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why does my frend cares when i cuss? cause when i say the F word shes all"stop saying bad words" and i told her"like you dont say it" and she was all"i say it when people are not around" why does she care when i cuss? is she being a good friend or what? (link)
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My parents told me cussing is a sign of ignorance, so I rarely do. I, personally, tend to get annoyed when people cuss ALL the time, and my friends are like that too.
Basically, it sometimes puts down other people, even if it's not directed at them.
Everyone cusses sometimes, just learn to control it.
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ive had my best friend since kindergarden and we've been off and on since then. when were off we just dont talk and arnt friends at all, when were on we are the best together. ive had my other best friend since 5th grade and were inseperable. me and S (5th grade bf) are still together and always will be probably. but with K (other bf since kindergarder) she has other friends from tennis and she seems to love them more than us and she always just leaves us for them and never can hang out. shes done this alot of times over the summer over atleast 5 times. me and s and her were like a trio but now were not. i love k so much and i cry because i miss how she was.. but not she is hanging out with the fake girls in our school acting like one. i dont know if i shouldnt try and get the friendship back togther or what. i mean i dont think i did anything wrong she always leaves us. please help so i cant stop being a baby and crying about sometheing that i probably shouldnt feel horrible about.
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People change, you have to learn to accept it. Friendships can die, but memories live on forever. Remember all the good times you used to have with her.
If she's not willing to want to hang out with you, you probably deserve better friends. This is a vague statement but there are plenty more fish in the sea, you just need to find a new set of friends, and take your time, this problem might solve itself.
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ok, just as the title, i do NOTHING! right when i get home,Bam,on the computer. i only have school friends,and no one wants to hang out with a uninteresting person. omg,no lie,im so boring! i dont even do anything,i just feel like i cant!the only thing i do is on wednesday,musical theater,but thats not even school related. i really need to be more social,and happier. how can i do this?! help?! i need to do something with my life! (link)
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hmm, I see that you're into drama? try getting involved with a debate team or the school play. Find out which subject is your strong point at school. If you're good at languages, perhaps joining a foreign language club? You don't even have to do something school-wise. Find a hobby that really interests you. If you like being on the computer, perhaps you might enjoy learning html or java or c++, computer languages. Theres so many things out there, you just have to take the first plunge.
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13/f. for the past 2 years i have been playing softball. this year 4 of my friends are doing it also, and i get left out sometimes. now since they are doing it, i don't know if i want to do softball. plus, one of them is taking my spot(pitcher). i was thinking about trying track because i am a decent runner, but i dont know anyone whose doing it.
soo, should i still do softball and probably get left out? or try track?
please help soon, tryouts are this week
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Track is pretty cool. I run track and I'm really enjoying it. But don't let your friends ruin a sport for you that you like. Although doing track might broaden your sports abilities. Go for it.
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i kno this is long but please take the time to read it and help me. my best friend in the entire world has completely changed. i spent the whole summer with her and we were inseperable. but when i went back home, because she lives in another state, i met some new people. i met this girl and guy and the three of us became really good friends. she started talking to them and me and her talked less. we started getting in huge fights and now we are in the biggest fight ever because shes changed a lot. it used to be that no matter what we could call each other and cheer each other up. but i called her to cheer me up and she ignored me and then lied to me about calling the person i was upset about. now we are in a huge fight. what should i do? (link)
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If I were you I would take this time to find new friends. I'm not saying that the relationship is over, but in case you and her begin to upset each other too much, then you have some new friends to back you up.
Be careful in choosing friends. It's ok to be picky.
If you're picky about your friends, then this situation will be a lot less likely to happen.
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Okay, the other day at school a lot of high school kids came to our school and my best friends sister came. My best friend (shelby) also has another sister that goes to my school(nicole), so me, shelby, her older sister(brianna), and nicole and HER best friend (Rachael) were sitting there talking to her Brianna. Me and rachael already know brianna because we have gone over to her younger sisters houses so we know her pretty well. So, rachael goes up to brianna and they give eachother a hug. Then i go up to her and try to give her a hug and she dosent hug back and it was really embarrising. She gave everyone a hug except for me. Then i thought, "o great, next year when i go to high school, i will have no friends" I thought this because Brianna would hug everybody but me and i am scared that i am just not ready for high school. I know that this has nothing to do with high school but i already dont have a boyfriend and all my other friends do and they r way more expeirienced so those are two reasons i think i am not ready and i feel ugly and like a baby. I know this may not seem like a big deal to everybody but to me it is, so could someone please help? Thanks so much! :) (link)
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Hey. I am a freshman in highschool and I STILL don't have a girlfriend. Statistics actually proven that only 30 percent of people even get boyfriends/girlfriends until college, so don't sweat it.
High School is no different than middle school, when teachers tell you otherwise, they lie.
You don't need a boyfriend. The fact that you don't shows guys that you are a prestigious young lady who isn't going to go out with "the average Joe." Guys like me respect that.
If you want a healthy relationship, I suggest that you wait for the right moment.
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13/f.my really close friend is pretty, smart, has a boyfriend for 8 months and everyone loves her. i love her too and im in one of her classes. she tells me that she never studies, and she gets perfect grades. her lowest grade EVER was an 89. alot of the time shes always bragging about things, thats just an example. shes basically a teachers pet in every class and sometimes its annoying. i just wanna go right up to her and say how she really isnt perfect, and its ok to make mistakes.
what can i do to calm myself down or possibly tell her(i'd rather not). UGH SO FRUSTRATEDD! help is appreciated. (link)
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Everybody makes mistakes. She's just good at hiding them. I've had friends like this before and eventually they WILL make a mistake and it will most likely be a big one. And about her grades, what grade are you in 7th? 7th grade is easy compared to most. Don't worry. You are actually preparing yourself for life better than her because you know how to react to mistakes unlike her.
Hope I helped.
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