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Hey ask me advice ANY time!! My name is Kristen,and im 14 years old :].Im good at giving relationship advice,but i also know many other things as well! Drop a question in my inbox any time and i'll give ya an answer right away ! ^.^ Im very understanding with things:)I am outgoing and fun.I dont like people who judge to fast>.
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ok well im punk and i really wanna dress punk and like i wanna start dressing punk not goth but my mom is not really likeing it but o well what are some styles to be punk other the wearing black and having converses cuz i do that already and i rate 5s
Well,studded things are punk,but most of the people i know that are into the punk style make there own clothes,or buy things they like jackets(weather its preppy or anything) then they'll change it into what they really like,(add studs,designs,anything like that.) i cant really tell you any stores that i know of punk clothes,because its really original type of clothing,everyone is different. try hottopic (which every single other peorson would say) but it is easiest to find things there,rather than other stores.colors - pink,black,crimson,white.(more,its all up to you,you make your own style)
hair styles are usually (from what i see) are either spikey layers with streaks.or short hair.but its your style,so we cant really tell you what to do :).make somthing different up:)!!
i used to have a lot of friends and allt he guys liked me. but this year we went to the new school and everyone hates me and talks about me and i pretty much have no freinds and i didnt even do anything, i even lost my best freind and people only talk to me when certian people are around. It sucks so much what should i do.
im sooo sorryyy!!! but you know what,if they judge to fast,if they believe lies and dont ask you about it,what good of friends would they be?Trust me,next year,they'll pick on someone new.Every stupid snob thinks they can get away with this,but they cant! karma*.it ALWAYS comes back. who ever started this,will get it back 3x as bad.who knows maybe everyone will hate that person next year.my sugesstion - keep a high goal and focus on the upside. i remember when i was going through that, i wanted to be [and still do] a singer/actor.Then when they saw my name in lights they'd be wishing they are never did that :p. You have to think -- everything happens for a Reason*.and dwelling on others that wont have a chance to get to know you- is not worth it.im not saying to compleatly shut them out...but if you dont talk to them,they cant get any dirt on you.i really hope you relize there is nothing wrong with you,it is this one person conducting it all.So be bold,be strong,and be happy!! i think you should take acting lesson,gymnastics,anything,because then you can meet new people.And if she really was your best friend,she would know that just because others hate you doesnt mean she has to hate you.she actually should have been helping you!! things will get better!! with every wild card comes great success =] i REALLY mean this--
Gooooooooooooddd luuccckk!!!!
13/f
sry if this is long :/ ill rate
k, so me and this girl lex were bffs since 2nd grade (were in 7th grade now). last summer this girl shayla moved in across the street. we were immediatly friends. when school started the 3 of us were all friends and did stuff together all the time. but then near the end of 6th grade and this past summer, they started always doing stuff without me all the time and lying to me. and then in sept, shayla imed me and was like, "you're sucha loser i hate you dont talk to me" so i figured lex would back me up, but it turns out she was with her the whole time, going along with it.(shayla told lex i talked about her all the time, which was a COMPLETE lie) soo now im not friends with them. they're really popular this year and best friends and have all their popular friends. but lex told my sister she misses me and wants to be friends again cuz shayla admitted to her that she was lyin the whole time about me talking about her and feels bad. and i miss her too and wanna be friends but its soo complicated because they're with their new popular friends now and i know that if we were friends again it wouldnt be the same. but still, i miss her and get really sad when i think about all the mems...i mean, come on, we were bffs for 6 years. well i have no idea what to do, so plzz help ! thanks
become her friend again!talk about the memories and she'll remeber all the good times and how it used to be!! become friends with her friends and everythinggggg =] think of this as a new start and it doesnt matter that she changed,she misses you,so obviously she remebers how things were!! i think you'll be popular to if you become friends...and im not saying that popularity is the issue,i doubt that you care about being popular (because your cool like that =P) i'd say-yes become friends with lex and talk a lot,jave fun!! and shayla will come to you,and hopfully she'll say sorry,but she already confessed so thats a good thing.act like nothing bad happend between you and lex,like you were best friends with her and nothing split you apart! =D
OK i was really mad at my friend krista because she did unspeakably mean things to me. because of it, she was asking em why i was mad, so on myspace i posted a blog about it. now my best friend marissa who is good friends with krista is getting mad at me for writing all those things about krista and telling her why she was mad. One of the things krista did was tell marissa the mother of all secrets, that my other friend, luke, thats like a brother to me was gay. marissa liked luke, and as a result got mad at me for not telling her. but i couldent tell her because i couldent have it on my concience that i made someone feel that badly, and i didnt want to break the news to her. when i found out that he was gay, i got really depressed and had to tell somebody, and i told leah, my other best friend who would never tell a soul any secret. when marissa found out tho, leah told her that she knew and that i told her, and marissa got really mad at me because i told leah and not her. marissa has been my best friend since 5th grade and i really dont want to lose her. and im afraid i am, because she sent me 2 hate letters and dissed me so badly on aim, and marissa is the nicest person in the world and would never do anything like that so i was shocked when she did. i really want marissa back as a friend, and dont say talk to her, becuase when i tried that she cussed me out and i was basiclly grovelling 4 forgiveness, so that wont work. i really need advice, please help me.
catherine
you could always do this (write to her on aim and dont expect her to talk back,just write it,it'll help)say - ~~~Hey,im really sorry,for everything.For talking bad about krista,for not telling you a really important sercret,everything.I dont expect you to write back,you dont have to,just here me out.I couldn't see you get hurt if i told you about luke,because if it hurt me that badly,you would be hurt even more.I just remember all our fun memories and i get upset that this tore us apart.You dont have to say anything,you can even cuss me out all you want,I just really wanted you to know im extreamly sorry..~~~
The best thing about this is you get things off of your chest.She'll probably just brush it off,then again she could tell you something in return.But if she is still mad,you have to bare it,you cant change her.Only she can realize things.Meeting new people is also a good thing.Just have fun with your life and think "if i stayed friends with them,maybe more bad things would have happend" "If i didnt get into a fight with them i probably wouldnt have had the chance to be who i am" "I defended myself and stood up for what i think,and theres no way there gunna make me scared of them" In time they'll come around,you just have to be on your toes with them.No secret is safe no matter what,even if luke told some one else.Everything happens for a reason! I would find another group,stay nice to them no matter how mean they are,and just have fun!Life is to short to dwell on the negative things :].Im trying to encourage you,to know that some times no matter how close you guys were there was a reason for this.and you know,it will be better if you just forget about them for a LITTLE while.you should never have to cry about friends,espcailly if they were so close to you!sorry if i didnt give you great advice,but i really hope i did encourage you and help you to see things differently!:]
seriously,
GOOODDD LUUCCKK!! :] :]:]:]