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My best friend in the entire world is going out with a guy that I liked..At one point in time I liked him and he liked me..but I never went out with him because my best friend liked him.. I dont know whether or not I should tell her this because, well they look really cute together, but the thing is, is that I think I still like him..
Clueless here..I dont know what to do..

well i prolly wouldnt tell her until you know for a fact that you like him! maybe you will see someone else you like! but give it a week and if you still like him then tell your friend and just say i felt bad not tellin you but make sure you tell her that you dont want to break them up you just thought she should know
*CaItLyN*

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The most popular girl in school (i was O.K friends with her) moved to Arizona (i'm in Virginia) and I am happY! SOOO HAPPY! Cause i like being the center of attention. All my bestfriends are sad though, because they liked her! I didn't really though! Is it wrong to be glad???? Cause I feel really bad.

Its not wrong to be happy but make sure you are there for your friends if they need someone to talk to!
*CaItLyN*

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ok my friend is really mad at me because we joke around and she took a joke personly so her mom called my mom and her mom told my mom wat i said.now im really in a bad situation /wat shud i do???should i joke around anymore???

sincerly,
xxmystary-girlxx

Okay the only reason why i can help you is cause i had this same thing happen to me!! I wouldnt stop acting yourself just because of that but i would start to think about what im gonna say and make sure that she wont take it the wrong way! or maybe just stop jokin with her because she could really be sensitive!
*CaItLYn*

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ok.... there's this guy at school that i made friends with over the last six weeks or so and i was really looking forward to his friendship cz he's a great guy.... but then something HORRIBLE happened... he took some tranquilizers before school about a week ago and was COMPLETELY high...so i helped him get through 2nd period and then walked him up to 3rd (we have those classes together). well, he got caught that day and now his parents are making him transfer to another school and i was really upset cz i thought that would be the end of it....but then i got a note from him through his cousin saying thankyou for helping him and stuff and asking for info on contacting me...that was when he was at his aunt's cz his parents kicked him out of the house so he could get on the internet and call people for short periods of time...so i wrote him back and now he's back at his own house and that's good but not really cz he can't get online or call anyone or anything there. so now i'm scared that he might do something to himself or something cz he's not the kind to just sit and be quiet...he HAS to talk...and he's tried to hurt himself before.... i've emailed him and all, but ya...i cant really get in touch with him... do y'all know anything that could help me get my mind off of all this for the time being so i can hold on to my sanity? Sry it's so long... i'll rate high...and plz don't write anything if all your gunna do is put me down or something...cz that's not helpfull.
thanx

Okay what i think you should do is maybe send an email or call his parents and tell them how your feeling! If you really truely think he might hurt himself you need to make sure he gets help! dont sit there and do nothing! Make sure you can help him by letting somone know so that they can help him! IM me if ya need to talk!
*CaItLYn*

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Okay my friend likes this guy, but they broke up and he doesnt lik eher at all..so she had a new boyfriend...and i started to like her ex so i told her so she wouldnt be mad at me..but she got mad and we are in a fight now...and then she broke up with her new boyfriend cause i like her ex.. and ithink shes gonna try and get her ex back so i dont have a chance but im not sure...i dont know what to do cause i was only trying to be a good friend by telling her that so she wouldnt have to find out if i like dated him

Okay you totally did the rite thing by tellin your friend that you liked her ex! she needed to know..and if she got mad at you for that then she isnt a true friend just because no one can tell you who to like and who not to like! and if she broke up with her boyfriend just to go back out with her ex just to get you mad then that is so rude and she isnt a true friend!
*CaItLyN*

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I cant help it! i dont know what to do. I make tons of promises but i can NEVER keep them. I will sware to a person that i wont tell anyone something just so they will tell me, but then i got and tell people what i heard? what should i do? i want people to tell me stuff but i dont want to keep it a secret...

ALSO...i constantly lie...i lie a LOT. about everything almost...idk what to do

If you want people to trust you then you cant tell people! You know what could help you is if someone asks you to keep a secret say i promise i will try too...so when you accidently tell someone it then its not like you lied! But the thing is if people tell you something and they ask you to keep a secret...they WANT you to keep it a secret! I dont know what to tell ya if I were you I would try my hardest not to say anything! Or something else is if someone tells you something and you promise not to tell anyone then just get a notebook that no one else looks at and just write it in there so that you dont have to worry about keepin it in you! Now the lieing thing I cant help ya with because its all up to you..People dont like it when other people lie but some times you have to lie to protect yourself but the thing is if someone asks you something but you dont want to tell them the true answer say something like i dont wanna talk about it or i cant tell ya because then you arent lieing but you also arent tellin them! I hope I helped!
*CaItLyN*

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