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Hey everyone. My name is Caleb, and I am a 16 year old male. I really enjoy helping others with problems they may be having. If you have a question about anything at all, just ask, and I'll give you the best advice I can. Thanks.
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ok so I have these 2 friends....We r really close but just like anyone sometimes i just get tired of being with them.....well first off they had planned to go bowlin....i hadnt heard that we were going for sure all day so another friend of mine called and since i had not heard from them i made other plans....next.....we had planned to go see some free concert and the day of the concert i had softball practice and didnt' really like the guy that was singing...so i didn't go and the whole time they were gone they called me tryin to rub it in that i didnt' go and tryed to make me wish i was there....when all i thought was nothin cause i didn't wanna go.....Then the next day they said something about going to see fireworks...but when they called me I was at my sister's fixin to get in the tannin bed and i wasn't ready.....So that night i went with my sis and her family somewhere else ot see fireworks... Was I wrong for not doing that stuff with them? Should I feel bad about it? cause as fo rite now i really dont' feel bad about it cause i did what i wanted ot do and went where i wanted to go .....
please help!!!!!!!!!!
No, you weren't wrong. I know what you mean about getting tired of em too. I mean I have friends that I love to death' I'd take a bullet for em, but sometimes I just need to spend some time away from em. It's like that with anything. In no way were you wrong, and your friends have probably done the same thing. So, don't worry about it; it's perfectly fine and normal to do. I hope I helped. Friendly advice from Caleb.
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My brother is sometimes nice to me but when he is mean to me he hits me or pushes me and kicks me. He is older than me and i dont know wut to do. I tell my mom and my sisters my mom says she is going to talk to them about it but she never does! My sisters tell him to stop and go to his room but he just does it when they rnt looking just a while ago he got my head and hit it against the wall. I want to talk to my mom about it but i don't know how to. Can u please help ASAP HELP Please i am begging i am so sad,And mad AHH help
Well, to me, it sounds like your brother needs to be set straight. You definitely need to tell your mother about how you feel about this. This is obviously something that is really bothering you, so you need to relate this to your mom. Letting her know how you really feel is the best way to solve this. If you tell her how you feel in a sincere manner, it will probably make her realize the severity of the matter. I hope that you get this cleared up. Friendly advice from Caleb.
this girl that says im her best friend always talks about my other friends behind their back, so i tell them because i dont think its right for her to do that. The other day she was talking about one of my friends named danielle, and so i told danielle this weekend and dnaielle said that my suppose to best friend called me a spoiled brat and a bitch and said that she doesnt hang out wtih me that much because i act stuck up .. but she is always calling me. I talked to the best friend and she siad she didnt say that, but how do i know because she always talks about everyone else to me. What should i do? i rate high!!
Ok, it sounds like your so-called best friend is two-faced. Most likely she's telling you one thing and telling others something else. Friends like that aren't worth having. You should talk to her about her issues. Someone like that is untrustworthy. You need to find out how she really feels; she may tell you a lie, and give her another chance. If this continues, you should probably cut her loose and move on. Friendly advice from Caleb.
I am a thirteen year old girl and I have a close male friend. We usually get on quite well and we are always talking and hugging. We used to be attracted to each other and he on/off still is to me but I don't feel that way about him. Everyone says we act like we're a couple and that we should get together but I honestly don't want to. We are very close but are we too close? I admit I hug him more than my other friends but I don't have any feelings for him. So is it wrong to be this close to him if we're not in a relationship?
Well, being a guy, my first response to that is that you may be leading him on. By giving him so much attention (hugs,etc.) he may be thinking that you are attracted to him; I know I would think that. So, in answer to your question, maybe you are too close to him; it's best not to lead him on if you're just in it to be friends. Friendly advice from Caleb.