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ok this weekend i got my hair cut and i went by myself this time when usually i go with my mom. well my hair person is a guy. and idk who to tell ive only told 1 person and they said i should tell my mom but im so scared. well neways he was talkin bout my tan lin efrom my bikini and then he started lookin at it and he pulled my shirt down and by bra out so he could see my whole boob and i tried to pull his hand away but he grabbed my hand and pulled my shirt down even more. i dint knwo wut to do cuz hes a big buff guy and i was scared to do nething. we were the only ones in there so i couldnt do nething. then he kept grabbin my boobs and he unzipped his pants and told me to look and i told him that i didnt want to and he still did. then after he grabbed my chin and kiss me on the lips like 5 times. and hes like tell me u would do me if u were older.. (im 15 hes 32)and i tried to turn away again and he grabbed my chin and said look at me in a mean controlin voice. i felt so uncomfortable and idk who to tell. idk if u would call that molestation or wut. and its horrible bc i cry all the time now, its been 2 days since it happend. and everytime i wash my hair i remember it and i start to cry bc i was gettin my hair done when this happend. im so scared to tell my parents. what should i do????
plz help me im so scared

You should DEFINATELY tell a grown up! he probably does that to many other girls that are too scared to tell anyone, so tell someone!! Its not like its your fault, so you shouldn't be scared to tell anyone. Hope this Helps and im really sorry this has happend to you!

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I've seen people talking about AIM Conversation Logs where you can read conversations you've had over AIM...If that makes sense...

How do you do that?

you have to have a certain kind of aim, if you have this you should be able to go to 'my aim' on your buddylist and it will say 'log manager' and click on that... All of your conversations will show up. Hope this helps..

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my friends were all at a party.. and they started talking smack about some ppl they didnt like... these happend to be my friends.. so i just sat there and didnt say anything.. later i went and told my friends what others were saying .. and now some ppl are mad at me.... i meean shouldnt they be careful about who there talking crap about... well i apoligized and told um sorry.. but there still mad... plus get this.. last time someone was talking shti at a party it was about me.. and im glad someone told me... so waht do i do...? signed tell the truth?

~*a*M*y*~

You did the right thing by not taking part in it, and by telling them. Who cares if they get mad at you, they shouldn't be the ones mad, they were the ones who were being jerks!! And you didn't need to apologize, you were looking out for your friends and thats the right thing to do. Hope this helps!! :) xoxo-me

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Me and my 4 best friends are really close. I mean we're always together..but lately, I've been feeling left out. and I don't really know if they wanna be friends with me anymore. Or if things are changing or what. Can someone please help me!

Talk to them about it!! Many girls have this same problem, so just ask them why they aren't including you, and if they keep doing it, don't let them know its bothering you, just ask casually! Hope this helps!

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I have this friend who i used to talk to everyday and stayed up until 3 in the morning talkin to her on the phone, but now days it seems like we've moved apart or are not as close as we once were! We still talk but how can i tell whats going on between us? I'll rate high if its good advice!!!

I have had this problem. Just tell her that you really miss haning out and talking to her like you used to. Ask her if she's noticed that you aren't as close anymore. Make plans for you two to go shopping, or on a trip together. Hope this helped!

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ok me and my best friend have been best friends for about 2 years now. During the first year of our friendship she had a crush on this guy and ugly guy who she thinks is hot. On the last day of school that same year he asked her out and they have been going out for over a year. The next year it got worse. her boyfriend was nice to me at first but then he started to kick me and say mean things to me.Later on in the year i could start telling that my so called best friend was getting jealous of me because i had nicer clothes, more friends and had been asked out 6 times and had alot of people thinking i was hot while she was asked out once and only her boyfriend thought she was hot. She startes takeing his side over mine and would never stand up to me. When i started to hang out more and more with my neighbors she got even more jealous i started hanging out more with another friend and we are now best friends. she doesn't rly know about it yet. she keeps sending me letters and asking me over but she never calls me. i want to let her go and not be best friends w. her anymore b/c i can't be friends w. someone whos b/f hates me!!!
help!!!
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* MaCky*

Just because you and her boyfriend don't get along, doesn't mean you can't be friends with her. Try just hanging out with her, and only her, not with her boyfriend. Also her boyfriend could just be jealous that she hangs out with you sometimes too and not just him all the time. But don't lose your best friend over a guy.. cuz if hes a jerk to you then hes not worth it!! If your friend is jealous about you having other friends, she probably feels like shes being replaced, And trust me, thats not a nice feeling. Talk to her about it! Hope I helped!!
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me

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Sorry this is so long, but u need the whole story to understand.

About a week ago, I had sex with my boyfriend. The next day, i told my best friend about it. Since im only 14, she flipped out on me. She told me I was WAY too young and I was stupid for doing that. She made me promise I wouldn't do it again until I was older.

She has always said she will respect what I do even if I do mess up. But she didn't understand that.

A few days ago, I had sex with him again, and didn't tell her. I talked to her on the phone last night, and I accidently told her I had sex again, and she flipped out. She asked me a bunch of stupid questions, but I answered them. I also let it slip that I gave my first blow job. She REALLY got mad about that, so I told her I was kidding about it and I had never done that.

I want to tell her I did all that stuff, but im afraid she won't understand. Is there any easy way to tell her? or is it best just left alone?

Well obviously, its best not to tell her because she doesn't want you doing those things, but if shes your best friend... then I know you're supposed to tell them everything. If she doesn't understand then shes not a true friend. I agree with her that you're too young, but thats not my business. Just try to tell her that you were the one who made the choices, and she should accept them. hope i helped :)

Good luck!
xoxo
Megan

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we have this party thing in our town every year. all the kids our age hang out (its HUGE and EVERYONE is there) and just the whole town and school district come. i have these 2 great friends (ones my boyfriend) im not sure if i should invite them to spend the night with me and my friends and their parents can come and hang out with my family and everyone elses family. i think it would be a lot of fun. they would only know me and one of my best friends. im not sure if i should invite them or not because its usually a night to enjoy with just my friends. i love it. im not sure if it will be better with or without my 2 friends who aren't from our school there. help me outt!

Im sure they'd love it if you invite them, and you would even have a better time, you'd have everyone that you enjoy being around there! It would most likely be better. If you think you'd have fun then go for it!! Ask them if they'd feel comfortable going. You said they'd only know you and one of your best friends, so that way, they could meet new people. Good LuCk! :)

Hope I helped!

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umm.. i have this friend and she is like my best friend but ever since her and this other girl that she met have became closer friends she has shut me out and i dont know what i should tell her and so i said something to her about it and she told me that she didnt want to tlak to me ne more if you have ne advice that would be helpful plz answer me i will rate everyone that answers my question thanks alot
-DesPErTlY WoRrIEd-

Okay, first thing ask her why all of a sudden she's just shuttin you out.. if there's anything you did or said. Also, maybe invite both of them over, because then you can get to know her other friend, maybe she'll become a great friend to you too! Just keep tryin to figure out whats going on with her, good luck! :)

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Ok..my friend always talks about her ex BF. Ive heard about him soo much and im tired of it. i mean shes not dating him nemore! I try to laugh it off and say..oh no ur talking about justin again but it doesnt she just keeps talking about him!..what should i do?

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Well, if shes talking about him all the time, she probabaly has feelings for him again. Why don't you just ask her why she talks about him so much, in a nice way so she doesn't get offended. Then if she does like him, encourage her to ask him out, or hang out with them both at the same time. Good luck!!

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my bestfriend has a crush on this guy thats one year older then us and i think i like him too...b/c like every time im with him he turns me on somehow..i don't want to let my friend down but i don't think that boy even like my bff and i dun think he likes me ethier...wat do i do?

I don't think you should make a choice that would hurt your friendship.. especially if shes your bff like you said. You should talk to her and ask her how she feels about it, and then maybe ask him how he feels about you.. and then how he feels about her.

Hope I Helped!

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plz u all i'm bout 2 loose my best friend..ok look...we were supose 2 meet @ 1 of our hang outs ...n then i didnt show up..n i didnt call her and she got pissed but i have done these things b4 not meaning to hurt her i had just had a death in my family (father) and everything was hecktic..i have told her this over n over again...she doesnt get it...wat do i do???

Okay, Sorry this is happening in such a bad time, and it must be really hard for you. If your friend is really a best friend she should understand that you are going through a really tough time and that you don't always have time just for her, but just try to apologize for not showing up, if she's a true friend, she'll understand.

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