week ago, but they were only dating for like a week and a half. I also have a boyfriend, and we're friends with another couple. So she's the 5th wheel I guess. And I understand that she feels left out, so I do invite her to a lot of things. But yesterday was the first day I didn't invite her, because it was just the two couples (me and my boyfriend, and the other couple we're friends with). She got SO pissed off, and wasn't talking to me, and started crying on the phone. And then she hung up on me. Today I called her and she wasn't talking to me. I'm really getting annoyed with this. I try to tell her that it's not my fault and that she can't take her anger out on me just because I have a boyfriend but she does it anyway. She sulks in her room all day when I spend time with my boyfriend. How the heck am I supposed to deal with her?! HELP ME PLEASE. :| (link)
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It seems to me like your friend is very very lonely, and just clinging to you. You should tell her to back off, cause you have your own life too, and deserve your space.
If you want to hang out with your bf, and go double dating, without her there, then thats your buisness. She should expect to be included in everything. Thats not fair to you.
I would suggest talking to her (when she calms down) and telling her that you and you bf need time to be alone. And that you love to hang out with her (somtimes) but she's not your only friend.
I really hope i helped, and if i didn't, message me, and i'll try to work out some other things.
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OMG! MELISSA! HELP ME! LOOK AT MY QUESTIONS! AND HURRRYY!!! *is feeling mental pain*!!!
*Jill* (link)
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Hey look my Best friend is a guy and i'm a girl
And we have been going over eachothers houses and playin video games and i think i like him but how can i know if he likes me any idias. He is one of those Sk8er Boyz thnx :-) (link)
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Maybe you should just ask him if he likes you...OR you could get a really close friend to go up to him and say "i've noticed that you and (insert your name here) are hanging out alot. Do you like her?" and then go from there.
Hope I Helped!
~Melissa~
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i need a way to get back at my friend. The dam SOB is stealing everygirl that i manege to hook up with, this is drivin me mad!!!. its like he doing it on purpose. I meet a girl, i go out with her, then outa nowhere she meets him and she wont talk to me and the next day i see em 2 hangin out or what ever. I WONA FRIKIN KILL THE DUDE!!!! and i would if only i didnt know him for like 5 years.
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Confront your friend. Ask him if he is doing this on purpose. If it turns out he is, ask him not to, or maybe he's just not a very good friend and you shouldn't hang out anymore. Or if he isn't doing it purposly, ask him to be more conceinse (sp?) of the fact that he's doing it.
I really hope I helped!
~Melissa~
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well is it weird that im a girl that thinks its better to have guy friends. cause there not all about drama and are really funny. well a bunch of people say that cuz im nice and i hang out with guys that means i like love them or something. and i really dont feel that way about them.
what do you think
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I think that its perfectly okay for a nice girl to hang out with guys. No offense to some girls, but guys can be alot more fun. Their not afraid to do certain things, that girls refuse to do! You should hang out with who ever you like, and no-one should tell you diffrent!
Hope I Helped!
~Melissa~
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i have this really good friend, but she's way to thin. i mean, she's like 75 pounds, and we're in 9th grade. she wears xs & 0s, and can fit into kids clothes. i think this makes her less attractive, and everyone says shes anorexic. but she eats at lunch, and whenever we hang out she eats. i dont think shes bulimic(sp?) and she doesnt look sickly. i think its just genetics, but she doesnt think shes all that skinny, though she is, sometimes she'll make remarks like shes gaining weight or whatever, and the truth is she could gain about 20 pounds and still be considered very tiny. she needs to gain weight because it looks unhealthy, almost like you could break her in half, but i dont know how to help her, and i dont want to offend her. maybe its not my place to tell her she needs to gain weight? but everyone always talks about how skinny she is, and guys arent interested in her because shes like a stick. what should i do? or should i do anything?
ill rate high :) (link)
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I have a friend just like that and it can be really scary. You should tell her that she should gain weight because its not natural for someone to be that thin. She might need to see a diet-trician (SP?. Or she just might need for you to really give her a good talking too. Tell her she's not fat and that she needs to gain weight like RIGHT now, or she could have a heart-attack. It happend to my one friend and she still wont gain weight! Please confront your friend before it gets too out of hand.
I really hope I helped!
~Melissa~
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i went out with this kid we will call him C, well we broke up because he accused me of cheating because some one told him i was, but thats a lie i gave my best friend a hug. well we recently went back out and broke up because he cheated on me this time with my best friend, he doesnt get the picture i dont want to date him he calls me 24/7 and he tells me he loves me if i got an away soccer game he shows up when the bus gets back and nos what way i go home and waits for me and really annoying i dont know what to so please help! (link)
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Well, you should explain to this friend C that you dont like him anymore and that its really creeping you out that he's pretty much stalking you, cause thats what it sounds like to me. If you just tell him he should start to leave you alone.
Hope I helped!
~Melissa~
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I am having a new friend over today, and I would like some ideas on what we can do. I have DDR so that is one thing, but besides that all I can really think of is tv. I am a female/16 if it helps! Thanks! (link)
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You could go shopping, or look at magazines, or watch movies, DDR is really fun, heehee, ummmm.......theres really alot of stuff you can do, are you like contained in the house?
Cause if your not, go bowling, or ice-skating, or see a movie, or mall, or anything like that.
If you are not allowed to really go anywhere, you could give each other makeovers, and rent a movie, and play video games, or just hang out.
It all really depends on what you both like and what you both have in common.
Hope I helped!
~Melissa~
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hello...
the other night i went to my friends b-day party and the girls(and guys) triple dog dared me to call up this guy (hes kinda a nerd) and ask him out just to see what he would say...
so i called him (not thinking of what i was getting into) and he said yes. so anyway i saw him at the coffee shop the next day and told him what my friends dared me to do...and BIG MISTAKE i told him who dared me. now he is "plotting revenge" against them...
do i tell my friends what is going to happen to them or not?
BTW: im 13/f and dont tell me that i was retarded for doing that because i already know that. WILL RATE enless its a smartass answer. (link)
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Okay, as you already know, that was kinda mean...but I understand peer pressure.
You should definitly tell your friends, because you could never know, he could be serious. Some people can be really messed up like that.
My friend got threatned to be killed by someone she thought was a friend, so you should be really careful.
What i'm saying is that you should definitly tell your friends.
Melissa
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Ok so today is my sleepover little gathering for m bday. Only three of my bff are coming, what are soem things we can do?!All girls'
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OMG!!! SLEEPOVERS ROCK! heehee, Rent a shitload of movies that you love and stuff!! Or or or i dont know, just do whatever seems fun! Like when i go to sleepovers with my friends we make movies out of our brothers action figures, and stuff, like with a webcam or a video recorder! Just have fun! Ja Ne!
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