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the new school season started fine unti I realized i had no friends. Everything I say always comes out wrong or stupid and I feel sso stupid. Like whenever I talk to someone each person is from a totally different crowd so i dont fit in with any crowd because no crowd wants me to be their friend.. and i cant stand liers so that doesnt help either,.. ANYTHING THAT WILL HELP PLEASE IM ME AT, youaremybaby6
thanks you.iratehigh~

aww babe, i'm your friend!! && i always will be. one friend is enough.. && i can name a few people who are your friend. i love you babe!! don't wanna about the quanity,it's about the quality.

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hey nicole,

i think u might know who this is, but here is the question, i have liked this guy since 4 grade and i know he doesnt like me but i really like him a lot, and i just want to know if i should go and ask him out or just not and wait, well i do like another guy but he doesnt like me either so i need help? o yeah i am in your grade, i was in your homeroom last year

Hey sweetie, go for it!! i mean you only have one life... so i say that that risk! Because if it ends up really being like its worth the risk. And if its not meant to be im always here to help you!! "If its meant to be, it'll happen" thats my motto! so hun.. go for it!! hope i helped!! xoxo -nicoooole taylor x3

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Hey Nicole, i know this guy and hes real nice to me and hes easy to talk to and i like him, and my friend told him i liked him and now sometimes when he has a gf he will start braging about her like how much he luvs her and such and it really makes me feel bad sometimes. Is he trying to make me feel bad or what cuz it pises me off a lot and makes me not like him more n more. help!

Hey Sweetie, hmmm this is tough. I know how you feel. It's happend to me before and I think he's trying to make you jealous. But I could never tell. I would just try to go along with it and be like "aww that's so cute!" or something. OR since you said he's easy to talk to ask him about it. Be like "hey j/w but why do you always talk to me about your girlfriends?" But I think you could look at it three ways. Either he's trying to get you jealous and trying to show you what you are missing out on because maybe he likes you. OR he is trying to not make you like him or he's just bragging to you about it because he knows you like him. So I guess the only thing you can do is talk to him about it or go along with it. Hope I helped!! x0x Nicole Taylor x0x

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hey nicole people kept on treating me like i am nothing and makeing fun of me and more mean stuff should i just live with it or what?

*************FROM SOMEONE******************

Okay, I kinda need more information. Like, did you do something to make them make fun of you,what they make fun of you about,what they say and things like this. And i would be glad to help you out!! I'm here for you!! xOxO -NiCoLe TaYlOr

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Hey nicole its diana! just wanted to hi lyl~ ttul!

Hey Di,haha I love u 2!!! xOxO ~NiCoLe

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hi nicole,
u answered my question about my friend and how she blackmails me. and u sid that she is not a true friend then, right? well i am tryin not to hang out around/with her but she is always following me and she wont leave me alone. What should i do {i can't just tell her to leave me alone or she will spred rumors about me}?

Just write her a note saying we can't hang out because of how you act. And list some things she did. This has happend to me before. She's definently NOT a friend. Well Hope I helped! xOxO ~NiCoLe

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hay nicole,
my friend she is really annoyin. she WILL NOT leave me ALONE! she always gets me into trouble. I tell the teacher sometimes, the teacher gives her a talk but she keeps buggin me. one time i was out at recess and she pushed me into the snow and i got into trouble. FYI: she thinks i am her friend, but im not {no one else likes her}What should i do?

Hey Hun, the easiest thing for me is to right them a note saying we can't hang out until your change a lil.And tell her what she did. I don't really know what else to say.IM me on CoKeIzZle X 13.IF you wish.HoPe I HeLpEd xOxO ~NiCoLe

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Hay!
My friend is always takin my stuff and my friends.she also blackmails me and all of my friends if she wants sumthin that we do not give her.i dnt want to tell her that she is actin that way and hurt her feelings {it is not that easy}. what should i do?

Hey Hun,she's not a true friend. I know you don't want to hear this but she is pretty much using you.Been there done that. Sorry! HoPe I HeLpEd! You know where to find me! xOxO ~NiCoLe

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hey Nicole,
My friend chooses when she wants to be my friend and it gets really annoying. She likes this guy and he is going out with a 7th grader and my friend is really mean to her.and my friend changes when she is around him !!!!!
What would you do?????
****Mandy*****

Hey Hun, Shes not a true friend ditch her! If she is gonna CHOOSE when she wants to be your friend.That's called USING YOU! Sorry Mandi but you need deserve better friends. HoPe I HeLpEd xOxO ~NiCoLe

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hi u dont kno me but i could use some advice.Theres this girl at school and she liked me for a while. When i asked her to be my girlfriend she said no and gave me an excuse. She now hangs out with another guy and says she still likes me. Her best friend said that she would get hurt by that guy and come back to me. Im really confused!

Hey babe,
From what u said I think she is using you in a twisted way.When he hurts her she will come to you.As her friend says.You're her sencond wheel.Don't let it happen.Do you like her?If you do flirt with her.Try to "steal" her away.Hope I helped!U know where to find me!XoXo NiCoLe~

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Okay, my best friend for like life -- we will call her betty -- has alot of boys crushin on her. About all my guy friends like her (I dont have that many) and they are always asking me to ask betty stuff like 'ask her if she likes me?' 'Ask her if she thinks i'm hott' 'Would I ever have a chance with her' stuff like that. It bugs me because I know they arent her type, that she doesnt like them more than a friend, or stuff like that and i dont want to be mean and be like no. so i kinda sugar coat the truth, but anyways, i feel like the only reason they are my friend is so they can get stuff on betty. Do you think that is why they are being my friend? What should I do because i dont like being used.

P.S. 14/f (so is my friend)

Hey Sweetie
I don't really know what you are going through but i will try to help ya out.Next time they ask you to ask her something just be like "You ask her" (in like a flirty/joking around way).HoPe I HeLpEd XoXo NiCoLe~

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Well i am in 7th grade and my bestfriend is moving to West Varginia and i just met her at the beginning of the year and now she is moving at the end of january and i am gonna take it very hard because we are like bestfriends soooooooo what should i give her and tell her b4 she leaves??????? Need Help Fast!!!!!!!!! Thanx
oxoxoxo,
C.S.

Hey Hun,Give her a BIG surprise party that she will NEVER forget!!Remmeber to keep intact with her!!hope i helped!XoXo NiCoLe~!

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Well out of the blue, starting after winter vacation, my old best friend is coming back to my school. We were best friends growing up till third grade when she lefty for a Catholic school well now she's comign to my public school and she was nervous and called me up for the first time in 4 years. NOw that I am the only one she knows it means that sjhe gets to "shadow" me for her first week till she learnes where everything is. I kinda don't want her around anynmore though, she immature and I have outgrown her and made new friends. Yet i feel stuck becuase her mom called my mom and said how excited she was and stuff and i can't just bum her off on someone.... What can i DO?

Hey sweetie,maybe she changed!Give her a chance.Cathlic School is very strict give she probably changed!So just give her a chance to make friends but while she does that let her stick around with you.Hope I helped and it works out!!XoXo Nicole~

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This year i made a lot of friends and they are alll really popular and they are my really close friends. They used to invite me to everything that they did and now they don't so i don't no if they still like me as their CLOSE FRIEND! COULD HELP ME OUT HERE!!

Hey sweetie,talk to them,if they were "real" friends they would understand.And if they aren't and don't understand find new friends!hope i helped XoXo Nicole~!

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well is it wrong to like someone elses boyfriend? Well, i have this friend who is one of my best friends and she has a boyfriend who i think is wicked hott..and i sometimes have dreams about him but not always. I mean this best friend is wicked nice and i love her to death& i would take a bullet for her..but she has boyfriends all the time & i never had one boyfriend..and i wanna be happy& shes always happy.and im never happy. i mean its not like im gonna go steal him away from her cause im not that kind of friend or girl. but i dont know what to do or think.. should i just forget about this and just keep liken the boy ive been liken for a long time now or what? need some help..

Hey Sweetie,ask her to hook you up with 1 of her boyfriends friend!Thats only if you like them of course! But i think you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel! Maybe she can get you a date with the guy you like for a long time since she doesn't really have a trouble with guys!hope i helped!XoXo Nicole~

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OK so me and my Best friend have been friends since like third grade...we live by eachother and we would hang out all the time....In Elementary school it was great..then when junior high hit we still hung out but not as much...we talked all the time and we were still very close...but then highschool happened....it seemed that she became friends with alot of the cooler crowd and would only talk to me when it was conveinent for her....Now we are in the same church group so i see her every sunday and she talked to me there....I kind of feel like i am her second wheel...like if no one better is around she will talk to me...or if all of her "cooler" friends were gone all weekend then she wood call me....is she just using me? I dont know what to do.....HELP!

Hey Sweetie,You need to talk to her. And i think she is using you so that it makes her more popular that she 'always' has someone around. So if i were you I woud find some new friends and hang out with them. That happen to me last year. No worries everything will work out!!hope i helped!XoXo NiCoLe~

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ok my best friend is going out with kid and he is younger than her and he is crazy and jumped her brother and pulled a knife out on him and said he was going to kill me and our other friend to but she wont listen to me,.. i tell her to dump him but she said she loves him and i dont no what to do and they had sex and he is two years younger (sorry i cant spell) and they have only bin going out for like three weeks and i dont know what to do PLEASE HELP!!!=(

Hey Hun,you really need to lay down the law to her!Time her whats going on and what a bad kid he is! Tell her straight out before things get serious!Tell his mom!God Bless hope it works out and hope i helped! XoXo NicOle

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My friend invited me over to her house so we could call people n stuff. Because I have a cellphone and she doesn't, and I think she's only using me to talk to her boyfriend. Anyways, i'm moving this summer and I need to spend as much time with my closest friends possible so I vinted 4 of my best friends over for a small group gathering. I told her that I didn't want to go to her house and she could come to my house so we could all hang out. And she said NO to me!! I'm so mad about this but I kind of understand since I blew her off in the first place. But still, she shouldn't be mad over something so stupid................right?

Hey Hunny,I think you guys both need to talk to eachother and apologize.You guys both did somthing wrong and you need to fix it.Because i don't think you want to remember your last year there with a fight with your best friend!hope i helped! xOxO Nicole~

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Me and this guy are really close. And he did stupid crap in the past but says he doesn't do them anymore. He's at a party tonight and i can't help but fear he's gonna go back on all that he promised me. We are just friends so should I be this worried? And if he does stuff, should I care? He's only my friend. Not like he's cheating on me. But yet i sit hear trembling he's doing exactly what he said he wouldnt...

Hey hun,hes your friend,you should be able to trust him! You shouldn't be worried!But if you wanna find out if he is still oding that ask one of his guy friends!hope i helped xoxo nicole

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ok...i have turned into a complete and total prep..my family had ALOT of money...i get 100 every 2 weeks for allowence...and next month, i am getting a brand new SL55 AMG mercedes-benz...
but only my family knows about it...i dont want to tell anyone else, but people are starting to find out...my old friends have started calling me a "rich bitch" just because of the colthes i wear...and they completly kicked me out of the clique...so i started hanging out with the other "rich kids" and they are really nice...everyone thinks that they are evil, just because they have money...next semester, my parents are sending me to a private school..which i also havent told anyone about...and tuition alone is 18,000 per year, let alone books and uniforms...people are turning their backs on me just because i have money, and i am dreading to find out how many of my friends are going to leave me after they find out how much money i actually have..i feel really sad that my friends are leaving me just because i have alot of money...i could understand if i was bragging about it, but i havent told anyone...what do i do?

hey sweetie,they aren't real friends then if they like you because you have money or not. If I were you I would just talk to your friends and if they don't understand they aren't real friends and stick with the other "rich people" and act like it's not that great.Maybe people will start to like you again!hope i helped!xoxo Nicole

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